Why is he the only one that gives me butterflies?

[anime-queen813]

Every time I see him or someone says his name, I get butterflies and feel like I'm gonna burst. What does this mean? Out of all of my crushes, he is the only one these feelings happen with.

[MartialArtsManiac]

This is what a lot of people refer to as '*the* X factor' when it comes to attraction to someone else. Its not something that makes sense, or is easily describable, but you know that there's something about that person that draws you to them more than anyone else.

What does he do that other guys don't do? Does he treat you right, respect you? If he's the only one that makes you feel this way he's obviously doing something different, or different from other guys in some way. Some way that may be small, but incredibly pivotal.

This question is hard to answer, because each person experiences this 'x factor' for difference reasons. If you really want to know what about this guy gets you so excited then you'll probably just have to spend a lot of time analyzing what he does, who he is, etc.

While you don't really have ot bother 'researching' why he makes you feel this way, in most cases getting this 'flutter' from a certain person is a good sign that you should probably pursue at least getting to know this person on a more personal level.

[chantillykate]

Excellent advice! Perfectly said!

[Jarett]

Sometimes there are just certain people that light our fire like that. There are lots of really attractive girls that I think are good looking. But then there are some that there is just that spark where you feel something more. There is no real explanation. Lol it happens to all of us.

[Anonymous]

Omg I have the EXACT same problem. There are 300 some guys at my school and out of all of them there is only one that gives me butterflies and makes me smile when I hear his name. It is just our hormones are attracted to this one person, maybe he is, in your eyes, the perfect match.