MEN: Arm hair on women, turn on or turn off?

[indian_empress_91]

I have some arm hair more like alyssa milano. I am self conscious about it at times not always. But would it be a turn off?

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[CellLuddite]

Heh heh. This ones a toughie. It depends. Firstly I want to share that I have been attracted to fuzzy girls in the past. Those Latina girls... Mmmm.

It all depends on how the arm hair combines with other features. Hair is kind of gross. It needs to be like the one and only flaw in an otherwise perfect body. Then I can perceive it a cute and quirky feature.

See, it works for Alyssa because she has other things working for her. Post a pic and I can say for sure. But most likely you're going to want to shave it off just to be on the safe side.

[indian_empress_91]

well most guys don't care, and exes would tug it and i would feel weird. Yea I wax it once a month. But it's annoying to. Luckily it's just my arms. I would take a pic but somehow it doesn't show up in pictures

[3nzkiwi]

I never notice it. Not something I look at. All girls I've been interested in are either blonde or light brown hair. So the hair on there arm is really light. Not even noticeable.
And even on girls with darker hair. It's not something I look for or even worry/care about. It's arm hair. No big deal.

[indian_empress_91]

Do you think a lot of guys would care?

[3nzkiwi]

I've never talked to a guy who thought arm hair was a turnoff, I mean obviously if it's like a lot of hair, which I completely doubt it is, most girls don't have a lot of arm hair. I doubt most guys even notice if a girl has arm hair or not.

[Jbgurl20]

I have arm hair, haha friends usually make fun of me being hairy. My ex even called me wolverine because of it but I will not shave it.. I don't think it's a turn off because guys have seen me with it and it was never really a problem

[knotme]

I would say don't shave your arm hair, that's ridiculous to me. My girls don't and they have arm hair like her as well, and never had a problem with getting guys.

[indian_empress_91]

Yea I don't have problem getting guys, I just feel bad when he's with me and I can see other girls who don't have any at all

[knotme]

Do these guys on here realize you are say arm hair; not armpit hair.

[knotme]

Why do you feel bad about something that is part of your ethnicity; each ethnicity has there on character and traits, that's what makes up different, and sometimes more exotic.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Yes it is which is why i wax mine. Thats the only downside of being a Latina

[indian_empress_91]

Yea I hate having it. But yea I will just have to wax.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Try sugaring it is less painful

[roundbobby]

I haven't opened the photos because it would jam up my iPod, but I am friends with girls who shave/don't shave their arms.

I don't think having/not having arm hair is an issue, as long as the hair is not hugely obvious (eg blonde hair on white skin would be fine). This is my opinion up to the point where your arm looks like cat fur :)

[indian_empress_91]

Yea definitely not really hairy, it just visible when someone is next to me

[roundbobby]

I would say it is perfectly ok to have that.

[SüßeJäger]

Its not a big deal at all. It would not discourage me from approaching you. You are good looin' too. With that being said, you may want to shave it off, I know lots of my gf's shaved theirs off too but again, its not a big deal at all, def not a deal breaker.

[indian_empress_91]

Thank you for the compliment. Yea I wax it but it's annoying to have to. Mine is more like https://www.rightwingnews.com/graphics/milano.jpg

[SüßeJäger]

Yeah its not a big deal. I understand waxing is a pain. I don't think most guys would care much at all. Your pretty enough, guys will not even notice, they will be too busy staring at your face lol. ;)

[indian_empress_91]

haha awww thanks. I think you are right. When i wax or don't they can't even tell the difference. So when I ask a bf, " Did you notice I waxed my arms?" and he'll be like " I didn't even know you had". But I know there are men who would.

[SüßeJäger]

There may be some that notice but not many. Even if they did, it wouldn't be a deal breaker, its just hair, it can be shaved or waxed lol.

[ExMan31]

To be 100% honest with you, it's acually one of the first things I look at on a woman. I am extremely attracted to the hair on a woman's arms. I wish I could give you a reason as to why I'm so attracted to it, but I can't. I wouldn't stress about it if I was you, if a man can't accept you for you, he's not worth your time! :) hope this helps!

[FreeLunch]

Yeah, it's definitely a turn off. Those pictures you joined, I was like WHOA, that's freaky. You can trim that sh*t. Do it and take care of yourself.

[indian_empress_91]

=| ..

[FreeLunch]

Sorry I'm the only honest man here. Body hair is a masculine trait. I do not find it attractive.

[indian_empress_91]

Thats ur opinion. Just like u claiming to being the only honest one here.

[DodgersGM]

Nope, not a turn off at all! If anything it might be an indicator of higher testosterone, which could correlate with higher sex drive. Haha!

[indian_empress_91]

Glad you don't mind haha

[DodgersGM]

Yeah people are too picky about this kind of stuff. It's just arm hair, ya know? It doesn't need to be seen as a masculine trait.

[indian_empress_91]

Yea somehow I feel like he is going to think I don't wanna pass this down to my future kids =|. I just yea I feel like yea people are too picky. But i am glad the majority of answers say its not a turn off.

[DodgersGM]

Haha, well I'm sure your man will have plenty of arm hair himself. That way he takes all the blame (or doesn't care!). :)

[indian_empress_91]

Actually the guy I am dating atm has less hairy arma than me but the rest of my body I have no hair besides the obvious place everyone has lol. But he doesn't care he doesn't say anything about it lol

[DodgersGM]

Good! I can pretty guarantee you he's either never noticed or he doesn't care at all. :)

[indian_empress_91]

Hope soooo. Thanks for being nice to me :)

[DodgersGM]

You're welcome!

[summiter]

Not at all, armpit hair is not a turn off for me as long as it is trimmed... however some other shaved areas on a women are way hot

[indian_empress_91]

Not arm pit lol. I meant like forearm.

[summiter]

Oooops! A little forearm hair is great. You are what you are

[indian_empress_91]

Would you still date me just asking

[summiter]

Of course :)

[indian_empress_91]

=) good

[Phoenix98]

You don't want to shave to get rid of hair if your a women you want to max it so it does not grow back. Also men don't shave we don't need more ken dolls running around.

[RasmusAiken]

For me, a turnoff. It makes me think she's advertising a preference for same sex relationships.

[indian_empress_91]

ok then. Well mine isn't noticeable in photos only in person up close

[Pedantic]

99% of guys aren't going to like it. I'm actually cool with armhair. It's a different look is all.

[Anonymous]

If there is a lot of it and it's dark, it can be a bit of a turn off. Not really a deal breaker at all though.

[indian_empress_91]

yea my arm is is fine but the length is like 1 cm but you can see it if you came to sit next to me, but from a distance you don;t notice

[RealityCheckTime]

Dark arm hair is a no no. Only 12 year old blond girls can get away with it.

[indian_empress_91]

https://www.rightwingnews.com/graphics/milano.jpg even on alyssa milano?

[RealityCheckTime]

It's even worse on her because she's so good looking. It's like sacrilege.

[catguy]

if your sasquatches woman, yes, otherwise nah you're fine :P

[indian_empress_91]

Hahahaha I'm safe lol

[rotinaj10]

Don't like it. Feel like a dick for saying that but you asked.

[indian_empress_91]

no that's alright. I don't think if most people would.

[Equestion]

DONT SHAVE IT!!! If you shave it, it only grows back, LONGER! Everyone has hair, it's not gross, if your guy has a problem with it then just be like "well you have hair on your head and I'm not asking you to shave that" and he'll drop it!

[1-3-2-4]

It's it's light it's not bad but dark and long would be a turn off for me

[bellegirl16]

It only takes 5 seconds to shave it. I hate having it and mine is so blonde you can hardly see it.

[PhiOmega]

Yes, but there are some crazy hot Latinas with arm hair, so u can ignore it

[indian_empress_91]

Well yea guys still ask me out and keep liking me though I have a bit of arm hair.

[PhiOmega]

Ur just too hot

[indian_empress_91]

Thank you :)

[llorando]

A turn off, and the hairy arm in the first pic looks like a mans arm lol.

[indian_empress_91]

well i would take a pic of mine but it doesn't show up in photos. Mine is like https://www.rightwingnews.com/graphics/milano.jpg if you were to sit next to me

[llorando]

If it looked like that than I would be neutral.

[Anonymous]

Impartial. It's just hair. You cut it and it'll grow back eventually.

[Ferruccio77]

not a turn off unless armpit hair..

[indian_empress_91]

Not arm pit hair :)

[uuhhhh]

Uh women have hair too. It doesn't matter.

[ImCoasting]

Great thing about hair is it can be shaved.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

It grows back worse if you shave it

[ImCoasting]

Just continue to shave it I guess

[ImCoasting]

But for the record it wouldn't really bother me

[indian_empress_91]

I'm gglad it wouldn't :)

[TadCurious]

no, not a turn off

[jacquesvol]

Not a turn off.

[GoldCobra]

That is disgusting

[indian_empress_91]

thanks =\

[GoldCobra]

Just wax it. No guy will like this

[indian_empress_91]

Yea I do. But not every month.

[GoldCobra]

Yummy