Everyone knows I like him except for him?

[meowcatwoman]

I knew lots of people had already figured it out but I recently found out that it's more than a small group of people...people who I hardly know can tell too! It's like the only person who doesn't realize it is my crush himself.

It is obvious to others that the things I do around my crush is obviously being flirtatious (Lying on his shoulder, playing with the holes on his shoes while they are still on him, touching his hair and face, touching his chest casually, walking really close together, etc) but it is evident he has no clue. My teacher even brought it up to me!

I want him to find out for himself but worried maybe he will never work it out. Help!

[MiracleChild]

oh Jesus talk about 8th grade all over again. I promise is just some of us guys are so dumb it so sad that you almost feel sorry for the poor guy. But yes there are innocent guys just like i was way back then and it just fly right over us. All the signs are right in front of us and never knew. The girl i like in 8th grade like me too but i never saw the signs it took almost all the way until Feb i finally found out she like me cuz someone had to tell me. Sadly i tho it was joke but later on found out she really did like me and now i think back of all the times when she draw picture of me, when she touch me, when her friends would always ask me if i like someone or if i spent time with another girl they ask do I like that girl and i say no she just a friend and then they ask do i like my crush and i would say "what does that have to do with the girl im hanging out with" i was so afraid of people finding out my secret but people know. And yes especially girls always give away who they like faster than guys do. God i was so stupid if it one thing i wish i could redo is that. I beg of you please catch him while you can dont even have to tell him you like him just simply find a way to have a connection. My best suggestion is simple when you both alone ask him straight up has he ever kiss a girl before. If he say no then say "you haven't either and you wonder what it like and just say if it ok if i kiss you just on the cheek or something." make it as innocent as possible if he says yes then go for it. If you ask and he says yes he kiss a girl before then ask him can he show you how it done. If he says no then you know he doesn't like you without any harm done cuz u never said you like him you just wanted know what a kiss was like. Hope this help and i really hope you get him.

[meowcatwoman]

Thanks for putting in the time to write this big answer. I'm sorry you had to go through that situation. This guy and I already have a great friendship and we are always waiting for eachother and sitting together in class and talking... In theory, I like your 'kiss' idea but... I don't know if I could do that... what if he says says and I kiss him and still he doesn't get the hint?

[MiracleChild]

well i understand and the if he doesn't get the kiss idea omg but i can understand that too i would say do this just like how i found out. Find one of his guy friends tell them to talk to him bring up conversation of girls they like. That friend will say he think you are cute and ask your crush do you think she cute too. Then tell him say dude what if she ask you out would you let her? if he says yes to his friend then your all good u just got make the move but make sure the friend is their with you. Like i said i tho it was a joke at first but let the friend explain you really like him so he knows it not joke ;3 hope this helps

[meowcatwoman]

Yeah, I know exactly who to get involved...thank you!! I'll let you know how it goes whenever I do do something lol