Polls: Flirting

She sent me the star eye emoji and another guy the heart eye emoji. Kind of a throwback because she sent me another star eye (Wow 🤩) tonight when I showed her my shaving.

They're both pretty hot and I've tapped them a couple of times. But I honestly can't decide which girl I'd rather continue with. I'd like to see unbiased opinions from a secondary source before making my decision.

Girl 1 is really nice and friendly. We get along
really well and she's quite a nerd like me lol. We cuddle and watch anime together sometimes. She knows how to cook, so we cook together. But she's not very assertive lol. Whenever I day anything, she seems to agree with it regardless, it is get rare that she goes out of her way to firmly make a point about something and stand by that opinion. She gets along with all my friends. She's also not clingy and is very independent. However, she's not very active in bed, if you know what I
mean. She's very family oriented girl. But she isn't very adventurous. She doesn't like trying out crazy new things like water rafting, rocking climbing, etc. But she's very smart and hardworking too. She doesn't drink much and never smokes weed.

The girl 2 can be nice, but she can have a bitchy
attitude sometimes when I dont give her what she wants. She can get quite clingy too. But she is very good in bed and has a great body. She's also very sweet at times like she'll compliment me (looks, personality, etc). She doesn't have much contact with her family so it's a plus because I won't have to deal with a defensive father/brother. She is very adventurous and our dates nearly always consist of us trying something new. But she knows how to have fun and we can smile up and drink together, she loles surprising me kink-wise too!

Overall, I cam see myself being with both. Ask me more questions if you want before making a choice. Please explain too!!

Girl 1:

Girl 2:

Does using an ellipsis… make a text message more flirty? Or use a winky face emoji 😉instead?

Example: I’ll be seeing you tomorrow

I hope your day is beautiful as you

Pick the best answer. If you have something better, please do share your wisdom.

I know my question is asking for the best for directly expressing attraction, but if you think indirectly is better, please comment your best tips.

What i mean by a "cold approached" is meeting for the first time, having a brief conversation, and asking for your number.

The kind of scenario I'm imagining is just introducing myself, having a short conversation, and if that goes well, say that we should hang out,, and ask for her number.

How would you react if a generally likable and attractive guy cold approached you? Would it be a turn off? Enough to turn him down ghost him?
Please vote while keeping that hypothetical situation in mind.

I've done it a few times at my college campus. But have only been turned down or not received responses to my texts.

So what I'm trying to figure out is if cold approaching is a failing endeavor in general, or if I just need to be more personable and build more confidence/confort.

I have not provided "it tepends" as an option because dating depends on the person in general. You're just not going to click with everybody regardless of how you meet them.

Someone I work with, Sara thought I was around eighteen or nineteen years old, so I showed her my driver's license and she said, that I'm good looking. Sara even had to let the co-worker next us know about my look. Thought that was pretty funny! I'm twenty-five years old. I'm not sure, if Sara is single because of what she said about about me. I'm assuming she's single because someone in a relationship wouldn't say that about someone they aren't with. I would like to ask for her phone number, but I don't know how I would do that without coming off creepy or weird.

Started working at a company, that I got hired at a couple days ago. Today, I saw a co-worker of mine, that instantly got my attention. I didn’t introduce myself because I was too nervous and just started working for the company. I know being interested in someone at work never goes right, but I’ll keep things low key.

I know I gotta talk to her and work with her more before asking for her phone number. Not sure how I’ll ask for the number yet and I’m not sure how long I’ll need to get to know her before I do.

I've made the mistake of seeing a girl I like but don't say anything and then she's gone. I don't want to run , raise my voice in desperation, and say "wait a second, can I talk to you? "

I feel thats startling and she has no clue who I am. Still its better to try than not but I don't know how to go about it.

There’s a girl at my job who’s really cute
I introduced myself to her Awhile back
Then today I saw her & decided to Talk a bit more.

We were just getting to know Each other.
Thing is, we work on completely different floors.
She works upstairs, I work downstairs.
I always sit upstairs for awhile before I Clock in, So I see her all the time.

Anyway, She asked why I sat upstairs if i worked downstairs. I Told her because it’s warm upstairs & because I get a chance to see her...

Was that creepy?
She just laughed & Said
“So you Come up here watch me when I walk by?”
I said yeah
& We started talking about something else..

Should I not have said that?