Girls, When you're single and a guy confidently states his attraction for you, which of these are going to make you view him most romantically?

[Rab1901]

I am not romantically interested in guys in general

The way he looks at you

The tone of his voice

The way his body is postured

His introductory touch

[MissGeorgia]

The last guy who asked me out just said “I know you like me, otherwise it wouldn’t be there between us” ...& he had a way of saying things as they were so bluntly in the moment that I liked it.
With my partner now, I asked him out... he never actually stated that he liked me at the time, so it was a shot in the dark... but he had a way of looking at me, and he still does, that makes me feel secure.
It can be different things from different guys.

[AlongCameCindy]

Voice is something i find very attractive, but i would also care about touch and way he looks at me.

[Cynicaldreamer]

None of the above.

As someone else already said, nowadays sweet words and how a person looks means NOTHING. I need actions: as in him asking me out, while taking the time and effort to show me he's interested.

Not to be cynical, but I've seen guys do all of the above and guess what..
It didn't lead to anything, he was already taken, or he was playing games. I don't have time for nonsense like that.

I think that's part of the problem with dating nowadays: physical attributes are fine, but where the emotional and mental connection at? Talk to her, get to know what makes her tick.

[coachTanthony]

--------Consistency was left off that list. Women want consistency.

~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

[Rab1901]

That's cuz I'm talking about the very first impression

[coachTanthony]

Okay it didn't really say first impression. Got it.

[Rab1901]

I didn't have to. You just had to look at the answers

[coachTanthony]

Looking at them now and in my experience working with women they are all about the way a guy looks at you especially if he makes eye contact as she is speaking.

[dmgstarfleet]

Women SAY they want consistency but if they get it they get bored. What women REALLY want is unicorns-things that do not exist

[Anonymous]

How long have I known him? Did I just meet him at the bar or do we already have an established relationship? If we do have an established relationship how "established" is it?
Those things make a big difference in how I'd answer your question.

[Rab1901]

You just met him

[Opinion Owner]

In that case it's physical attractiveness all the way. If that's all I know about him that's what I've got to judge my interest by.

[Rab1901]

Yes I agree but he could be creepy as hell. That's why I had these options. At least one of these would make you feel more at ease right? Or are you one of those people who think goodlooking people can't be creepy?

[Opinion Owner]

Probably the tone of his voice.

[Anonymous]

What a man says or looks like has zero impact how I like him. It’s his actions and how he treats himself that’ I will reflect on if he’s worth my time.
Guys wanna look and say everything until you fall and then they bounce.
If they had more to offer than sly words, that would be a miracle.

[Rab1901]

But surely you one of these things would affect your first impression the most right?
I see that you are the type to test the waters but something on the first impression would have to give you an idea that there's potential.

[Opinion Owner]

Nope. Potential is shown with time and never immediately.

[jillybeanns]

At the end of the day I t’s all about mutual interest. If someone finds you attractive, then no matter what you say or how you say it it’s going to be reciprocated.

[Rab1901]

Really? You've never found someone you initially found attractive to say or do something that you found creepy?

[jillybeanns]

Hmmm not that I can recall. I’m also extremely shy so I never exactly find myself in this type of situations lol

[victoria5475]

I'm not normally interested in men, but the ones I am interested in are the actual gentlemen. If it's respectful, I'm interested. Crude remarks will only get my usual creep response, either ignoring or a punch in the face.

[tatianamay]

its all in the vibes. I have to get good vibes from him or im out. however attractive he is doesn't matter if i don't get the good vibes

[sensogal]

None of these in particular. All of these but most importantly how he is making his statement. All of these are mixed in to get the right vibes

[menina]

To be honest I don't know what that means since this doesn't happen to me, but I would say it's his introductory touch. First impressions are very meaningful to me.

[Nerdvana]

The answer will depend on the age of the woman. It will change as she gets older.

[dmgstarfleet]

it will change depending on her mood, where she is in her menstrual cycle, what is going on with her friends, what they have to say, what Oprah has to say and the last Rom-Com she watched

[Anonymous]

Well honestly, B, C & D will tell me what I need to know to make a decision.

[Gwenhwyfar]

The way he looks at you and the tone of his voice

[karaspara]

The way he looks at me