Girls, BESIDES looks & sexuality, which of the following traits are the most important to you for a romantic male interest to have?

[Anonymous]

Note: If you want, you can respond and say what your TOP 2 most important & BOTTOM 2 least important GROUPS (Voting Options A, or B, or C, etc.) of qualities are that you look for in a man. Also, are there important qualities that I missed?

Reference article:
https://www.powerofpositivity.com/what-women-look-for-in-men/

Group A - Ambition, Assertiveness, Boldness, Courage

Group B - Charisma, Confidence

Group C - Compassion, Faithfulness, Honesty, Humbleness, Kindness, Stability

Group D - Emotion/Expressiveness, Humor, Passion

Group E - Intelligence, Wisdom

Group F - Spirituality

Group G - Unpredictability, Wanderlust

[maceygirl]

Your questions are so thought provoking :)
Group C and Group E - are the most important
Group F and Group G - are the least important

[Asker]

Aww, ty you’re too kind... So I guess one of the two C votes that are out there is yours? (If so, was it a tough choice to make, between C & E?)

[maceygirl]

Yes, one of those was me
It was a tough choice

[jengeorge26]

I checked C

[menina]

This a tough question 😅

Top 2: C and E
Bottom 2: F and G

I can't think of other qualities.

[Asker]

Your top 2 were C & E (and you picked C) as well huh,, interesting.

[menina]

Yes, I just noticed that my answer was the same as the other girl Lol

[Peanut127]

Same here

[Lolaaa53553373333]

THIS IS SUCH A TOUGH QUESTION. But it definitely makes it a good question.
So you already know I have E as #1, and MY GOD from here I really don't know, like A sounds important, C and D really do too, I feel like B is what really attracts me to guys like if he's just intelligent in books but isn't confident or can't act right it doesn't do anything to me, So maybe B is #2, and I don't know I feel like A is close to B and C is close to D so I'm so not sure (Like except humbleness I have liked too many arrogant guys to think about that), but F and G are definitely least important, like G is good but in little doses, and I'd prefer if he was religious but if he isn't it's okay

[Asker]

Wow, you commented on each of the answer options—A through G! Haha

So E (Intelligence, Wisdom) is your #1, and “maybe” B (Charisma, Confidence) is your #2–ok.

And you’re right, some of the “groups” of traits are close, and interconnected too; and usually people aren’t attracted only because of just one type of traits.

[Vero4567]

Group C - Compassion, Faithfulness, Honesty, Humbleness, Kindness, Stability

Group D - Emotion/Expressiveness, Humor, Passion

Group E - Intelligence, Wisdom

[Asker]

C, D, and E are your #1, 2, and 3 top three most important groups of qualities are that you look for in a man?

[Vero4567]

That's right.

[Asker]

Ok 

[Stellaluna84]

My top 2 are group C+D and the least important traits for me would be F+A @gagname

[Asker]

Top are C+D—ok... yeah C is really popular!
And bottom are F+A... interesting that A is at the bottom fir you...

Why are Ambition, Assertiveness, Boldness, Courage traits not important to you?

[Stellaluna84]

@gagname I guess they are important to some extent, but not as important as others on the list. Really only F is the one I really don't care much about at all.

[Asker]

Alright

[Anet1256]

Top: E, A, C
F and G are rather undesirable traits for me

[Asker]

EAC—ok... did you vote in the poll? (I thought that there already was an E vote out there.)

[Anet1256]

Yes i did vote in the poll

[Asker]

Ok great

[jengeorge26]

Yes, you missed “Submissiveness” , I would love a sub, it eliminates arguments…

[Asker]

Ok, I should have included an “Other” voting-option in this question’s poll.

So did you place a vote in the poll?

[irifebeck]

Most definitely C. Compassion, humbleness, honesty are the most important traits in a relationship, in my opinion.

[KarinMcDonald]

None of the above. I want men to be interested in me and my ideas, likes, thoughts, , , something more than sex and outward appearance.

[Asker]

This question said “BESIDES LOOKS & SEXUALITY,” and asked which traits do you want a romantic male interest to have.

[Asker]

(Note: “Besides looks & sexuality” = “Other than looks & sexuality”)

[KarinMcDonald]

You're starting to become a little too demanding and too much work.

[Asker]

Huh? I was pointing out that this question is not about what men like about you, but what you like about men.

[RedFever]

Intelligence and wisdom.

[Asker]

Ok, has that always been what’s most important to you, or has it changed over time?

[RedFever]

It has always been important, along with character, honesty and basic decency. I would not - EVER - tolerate someone who was callous, cruel or in any other way evil.

[Asker]

So you like substance, and not just a “pretty face.” Cool.

[RedFever]

Yep, that's me.

[loves2learn]

C & D were so hard to choose from!

[Asker]

Ok, which did you pick?

[loves2learn]

C. Reluctantly. D. Mattered too.

[Asker]

Ok, noted.