Girls, are guys too much online hitting on girls?

[es20490446e]

Mostly yes

Mostly no

[Sangita93]

Everybody here reading my posts knows that I am very hot in talking and expressing my views on sex. Physically I am – if not really beautiful and intelligent - much above average-looking girl, and that is why most men think they have a chance with me. Some of them are much elder, above age of my father. Is it because I am not modest or sexually conservative? In fact, I am from a traditional Indian Hindu family, and respect all our traditions and family, social and cultural rules for our sex life. I have never done, and will never do anything sexually outside our marriage. I enjoy hot sex with my husband – in totally committed life-term partner, (actually seven continue life-terms according to our marriage commitments). Usually no woman ever made the first move herself, but guys do, because there is something called hormone. We – girls are always beautiful, but not a flower, we are a human. We are not rooted to the ground. Most girls have observed that guys who are not considered conventionally attractive – physically, mentally and emotionally are more inclined to put themselves out there, because they fear or experience getting nowhere waiting around for a mate themselves. Average-looking men tend to know that dating is a numbers game. It is almost a rule; we cannot get what we want without asking for it. Life has a way of teaching us all these lessons. That is why effort these average guys are putting forth may operate like charisma. In a sense, it is compensatory, which is almost true. One more socially and culturally known is that if a girl is hot, she will be busy and spoken for, otherwise unapproachable. This is where it really gets things into a disorder. Girls get overwhelmed by requests that they do not want and develop this kind of helplessness with what they want because they are so busy saying no to activities and people they do not want. They end up with “Why does not anyone ask me to do the things I want to do?” moment. Sitting around and waiting is a very viable strategy for satisfaction. And it is not unfair to consider a compliment’s worth based on its source, it may be useful to empathize with the guy who is not particularly praised for their looks. It could contribute to someone’s self-consciousness and introversion, but it could, to others, be very freeing. Without being wrapped up in their ego in terms of their attractiveness, they may feel that they have nothing to lose. Why not hit on the hot girl? Some hot guys are so brittle that they might not even want to put themselves out there to be rejected and some girls too. Attraction and desire can be about so much more than facial symmetry.

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/rpazYc9A75k

[natured]

I just checked my messages and I honestly am SHOOK... they don't just hit on you, they express their weird fetishes and deep desires.
It's sad though

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/ngrkf_QCxPc

[Medlife]

I do not mind the short term attention but I am in no way desperate for it. I like men and women to be gentle genuine kind and supportive to one another. If I see any trait of either narcissistic or manipulative hints. Rudnes or down right idiocy, I am done talking

[es20490446e]

Give me attention... forever :D

[Medlife]

Attention is earned like everything else in life 😁

[es20490446e]

Oh, do you think everything is earned?

Do you think another human giving attention to you is because you earned it? 😌

[Medlife]

In this world absolutely. Plus if a stranger expresses interest it is because I am somehow seen, something caught his or her eye. My action or a certain look about me made them look at me hence earned.

[victoria5475]

Yes. It's way too crude and direct. But at the same time, I get just as many messages saying I'm ugly. To the point that most of my online profile pics are anime girls I edited into railroad photos as an idealized self-representation of myself.

[es20490446e]

Everyone loves railroads ;)

[JosyJosy]

unfortunately yes, it's bad but when I see another 'hi' I already am expecting a sex question sooner or later.

[es20490446e]

Damn God.

[JosyJosy]

in person when guys hit on you, they usually are more polite and respectful, but a lot of them throw basic manners out the window and genuinely think that this approach will work

[es20490446e]

It works, actually, quite well. Just with the wrong kind of girl.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, there are so many desperate creepy guys online

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/8sN3Ns250Dg