Guys, Is being a soft spoken girl an issue with online dating?

[amber8894]

I have met two guys that were surprised about how softy-spoken I was. The first one grabbed my but like a savage and only wanted sex. The second still have to see how it goes...
I feel this is very negative from men and could refer that they think I’m already into them or won’t stand up for myself, or they would disrespect me
what do you think guys?

[slatyb]

"The first one grabbed me like a savage" -- where did this happen? You should not be in any private space with online dates until you know them well enough to trust them to behave.

It's not you -- some men just disrespect women in general. Don't make yourself vulnerable until you know you can trust someone.

[amber8894]

It was outside at the port... on the second date. I cut him off then.
Thanks for your opinion and advice

[OrdinaryDaniel]

I think a lot of men like soft-spoken while girls like the confident loud-spoken guys. From my experience and others. I think most men respect a soft-spoken woman. It is hard to find one so people do tend to treat them nicely. Maybe you're unlucky with men. That is my opinion though so take it with a grain of salt.

[amber8894]

Thanks a lot

[K-I-S-S]

I wouldn't find that bad at all. Try to look for more mature guys. I don't mean just older.

[amber8894]

Thanks !!

[Stevefiveo]

You just have to find to right guy. A soft spoken girl would not be a problem for me.

[amber8894]

Thank you !!

[Stevefiveo]

Welcome.

[andy530]

I think sometimes it makes it harder to get to know you but it’s not inherently bad

[amber8894]

Thanks a lot 🙏🏽

[andy530]

You’re welcome 😊