I actually kind of like it, and make it a 'foreplay' thing, because so many never learned from their mothers, and if they can learn something, like sensually, with a guy they like, and he has to be really close, and hold them, and guide them, so they won't cut themselves... And if he makes it something interesting, like teaching her about flavors, and how they pair with the wine, it can be very erotic, and sensual. Then there are the Decadent, chocolate desserts. . .
Because in modern society, individuals are moving out of the traditional roles of each member within a family. In some cases the mother "had no time" or was too lazy to show her daughter or the daughter was just not interested in learning. Also because of the changing roles, things such as the female knowing how to cook is no longer prioritized as the child's focus is encouraged to be directed toward his/her studies so that he/she will be able to make a living in today's society.
sadly many people from all genders either do not know how to cook or rather do not like to cook.
yet I am a firm believer that no matter your gender. anyone and everyone who is of able body and mind. should know basic cooking skills for if nothing else. the ability to feed themselves and or others.
many might say things like "o I never learned to cook" or "o I have no time to cook" but that is just bullshit.
Don’t you find it interesting that as women’s cooking skills diminished the obesity increased from eating out sht all the time? You know even if cooking were anti-independent-empowered-woman, one would think they would at least cook for themselves to keep from becoming such fat asses.
all boils down to the fucked up feminist movement. and they expect guys to drool and swoon over fat chicks because they claim big is beautiful while expecting guys to have 6 pack abs a bunch of hypocrites
Lazy/bad parenting. It certainly has nothing to do with race and claiming that Whites are too privileged and have too much money to do it like some ignorant idiot may suggest. A high percentage of Whites are poor but stupid people don't realize it. Even when those people have more money that a lot of Whites they still claim that the Whites have more. WTF? Why are people so dumb?
Unmmm how about you open your eyes? Plenty can cook. Every woman I've ever met can cook. It's a basic skill all humans should possess... just because women like to work doesn't mean they are shit cooks.
The only reason I learned to cook real well was to aid in attracting a woman who likes my food and we could cook together. So no matter who's busier. There will always be food. So just settle down. Even back in eras past there were plenty of women who were terrible cooks as much as today.
People have become lazy and dont want to do this additional work, especially when they are single for longer than ever before.
Its not really rewarding to cook just for yourself and when they get into a relationship, they are most of the time not willing to learn cooking anymore.
It seems to be because convenience of fast food and resturaunts. Especially with millennials, however men seem to take interest in cooking as a skill to impress others including attracting women. as for women, along with convenience they are finding men who know how to cook as well. It's unfortunate that this is a dying skill. I've noticed this too especially in women my age and younger.
I've noticed this too, a higher percentage of men know how to cook compared to women, not saying there isn't some that do, but a majority of women don't have the skills, they basically just eat out all the time.
Another factor to consider is we usually cook a larger volume of food, where as a chick is fine with ordering a small meal/snack.
I have a friend who swears he can cook. His food is bland and he doesn’t know how to do anything special in the kitchen. Anybody can put the food in the oven or flip the egg but the act of knowing how to actually make a delicious meal is not something he has. He actually feels that cooking his bland meals makes him BETTER than women who choose not to cook because “he can cook” according to him. I can cook way better than him but he is always on my case about buying carry out. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings by admitting that he can’t make a good meal. I think men need to understand that women can cook, but to cook delicious food and learning about the best ingredients and homemade recipes takes practice. The women you see every day at work doing the same things men do don’t have that kind of time
@MilaRay I didn't say all men could cook either, I'm just saying my personal experience, I know way more men in the cooking industry as a whole. I do know there's a lot of wannabe cooks.
I think anything it's more of a preference to cook is that this whole question is about. More men have a preference to cook their own food over women.
@MilaRay wow massive hypocrite you are. you bitch whine and complain about his cooking being bland and how you can cook better than him but yet you still DON"T cook for him. Seems to me like you're all talk and no action. And honestly I rather eat bland food than food from a "woman" who claims she can cook better than a guy but doesn't actually cook
I found it amusing with my exes, they used to mention that they don't cook as if it wasn't a big deal and then expected my reaction, but on the inside I feel disappointed that I cook a lot better than all of them. I like it when they enjoy what I cook, but I really don't like to see incompetence on their part in the kitchen. Sadly that is the norm now.
The vast majority of the world’s best cooks are men. I also cook but I wouldn’t want to be the only one in the relationship cooking- especially- since I’m traditional & will pay the bills so she can get off her azz and make some meals.
I think a lot of women say they can’t cook just because they’re lazy & want a sucker to buy meals/cook for her. But that game isn’t working for single / bed hopping women these days as men give less & less outside of serious relationships
I cook very well. And cook often in my home. My wife (God bless her) can't cook at all. Every time she tried, we have to throw away the food, the pits, the pans, the stove, the fridge, fuck, we gotta throw everything away, and move out lolololol. Her mother did all the kitchen stuff, and never let her do it. So she never learned.
I love women who can cook. Girl I’m dating is Italian and cooks authentic dishes and they taste amazing. She loves it when I’m full from her food. Couldn’t imagine dating a women that doesn’t cook for me at this point in my life lol. It’s extremely attractive.
You better hold on to her because women who can cook let alone cook for their guy are rare and like finding a diamond in a city garbage dump full of human and dog shit
I've never met a woman in my 30 years of life that didn't know how to cook. I know that's a personal experience, but it's hard for me to believe such a claim when my own life has shown me, without qualification, the opposite.
The family isn’t the same anymore and they don’t watch their mothers cook and bother learning, my daughters are not very good at it or really know how, they actually ask me sometimes and I’m not the best but I can manage, the younger generation claim they are too busy but usually whoever gets home earlier is the one that cooks
In my senior of high school, I won the award for best student chef. It's not hard to follow a recipe and once you've been cooking awhile, you know what flavors go good together so you can put your own spin on recipes.
I've always loved cooking and mostlt done it myself. Never met a lady of my age that really properly cooks, warming food is not cooking. But i dont mind, i love cooking anyway. I think they are busy with work and stuff nowadays and men dont expect it anyway in richer countries. In countries where male dominate and women can't leave the house, the women probobly can cook very good. Dont think its gender related, more like society.
Your friend needs to stay home and eat something at home and let his wife go out to eat. They are going to pack on some pounds if they keep doing that.
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I actually kind of like it, and make it a 'foreplay' thing, because so many never learned from their mothers, and if they can learn something, like sensually, with a guy they like, and he has to be really close, and hold them, and guide them, so they won't cut themselves...
And if he makes it something interesting, like teaching her about flavors, and how they pair with the wine, it can be very erotic, and sensual.
Then there are the Decadent, chocolate desserts. . .
Because in modern society, individuals are moving out of the traditional roles of each member within a family. In some cases the mother "had no time" or was too lazy to show her daughter or the daughter was just not interested in learning. Also because of the changing roles, things such as the female knowing how to cook is no longer prioritized as the child's focus is encouraged to be directed toward his/her studies so that he/she will be able to make a living in today's society.
sadly many people from all genders either do not know how to cook or rather do not like to cook.
yet I am a firm believer that no matter your gender. anyone and everyone who is of able body and mind. should know basic cooking skills for if nothing else. the ability to feed themselves and or others.
many might say things like "o I never learned to cook" or "o I have no time to cook" but that is just bullshit.
Don’t you find it interesting that as women’s cooking skills diminished the obesity increased from eating out sht all the time? You know even if cooking were anti-independent-empowered-woman, one would think they would at least cook for themselves to keep from becoming such fat asses.
which explains the big is beautiful and fat acceptance movement
all boils down to the fucked up feminist movement. and they expect guys to drool and swoon over fat chicks because they claim big is beautiful while expecting guys to have 6 pack abs a bunch of hypocrites
Lazy/bad parenting.
It certainly has nothing to do with race and claiming that Whites are too privileged and have too much money to do it like some ignorant idiot may suggest. A high percentage of Whites are poor but stupid people don't realize it. Even when those people have more money that a lot of Whites they still claim that the Whites have more. WTF? Why are people so dumb?
Unmmm how about you open your eyes? Plenty can cook. Every woman I've ever met can cook. It's a basic skill all humans should possess... just because women like to work doesn't mean they are shit cooks.
The only reason I learned to cook real well was to aid in attracting a woman who likes my food and we could cook together. So no matter who's busier. There will always be food. So just settle down. Even back in eras past there were plenty of women who were terrible cooks as much as today.
People have become lazy and dont want to do this additional work, especially when they are single for longer than ever before.
Its not really rewarding to cook just for yourself and when they get into a relationship, they are most of the time not willing to learn cooking anymore.
It seems to be because convenience of fast food and resturaunts. Especially with millennials, however men seem to take interest in cooking as a skill to impress others including attracting women. as for women, along with convenience they are finding men who know how to cook as well. It's unfortunate that this is a dying skill. I've noticed this too especially in women my age and younger.
I've noticed this too, a higher percentage of men know how to cook compared to women, not saying there isn't some that do, but a majority of women don't have the skills, they basically just eat out all the time.
Another factor to consider is we usually cook a larger volume of food, where as a chick is fine with ordering a small meal/snack.
I have a friend who swears he can cook. His food is bland and he doesn’t know how to do anything special in the kitchen. Anybody can put the food in the oven or flip the egg but the act of knowing how to actually make a delicious meal is not something he has. He actually feels that cooking his bland meals makes him BETTER than women who choose not to cook because “he can cook” according to him. I can cook way better than him but he is always on my case about buying carry out. I didn’t want to hurt his feelings by admitting that he can’t make a good meal. I think men need to understand that women can cook, but to cook delicious food and learning about the best ingredients and homemade recipes takes practice. The women you see every day at work doing the same things men do don’t have that kind of time
@MilaRay I didn't say all men could cook either, I'm just saying my personal experience, I know way more men in the cooking industry as a whole. I do know there's a lot of wannabe cooks.
I think anything it's more of a preference to cook is that this whole question is about. More men have a preference to cook their own food over women.
@MilaRay wow massive hypocrite you are. you bitch whine and complain about his cooking being bland and how you can cook better than him but yet you still DON"T cook for him. Seems to me like you're all talk and no action. And honestly I rather eat bland food than food from a "woman" who claims she can cook better than a guy but doesn't actually cook
I found it amusing with my exes, they used to mention that they don't cook as if it wasn't a big deal and then expected my reaction, but on the inside I feel disappointed that I cook a lot better than all of them. I like it when they enjoy what I cook, but I really don't like to see incompetence on their part in the kitchen. Sadly that is the norm now.
The vast majority of the world’s best cooks are men. I also cook but I wouldn’t want to be the only one in the relationship cooking- especially- since I’m traditional & will pay the bills so she can get off her azz and make some meals.
I think a lot of women say they can’t cook just because they’re lazy & want a sucker to buy meals/cook for her. But that game isn’t working for single / bed hopping women these days as men give less & less outside of serious relationships
I cook very well. And cook often in my home. My wife (God bless her) can't cook at all. Every time she tried, we have to throw away the food, the pits, the pans, the stove, the fridge, fuck, we gotta throw everything away, and move out lolololol. Her mother did all the kitchen stuff, and never let her do it. So she never learned.
I love women who can cook. Girl I’m dating is Italian and cooks authentic dishes and they taste amazing. She loves it when I’m full from her food. Couldn’t imagine dating a women that doesn’t cook for me at this point in my life lol. It’s extremely attractive.
You better hold on to her because women who can cook let alone cook for their guy are rare and like finding a diamond in a city garbage dump full of human and dog shit
I've never met a woman in my 30 years of life that didn't know how to cook. I know that's a personal experience, but it's hard for me to believe such a claim when my own life has shown me, without qualification, the opposite.
The family isn’t the same anymore and they don’t watch their mothers cook and bother learning, my daughters are not very good at it or really know how, they actually ask me sometimes and I’m not the best but I can manage, the younger generation claim they are too busy but usually whoever gets home earlier is the one that cooks
Women are becoming more independent and working more. So yes, if you believe that you don't need to cook, then neither do they.
You sound like you're not as independent as you think you are.
In my senior of high school, I won the award for best student chef. It's not hard to follow a recipe and once you've been cooking awhile, you know what flavors go good together so you can put your own spin on recipes.
Most are able to cook; I can cook very well as my dad taught me (my mum taught me how to bake).
Most heck naw, but thats good. I can't bake to save my life.
I've always loved cooking and mostlt done it myself. Never met a lady of my age that really properly cooks, warming food is not cooking. But i dont mind, i love cooking anyway. I think they are busy with work and stuff nowadays and men dont expect it anyway in richer countries. In countries where male dominate and women can't leave the house, the women probobly can cook very good. Dont think its gender related, more like society.
Technology has made it easier to allow people to cook! So if you mean cooking the old fashioned way I would say why?
Thanksgiving dinner these days don't take much at all to prepare unless you do it old school which just isn't necessary anymore.
Do you cook for your girlfriend?
Your friend needs to stay home and eat something at home and let his wife go out to eat. They are going to pack on some pounds if they keep doing that.
And all the money that it wooly cost too...