If a vegan/vegetarian was coming to your dinner party (and you're not one), how would you handle it?

[Anonymous]

If you do NOT know a friend is a vegan/vegetarian and you've invited them to your house for dinner with friends and you and everyone else clearly eats meat, how would you handle it?

They should let me know in advance, and as host, I would provide alternative dishes

They should let me know well in advance, however they should provide their own alternative dishes

As host, I'm not catering to special dietary needs (unless its life and death). They don't have to come if they don't want to

[WindAtMyBack]

There is almost always non-meat food around that vegetarians can eat. They can eat a salad or side dishes or whatever. Vegetarians are used to that because they run into it all the time. It would actually be pretty rare to have no non-meat dishes at all.

If vegetarians were the only ones coming over, I'd make entirely vegetarian food. If it was a mixed crowd, I'd make whatever I normally make for the main dish and not worry about the rest. They will still be plenty for vegetarians to eat.

Now vegans on the other hand tend to be self righteous crusaders who take it too far. I would never invite someone like that to dinner in the first place.

[Anpu23]

As a vegetarian, I always inform the host when I receive an invite. I completely understand if they revoke the invite, ask me to bring something or tell me that something will be available. I do not expect anyone to cater to me, and if they say "we eat meat" I take it as we are not welcome there, and thats fine. It's your event and I understand if my choices bother you.

What I am not is preachy about it. I get you may have a different diet then me, and that doesn't bother me. I do expect that you will not be preachy to me though.

[Agape93]

If you're a loved one I'll make sure you have something good to eat too. But if you're not then bring your own food or eat what I serve you.

[Nikki1989]

I know several vegans, and it is such a pleasure not to have to endure the smell of burning flesh.

[AI Opinion]

I would take it as an exciting opportunity to dive into the world of vegan and vegetarian cooking. Many times, I've found incredible plant-based recipes that burst with flavor and creativity. I would whip up a vibrant and satisfying dish, like a roasted vegetable risotto or a hearty mushroom and lentil stew. Including flavorful sides, such as a fresh salad or a unique dip with artisan bread, can make the meal memorable for everyone. It’s a chance to delight in the versatility of plant-based cuisine and to ensure all guests feel welcome at the dining table. 🌱🍴

[molonski2]

Everyone else eats meat , and I didn't know? I'd certainly be able to put something together for them.

[genericname85]

i mean usually i'd tell people what i'm gonna make so they know. so if they're vegan and they come anyway, they're free to bring their own food or just drink a beer.

[seeyounexttuesday]

They can figure out their own food. I’m not altering the menu.

[Anonymous]

Well, I'm a vegetarian, but if a vegans are coming, I'd prepare special dishes for them.

[exitseven]

make a veggie burger.

[jahaims]

They wouldn't have been invited over

[Anonymous]

The first one