I am a vegetarian, but would not force my partner nor our children to be. I would cook vegetarian meals, though not be opposed to cook dishes with meat for the rest of my family. Would this be an issue?
Definitely would. As long as she's healthy and puts effort into her fitness, I'm a happy camper. I would probably share my thoughts about how being an omnivore is probably the best thing you can do for your body, but I wouldn't force it on her. I would just think she's missing out on some essential nutrients which are harder to find or absorb from plant foods.
I do admit if a girl was on the carnivore diet, it would turn me off a bit though.
Views are different from diet. If a girl has a different view of religion than myself, I'd find it hard to be compatible with her. Having similar views, interests, sense of humor, goals aligning, and sexual compatibility is much more important than what their diet is.
@fuddly There's a lot of speculation about that particular diet. There are a lot of people claiming it has excellent short-term benefits such as rapid weight loss, reduced hunger, and more stable energy, likely due to ketosis and high protein intake. In observational data, some individuals with obesity or diabetes show lower body weight, improved blood sugar, and reduced need for diabetes medications, though this is self‑reported and not controlled research. There are also small case series suggesting some people with inflammatory bowel disease improved symptoms on very low‑carb or mostly carnivore patterns, but these are early, small reports and not proof for the general population.
The thing is, there are reported long-term effects like: Low or absent vitamin C, folate, vitamin E, certain antioxidants, and lack of phytonutrients; long‑term deficiency can lead to fatigue, immune problems, and even scurvy in extreme cases. There's also no dietary fiber can cause constipation, disturb the gut microbiome, and is linked to higher risk of colon problems over time. And the high saturated fat and cholesterol from red and processed meats can raise LDL and are associated with higher cardiovascular risk, while high protein and sodium can stress kidneys and increase kidney stone and blood‑pressure risk, especially in susceptible people.
My opinion is, just like the vegetarian diet, the carnivore diet lacks the nutrients you get from the other side. Humans are omnivores and should have a balanced diet of both.
@HawkPerception As someone on this very diet (carnivore), I can tell You it's an absolute bliss. It's been almost two years, preceded by a year of keto diet, and I am definitely stronger in every aspect I am aware of. I used to have a serious case of bowel issues (all kinds, really - I barely digested anything properly), it's no longer a problem. It even seems to me my face looks better, something I used to be very conscious of (though that one might a mental change, rather than a physical one). The time saved on making elaborate dishes is an added bonus.
As for the last paragraph, humans are animals (at least according to biology, theology might have something to say about that one), therefore we consist of the very same stuff animals consist of. If You are worried about vitamins and the like, beef/pork liver is the answer. The cheats I mentioned in my main answer are more out of curiosity about my bowel issues and whether they have been fixed, as well as some different flavour, than any actual need. The only exception I can find is lemon juice - there is nothing within the carnivore diet that is as refreshing as a glass of lemon juice, and in my line of work, I sometimes do need a bit of refreshment.
"might be a mental change"*
@CalmUntilAbused Interesting take. I might try it out and assess the results myself. I'm definitely open to it.
@CalmUntilAbused Thanks for sharing!
@HawkPerception You're welcome!
I think I could deal with a vegetarian woman who was as tolerant as you about it. I don't think many vegetarian women would have the same outlook. Cooking large chunks of animal carcass is one of my specialties. Like smoking a pork shoulder, brisket, ribs, fish, etc. Some people paint pictures, I barbeque. It's like my one of my arts. If a woman gets grossed out by that, doesn't want to be around when I do that, and can't appreciate me cooking feasts for family and friends, I don't know. Why would I want to hear "that's gross!" when I can hear "when are the ribs going to be ready?"
Sure! meal planning would be a problem. I dated a girl for a little bit who was a vegan and gluten free. We didn't live together, but it was hard finding places to eat. The only thing I'd be concerned about is having kids. Would they also be vegetation, or could i feed then Baccon!
Nope, it would be so stressful. Because i need to prepare 2 food.
The beauty of relationships is finding harmony in differences. As a culinary explorer, I've shared meals with friends who have diverse dietary preferences, and it's always enriching. Respect and understanding are key, and your approach seems respectful. Cooking vegetarian meals alongside those with meat could open up opportunities to experiment with new flavors and create unique dining experiences. It's an exciting culinary journey in itself! 🍽️
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Well... In my case, I want to have children. There is significant data showing that the mother's diet affects the child in her womb, namely in the most vulnerable phase. Therefore, if You aren't willing to make meat-based dishes for the child in Your womb (yes, it means You'd have to be the one to eat them), I don't think I would marry You.
That's why my answer is "Depends". What it depends on is literally whether an unborn child counts as a child the vegetarian would be willing to make meat-based meals for. At the very least, I guess staying away from any plant-based food would suffice (You'd have to live for 9 months on milk, dairy and eggs, though).
Though I guess I might not be the one to reject You. You would do it first, since my diet consists almost 100% of beef, animal fat, eggs, milk and dairy, the last three being more of an appetizer than a main dish. I don't think You could stomach someone like this, being a vegetarian. I guess I do cheat at times, if the temptation is far too strong to ignore, but what I eat at home is 100% animal-sourced. Though I have noticed that vegetarians tend to be much more sane and generally respectful than actual vegans, so maybe we'd have a chance to be together.
Yeah you are right about that. I feel a bit sick at the thought. But yeah, definitely do not associate with the crazy vegans or vegetarians. Live and let live is my approach.
Are there a lot of women willing to live like that for 9 months? It seems like a hard requirement, so just curious
@VioletHaze That last one is a question for the women, I guess. I am not in any relationship right now, but there is only one vegetarian I know who I might consider marrying, and we never discussed the matter before the contact was pretty much cut.
As for what I think - it might be harder than adding meat to the diet, but given how many ways are there to prepare eggs, I believe it should be fine. The main problem is, this one is a non-negotiable point, and not even for a selfish reason - the kids would need animal-sourced nutrition while in the womb, it simply cannot be helped.
Nope, I would not marry anyone with special dietary needs based on beliefs and feelings. Both my sons are self proclaimed vegans. So if we go out to dinner it always has to be vegan since a "normal restaurant" may or may not have vegan dishes on the menu and my sons will not bend for even one meal to be social. So everyone else has to accommodate them and eat at a vegan restaurant. I don't have a problem with vegan food. I love veggies. But I do have a problem when anyone develops a "my way or the highway" attitude and always forces everyone else to comply with their food tastes. So going out to dinner is off the list of things I do with them.
Also, at home I'm not preparing individual dishes to suit vegetarians, vegans, pescatarians, Hindus, Halal Muslims and Kosher Jews. Nor am I making up little signs to tell all the food terrorists what their individual cult can eat.
So the thought of marrying someone like that is miserable frankly. Why sign up for that friction related to something so simple and such a pleasurable part of life. Why go through life depriving yourself of what you enjoy? Why not simply find someone with the same taste in foods?
Probably not. Seems like a contradiction of values. Either you believe being vegan is best, in which case you don't care about the overall health of your family. Or you don't believe it's best, and are just making life difficult for those around you.
@Ariesman81 There is a significant difference between a vegetarian and a vegan, though. The vegetarian is fine with milk, dairy and eggs - basically anything that is sourced without killing the animal. It's even noticeable in the level of aggression - vegetarians are usually much calmer and much more friendly.
I feel great on a plant based diet, full of complex carbs and less fat. Made my cystic acne and psoriasis go away and keeps my heartburn under control. Not everyone does, nor do they bear to eat like me. I believe in personal choice.
I wouldn't get that far in a relationship to find out. Why date someone you already know has so much baggage? I know from experience that it REALLY sucks when you can't cook what you really want unless you plan to cook two completely separate meals. From a cooking perspective, you are basically room mates, not a couple, and that REALLY sucks.
in my opinion, you don't need to be so apologetic. If anyone cares they're not the right person for you anyway.
I'm pescetarian. I'd rather someone on a similar wavelength regarding food. I don't mind meat eaters so long as they're not boorish about it.
I am not apologetic. Just realistic. Few in my community and dating pool are vegetarian. So, I have to be a little flexible 😅
100% I would , my daughter is a Vegan and a dietician as an example , but she does not force nor even push her ideals on others , very happy at a BBQ , I respect her wishes , and she respects that most others eat meat.
The same would apply in relationship / marriage.
Nice question.
Yeah. I was a vegetarian for 10 years when I got married to a VERY red-blooded carnivore. I went back to eating meat mid-way into my first pregnancy. It was the only thing I could keep down. I don't know why. Went back to it mildly afterwards, but it wasn't the same.
No not an issue at all eating vegetarian meals are very good for you any way
Even tho I do like meat.. Usa is running out of meat fast
I would let my kids choose what they wanted to eat tho I would want. them to have meats here any there. but no fast food. Everything McDonald's sell if fake not really food with any health benefits
How long have you been a vegetarian are you healthy are you strong for your size
I am Vegan for life for animal rights... if you pay for the enslavement, murder, rape, torture, killing of our creator"s animal beings then you are a parasite. If you won't eat your gentle dog or your gentle cat then stfu. You know that plants and fruits are not put here on Earth just to look pretty?
We can agree to disagree.
I ate Vegan with my ex who was not one and he enjoyed everything I made for him and respected me. When with me he ate what I ate.
If you're hot, that could work.
Any girl I date needs to understand, outside of meat my only way to get protein is peanuts. I'm allergic to nuts (peanuts are legumes) and soy (and seafood, but that's meat). So, they need to be aware that medically I am limited in my ability to consume protein. I drink cow milk, because soy and almond milk will make me sick.
Nonsense
Whole grains (quinoa, farro, brown rice, oats, wild rice)
Lentils and black beans
Hemp seeds
Almonds, cashews, peanuts
Pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, sesame seeds
Tempeh
Whole milk Greek yogurt
Eggs
Cheese (goat cheese, feta, parmesan)
High protein veggies: spinach, kale, broccoli, asparagus, corn, artichokes
And many more
I'd rather not but I almost did, once although, she wasn't a strict vegetarian. She still ate meat from time to time. I don't eat ANY veggies so, if she was a strict one, there's no way we could stay together!!
Wouldn't be an issue for me because:
1) As long as it is mostly healthy I don't care what she chooses to eat.
2) She won't be a vegetarian for long. Everybody gives it up eventually... usually when someone next to them is eating a big juicy fat dripping burger.
No it’s not compatible. she’ll always be looking at me. Do I have to eat that and give me that kind of look. I like to eat healthy and good vegetables, but I also like to eat my meat to get my good powerful protein, and energy, when I eat homemade beef stew, I feel excellent and so energized
I'm on the journey to becoming a vegetarian so a wife like this would be perfect.
I could do it easily. I rarely eat meat as it is.
Sure, no problem. I would support her choice to be a vegetarian.
@VioletHaze I'm pretty close to being a vegetarian, as I only eat Chicken, so not a problem for me.
I could eat vegetarian, but pescatarian would be easier. My wife and I did that for a couple of years.
if you’re not forcing me to be a vegetarian also then I don’t see the problem
If they're so for ideological reasoning then no, otherwise yes.
We are both total vegetarians. We're fine as long as we can have one steak or side of burgers on our salads. ;- )
If the lady cooks then I'll enjoy what she serves, I'd have burgers etc when out, bu would be vege at home,,,
I am not interested in marriage under current laws, but one of my best friends is vegan and I would be fine with dating a vegan or vegetarian.
Depends.. if we really love each other then it shouldn't be a problem for us.
Short answer yes
Still I’m a strong believer in meat as a major calorie source.
The question is confusing because you ask would you marry a vegetarian and I would answer yes
The in the detail question you ask would this be an issue and I would answer no
What did everyone else answer
Sure except I wouldn't marry anybody. I'm not into financial suicide.
There is always the pure religious marriage (even if You're not a Catholic, basically every religion has a marriage rite). It does not incur any legal threat for either side. I suppose it's not a well-known fact, though.
I appreciate their compassion but despise their weakness. I could never marry a vegetarian.
I don't mind but my ex yelled at me just because I took him to a vegan restaurant
Yes, because I'm a vegetarian too.
Nope.
It's all good. Live n let live
Would she cook the things I want?
Yeah. That means more food for me.
Oh wait. Marrying something I would never do
And had big boobs !!!
like the woman in the Borat movies.. Susan Sykes aka Busty Heart?
@CherryLove007 Never seen Ms. Sykes, but yes.
Nope nope nope.
Wouldn't be a problem at all.
Nope.
Yes as long as he doesn’t tell me what to eat
Nope
I’m too fat for this
nope.
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