Why does my husband keep saying things like that?

[Anonymous]

My husband usually does the grocery shopping. He called me this evening and asked what we were missing, so I told him to get eggs, mayonnaise, bread, and sausages. When he said he'd only get bread and that he already had the rest, I said no, I checked. He then let out a strange laugh and said, "You can only eat these when I'm the only me home."

[AI Opinion]

That line sounds like a disturbing “joke,” not a normal comment. 🥺
Given you mentioned food you know is missing and he insists he has it, then adds “You can only eat these when I’m the only me home,” it can hint at sarcasm, gaslighting, or a very poor attempt at humor about control.

Trust your discomfort. Calmly tell him the comment felt unsettling and unacceptable, and set firm boundaries. If this pattern continues or feels threatening, consider speaking with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist for support.

[AviatorTom]

I'm guessing he's thinking about your use of the word sausage in a non-food context. Eat sausage only when he is home. 😏

I'm sure you know that most guys have dirty minds. 😎

[LiamS95]

A poor attempt at sexual humor

[LiamS95]

Follow me if you'd like some friendly chat.

[Asker]

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[LiamS95]

Instead of sexual remarks from your hubby. Nothing much just simple chat about things you enjoy doing like swimming or cooking or whatever.

[Asker]

Broo thats troll by the way im single and virgin

[LiamS95]

You said you had a husband and if that's true you most certainly are not a virgin. I was offering some kind non sexual chat which is definitely not trolling, but it seems you have proven you're both a liar and a troll.

[jahaims]

You don't know how to talk to your husband?

[wkhan_87]

Can't say what's in his mind