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You should consider choosing your friends more wisely. My core group of friends consists of 7 girls (myself included) and we've never fought, never gossiped, never had any drama, never been bitchy to one another. There are some amazing gals out there and you shouldn't disregard them all just because of some bad "friends" you made in the past.
And my group is made of 2 girls (including myself) and about 8 guys. I don't see anything wrong with those friends.
It's not wrong at all to have the friends you have now, I'm just saying that you should maybe try not to generalize girls as gossiping, slut shaming, rumor spreading, drama creating good for nothing bitches.
What exactly is the problem with having gut friends? There's usually less drama and I haven't dealt with it in a long time
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I never said there's a problem with having guy friends... ? I myself have a few so clearly that's not an issue haha.
Alright so what point are you making here? And please refrain from telling me that there are great girls I can hang out with. That's a vast scale
My point is still: don't generalize.
actually what the asker says is generally very true. I've heard this from other women many many times along with other men tellin me the same. its common.
one girl whos not like that may get offended and try to defend the whole group to defend herself but its not how things work.
I wish girls would see me only as a friend and not more.
95% of my FRIENDS are dudes, I think it's more relaxing to be only friends with a guy
I think so too, even though I'm attracted to women only.
If I liked a guy friend, I could date him. I'd be fine with that as long as it didn't break up the band like John and Yoko
Nothing wrong that, were all different. Did you have guy friends at least?
Yeah I've got 98% male friends. The other 2% is my sister and lone female friend.
As long as you have friends, we all need a friend. :)
my best female told me women are evil and very selfish. she tells me this because i m the rare genuinely good guy.
i haven't asked a girl out in 5 years. i m sick of most of their selfish, clueless doouble standard way of dealing with life and problems as a whole
I've also taken myself out of the cycle of men who condition women to be this way...
i know wed get along irl.
these girls dont know gossip is terrible and easily a backstabbing, these girls play politics through manipulation. i rejected a russian girl once and she went off tellin out mutal friend i told her that i slept with her... just so they can both have me out of their lives...
I hear you girl. I also don't hang out with girls any more and my life is now sooo stress free it's not even funny.
I think when women are older it's easier to develop friendships. Yeah I'm not really associating much with female friends.
I think it's true for both sexes. I keep very few male friends and have mostly female friends.
I ended up getting involved with attention seeking, dramatic women. Makes me wonder if girls think the guy is like a woman coz he got involved with them?
I prefer to hang out with women, though hahaha Maybe it's because they don't act the same with guys, I don't know, but I prefer female friends, they allow me to be myself.
Women don't really have friends, that's why they involve themselves so much in their man's life and why most women consider their boyfriend to be their best friend.
OP, it's because they look better than you and attract more and better looking guys than you.
And women hate women.
Women dont hate women what the fuck are you talking about lol?
This is good to know. I will add this to the files.
Please work on your internalized sexism and misoginy because as a fellow woman, you look stupid as hell..
Lol OK anon, how is having a preference sexist?
You're slut shaming and bashing other women to impress your male peers, grow the fuck up! It's crazy how men and society in general turned women against each other and make them feel like they're in some competition with eachother, instead of uplifting your fellow women, you tear them down because you're obviously jealous and bitter and it's honestly sad.. In this world, where women have it wah harder than men, you have to learn to appreciate the companionship of women and be there for them instead of glorifying men because in most cases and I dont think you understand how tragic it is not to stick up for your own gender. Instead of being immature enough for posting this, how about you befriend and try getting to know these women who you actually know and care about rather than having superficial and shallow friendships with them and calling them out for it. Now, Im not saying all women are perfect, there are toxic women you should avoid just as many individuals regardless of their genders.
Just dont put all women into one basket and put them down to make yourself feel better, it's internalized misoginy and you need to un learn that.
Get a clue. Saying men turned women against each other and that women have it way harder and that is sexist all on its own. Me myself and I don't give a flying rat's ass if you don't like the fact that we don't want to hang out with... well, you.
You are actually a prime example of why I usually hang with guys
Omfg... lmao... this is so sad.. do as you please tho
Yeah, it is sad. It's sad how sexist and hypocritical you are. Have a nice day, sweetheart
Yeah... Anon went to an extreme ( well... just like you did) but you're both not that wrong. I find some truths in anons point of view.
Girls are terrible friends. Everyone knows that.
Yep, definitely a feminist. Oh for sure.
I'm glad I am not the only one. Emotionally draining if you ask me! Sometimes unnecessary drama... why?
I've learn to stay away from it. Boundaries. Stress free at this point!!
The only grudges I've ever had that lasted forever were with girls, any of my guy friends I got into arguments were settled in 5-10 minutes.
Internalized sexism much?
Proving my point all over this page
Guys can gossip and talk shit and be messy just as much as girls do
Not the point at all
OK so what
And you're a perfect example as to why she doesn't like other girls. xD
@Cookies_AndMilk oh no a pathetic troll geez you guys are everywhere
I suppose that's possible, I have all guy friends and none of them are perfect and in fact a few can be quite frustrating but they are good guys and they treat me well and I like having them in my life. So, I can safely say no guy I know as ever acted like girls do, ever. Guys are very straight forward and most don't like drama, so they wouldn't act how some girls can act.
Like name me five guys that ever said "OMG Phil! Did you see what Justin was wearing? I mean, who wears clothes like that. He looks so sluty. I mean OMG, he is a tots loser. It drives me cray cray".
Or, when have you heard a guy say "OMG Bob, Samantha texted me I'm totally freaking out! Like, OMG... I'm thinking I should ignore her text and then maybe she'll know i'm interested, what do you think? Like, I totally like don't know what to do, like what do you think?"
Go ahead, show me a guy who would act like that or talk like that?
@loveisbeautiful burden of proof is on you and the mytake owner.
I never said women do not act like that. Also, all men are different they are human too. Not every guy is drama free
@loveisbeautiful @Cookies_AndMilk @buttheadkakakak if everywhere you go you keep getting into drama with girls then the common denominator is you. There is something you are all doing that needs to change if every place you go you run into drama. Usually the ones that think they are not causing drama are usually the ones who ARE causing drama
You know, all this is a prime example of why I find hanging out with women stressful. Keep in mind I am not saying women themselves are stressful, but I honestly prefer men because of things like this
I don't have drama at all actually. My life is extremely calm. I'm a person who sits back and observes others, I've never had a single instance of drama outside of the 8th grade. Thanks for the assumption, but I don't hang out with other women simply because I don't hang out period, and if I do find someone to talk to I have much more in common with guys than with girls. I'm a bit of an odd ball, so my more meaningful conversations happen when talking to a guy than with a girl.
@Cookies_AndMilk amen 👏 amen
@mytakeowner I think you made your point quite clear but I still think that not all guys and girls are the same.
@loveisbeautiful @Cookies_AndMilk @buttheadkakakak how do you all deal with female Co workers then? I mean you have no choice If you work with a lot of females unless you quit
@loveisbeautiful @Cookies_AndMilk @buttheadkakakak
I don't. I talk to them when needed and I am polite but it's not like we're all going to Starbucks later
Meanwhile I prefer hanging out with women because generally speaking they're not complete show-offy douchebags.
Most aren't, but I have met female show off douchebags
"I dislike racists and sexists." How hypocritical of you to write a take on why you dislike women...😒
Dude its a Take, also I don't understand why you're stalking my profile
Don't flatter yourself... I just wanted to see what you're about... lol
😂 alright then...