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What I find funny is that men chase the women who they claim are bitches, sluts, manipulative, gold diggers because they happen to be attractive
If men evaluated their choices in women and actually took time to get to know a girl then they would figure out why they keep picking the worse women
There is nothing wrong with wanting attractive women but if you keep getting fucked over and heart broken guys it's your fault
"If men evaluated their choices in women and actually took time to get to know a girl then they would figure out why they keep picking the worse women " - such a generalized statement. Many men do evaluate their choices its just they don't see the signs early on.
"There is nothing wrong with wanting attractive women but if you keep getting fucked over and heart broken guys it's your fault" - Why is it a guys fault if he pursues attractive women in the hope he finds someone decent but ends up getting his heart broken. That doesn't make sense to me
@MilkyAmy It actually makes perfect sense. If you keep making the same mistake with the same women every time you choose the girl then it's something that the guy is doing wrong.
I already pointed out that there is nothing wrong with wanting attractive women so I'm not sure what you are confused about.
If you're a smart woman with self respect you will be picky about your sexual partners. You can't be so cavalier about your body these days. I would rather be stuck up than ran through by guys who didn't care about me and exposed to stds. Every guy does not deserve a chance and valuing yourself weeds out the fuckboys.
Why be stuck up? and not just honest with the guy and just say no... why be stuck up
as a guy i have wounder the same thing why act that way. its just not the guys fault its also how they were brought up. . i personally would go for you over anyone that acts like the person at the beginning of the post. i don't think i would have made it threw the first date with them.
Adults make their own decisions so yea the way they act is there fault
*their
Right... men stop chasing women... I think you will have better luck herding cats. These are men. They look and they drool and their skull is pretty empty when it comes to women they like. Of course, not all men are like that. There are quite a lot of men with enough brains so actually appraise a woman. Just don't count on finding them available. They are like a rare unicorn.
How does "valueing your vagina" aka waiting for the right person to have sex with make you have a princess attitude?
I have sexual urges yes. I don't want to fuck anyone, no thanks.
If you're fine with casual sex then no problem but accept the idea not everyone wants that.
I can't stand women that think they're too good for everybody. The automatic sneer if they think you're going to talk to them. Some women make me really uncomfortable. It's not a princess syndrome. It's just being a complete and utter arsehole. Thank fuck they're in a minority
please.
let it stay this way.
don't blow it for us.
Lol taking advantage of the situation.
@cavmanier No we won't selfish, and self centred female
@TimeSplitters123 I can understand girls liking the attention. It's like giving up a large amount of pay at a job. Why would a person want that? Society has set up women getting much more admiration. Most guys are oblivious to the concept or they think the process is natural. I don't recall hearing a person actually saying what the take owner said but I have felt this way for awhile. Men are taught to seek and women are taught to withhold, therefore the dynamic.
I just loved seeing "don't blow it for us" coco lol.
This sounds an awful lot like the guys who say "ever wonder why some guys are douche bags? Cuz girls are meanies" which i disagree with as well. I think people should take more personal responsibility than that.
But i agree with the value your vagina part. It's the same as saying "place value on your vagina, your body is a commodity to be bought and sold" and that's not good.
i disagree women should value their vagina. id spoil my daughter so she doesn't end up with some loser who guys her a sandwich.
guys her a sandwich?
This is the first time I've ever agree with you on anything. Scary lol
I'm not disagreeing with you, just pointing out that women are judged much more harshly then men when it comes to sex. Men only seem to be judged if they have an incredibly high number.
... or when they don't last a long time in bed, or when they have a small penis, or when they want to try something new or kinky, or when they talk about sex which gets them labeled as "creeps", and the list goes on and on. Moral of the story is that people will judge you for almost anything you like or do, irrespective of your gender.
@TwistedLogic Good point.
I like the message however how is it possible that EVERYTHING wrong with women is somehow the fault of men? How is it that women have no responsibility in their behaviour, experiance and in this case conceited, over-self importance.
I don't mean to dump ALL the blame. But you guys do encourage it by making it seem that vagina is something so unattainable
i agree with OP on that, its not 100% a mans fault but men do play a major part by basically "worshipping" the "pussy"
like woman are better than a jackass men, you men are better than jackass women
@LilWeezey but do you not feel men kind of have to - because women will not chase us in the same way as we do them. I have never "been pursued" by a girl in the same way that I pursue girls. They don't because they think they are princesses and I'm lucky to get in their pants? Why don't they feel lucky to get into my pants? That's the issue.
I think it comes down to evolutionarily ingrained and socially reinforced behaviour - as someone else put the trade off of all mankind is a mans physical and financial protection through his physical stature and societal worth and a woman's fertility - expressed through her outward beauty. We trade one for another so we can have children... we've just forgotten this.
@Tellytubby
no i dont think men HAVE to.
I've chased guys before. If a girl isn't chasing you then something is wrong with you or something is wrong with her.
i feel lucky that i landed my man. i hope he feels the same way.
THATS where the problem with men come in. they have no self worth. and they say us women have no self worth. y'all are worse
Yeah now tell that to my father! hahah! No... mate! I feel like my take saying girls are stuck up are made by horny guy that want to get laid! Grow up!
Yeah, I can't handle people that full of themselves.
"If men stopped pursuing or "chasing" women, women wouldn't be as stuck up as they are now."
The things is even if most men stopped there would be enough that wouldn't to wreck it for the rest of us. A few traitors could shag all the women in town while the rest of the men achieve nothing but frustrating themselves.
My dad treated me like a princess growing up. It has nothing to do with the men I've dated.
"If men stopped pursuing or "chasing" women, women wouldn't be as stuck up as they are now."
Generally speaking, I agree.
However, if we were to do that, the human race would go extinct because women would be too stubborn--even then--to actually approach men and put at least minimal effort into dating and relationships.
@Frost_Byt3 lol I think I know what you mean but I think they would generally be much more motivated to initiate with guys.
@Frost_Byt3 It's already happening in japan
@johnbackerson i would have thought it impossible, considering the huge gender imbalance between males and females.
Men? Lol more like neckbeard Wk nerds (90% of this site) and If chick is that obsessed with her vag, I'd rather bang someone who doesn't act like she's 12 lol Always remember OP, There are still tall jacked athletic guys out there
Its quite simple really. There are lots of women. There are women who dont have princess syndrome. Men should persue these women rather than the other type.
Well, may be they have brought up that way, they have been spoiled right from the beginning.
Ok, so stop chasing. Make a move, if she doesn't go for it, move onto the next one. Repeat until laid. Always worked for me...