1. Set a goal and visualize it down to the smallest detail
Meditate on the outcome you want. See it, feel it and hear the sounds that accompany the end result. Athletes use this technique before a game (or race), they visualise their performance ahead of time, right down to the smell of the sweat dripping down their face as they cross the finish line.
2. Make a list of all the reasons you want to accomplish your goal
In our fast, distracting and busy world, it’s easy to get thrown off course so you need to ground yourself in your goal. For extra “success insurance,” write your list with a pen (don't sit infront of your laptop or use your phone to type it out!). Studies show that when you write by hand you engage your brain more actively in the process while typing is an automatic function that involves merely selecting letters causing less of a mental connection to what you're writing out.
3. Break it down into smaller pieces and set intermediary goals and rewards
Stress is often caused when we have a huge task to accomplish or a seemingly impossible number of things to complete. If you do take on the entire project you will likely become overwhelmed and fail to complete it. The easiest way to prevent becoming overwhelmed is to chip away at a project. Break it down into the smallest realistic steps you possibally can and only do one at a time. Neuroscience tells us that each small success triggers the brain’s reward center, and releases the feel-good chemical, dopamine.
4. Have a strategy, but be prepared to improvise
If you don't succeed the first time, try and try again. :)
5. Get help when you need it
It doesn’t necessarily take an entire village and even if you could accomplish your goal alone, there’s innate value in sharing your plan. Publicising what you intend to do sends a strong message to everyone and, more significantly, to your subconscious mind, which can occasionally disrupt your best efforts to make things work. Also, we frequently overemphasize our abilities. On the other hand you must be highly selective about who you tell and ask for help.
6. Determine how you will deal with lack of motivation before it arrives
This isn’t pessimistic thinking. On the contrary! It’s (pretty much) unavoidable that at some point along the way you will need a little boost. When that happens, it really helps to think of what others have suffered to reach their targets and to quash even the beginning of a pity party. If you can’t think of anyone specific who’s been through a hard time you could think of the Holocaust survivors, they had to endure so much more than most of us could imagine.
Better than most, if not all, motivational lists I've read. You could have explicitly distinguished between visualising details and breaking a goal down into pieces in one and three because both similarly related to planning, but still very good; there isn't anything unclear about it.
Like I want to workout and learn how to cook but than i am like eh... No one cares anyway! I just I dunno... I wish I cared more. Also... Wish i could face my fears and get a job... It kinda of scares me to have that much responsiblity ya know. i feel like i am going to mess up and someones going to come after me. But I really want save up because I want go to a summer camp. Ugh I also want to volunteer in washington d. c but I am lazy and I dunno. Like I want do things but I am not sure. Like how i wanted to work international but than I realize my visa is expired and I won't know anyone if I leave to another country. So I just do whats I been doing for months... Gaging and watching the glimore girls. Yeah Its not going well i believe!
there is no way on earth for me to ever get motivated again life is like stepping bare footed into razor sharp broken glass and then repeatedly banging my head against solid wall like a zombie I walk the motion of "life"
Nice take. At the moment I draw motivation for my studies by looking on a uni guide website every now and then to see where I could go and what courses I could do. :)
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