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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhPnxmw4xNA#t=1m25I'd say I like the bad boy/nice guy with a slight biased towards bad boy.
I think what girls like about the bad boy is that he's manly, confident, and outgoing. I know a guy that is a nice guy, to parents but can be a bit of a bad boy. I dated the bad boy and in two days my parents forbid me to talk to him. Me? Well, I loved that night with him.
Well, I am obviously gonna say I'm the balanced guy b/c you made him out to be the best. So duh!
Whatever he is, it's the guy in the first picture. When I saw his picture I started taking my clothes off. I'm naked now where is he
Well every single one of these men in the pictures is extremely attractive lol.
The kind that doesn't exist.
But some guys are really good at lying, And women are REALLY good at believing those lies!
Are you sure he doesn't exist? Because I've been with a well balanced guy for quite some time now.
Yeah, You can find a normal and stable guy. But he won't ever be the ideal you had in your head, You will just think he is lol
I don't think so. I've been with my well-balanced guy for 9 years. I know him well enough.
That's good. I'm always happy when people get in real relationships and are happy.
But i will always believe too many are based on manipulation, and lies people tell themselves.
no man. its all in how much affection there is for the person and how yur woman thinks about you. i could be a trailer trash ginger nerd and my wife be like "oh he is so sweet, he is so carefree and rebel and stuff, not like these boring office guys blah blah". its how you sell yourself and the kind of feelings you inflict on the person. this woman takes her feeling too seriously and absolutely, and humans' complexity too lightly.
let them get force feeded there daily lietmins. but when their lies halt and dream guys objectives done don't go looking for "good" guy. just writhe in misery
Are you really serious with this stuff? It's like something a 10th-grader would think.
You didn't read. You commented along with another guy talking about physical appearance. If I were you before commenting, I'd actually read the content.
Maybe it's too difficult for you.
@HikerDude I know, I really hope the age tags on some of these profiles are inflated. It's hard to believe that a 30 yo really thinks this way about men. Reminds me of Holly LOL.
@BigJake yeah, she was a piece of work.
@HikerDude Was she really that old when you met her?
@BigJake She was like 28.
@HikerDude Do not age me. I know you can clearly read that my age says "29". Also, it shouldn't be a shock to you that men exhibit different types of personalities, such as yours, you'd fit into the immature asshole category.
Not all to picture.
It's like grouping different color apples.
*Not hard to picture. I guess for an imbecile it is.
The fact that I have to explain this to you, makes you slow.
Cool take. I've always thought if i was going to get a tattoo it would be on my abs because i think that can look very cool :)
but once a women waste her best years on bad men, why would a decent man want her? makes no sense.
Nothing about this business makes sense my friend.
@brain5000 huh
Nothing about it is logical. It all comes from the heart. Attraction is primal in both men and women.
@brain5000 and what does that have to do with anything?
You ended your comment with "makes no sense."
@brain5000 by makes no sense i mean not going to happen. nuance kid, learn it.
It would happen. Would you turn away a great woman because she had a shitty ex-boyfriend?
@brain5000 yes i would
@brain5000 He's talking about a women being 35-40 and having three kids by the time she realizes she should start dating a responsible guy, and not a wreckless badboy. Although I don't think it takes that long for most women to figure this out, so in reality it's probably mid twenties.
it doesn't exist everyone has different personalities with different tastes
So... Basically they want the bad boy that is nice enough to keep a job. Please tell me this was satire!
howcome your choice of pictures to caption your category of guy are all good looking guys?
Was I supposed to pick unattractive men?
I think since you're speaking to the public, your images should reflect what regular ordinary people relate to.
Men only seem to find a problem with this when it's other men being displayed. There's women displayed on a everyday basis on TV , magazines , mainstream porn that doesn't reflect the image of average everyday women but no one days anything. Perhaps you feel incompetent
*says anything
Men never seem to have this voice when it's hot women being displayed everywhere. I'm surprised you have this voice now.
Anyway I have made my point and will no longer dispute this.
i dont read mytakes by guys. they universally suck, and often misrepresent.
i'm just pointing out a quirk you might not be aware of. your stuff focuses on presenting well reasoned ideas.. through the written language of English. you're not the usual slide show w/ captions.
i doubt you put that much thought into the images...(which is good) hence the result.
not every criticism is an attack y'know. fuck.
Look, I understand your view however I've never heard men argue any images when I post tons of hot women , only until now. I just believe If one really feels that way, feel so despite the gender.
Also, I feel like the only very attractive man was the very first image. There others are still attractive but within reason.
*The others
i personally don't care about your choice of images. i'm speaking on the behalf of younger ladies who read your stuff.
I'm pretty sure they'll let me know if it bothers them
And I'm sure they can articulate their own thoughts and feelings , but thanks.
if they choose to speak up. atm, there's a lone comment from a lady. Your reaction would be warranted if i came at you with accusations, but; i asked first. cheer up.
I expect comments like this from you when someone is post loads of hot women otherwise you are hypocritical in your views
I'm not upset trust me , I actually have no emotion about this because I know the hypocrisy some men hold in nature. People assume they know your emotions through the Internet but it's impossible to tell half of the time.
*someone else posts loads of hot women
there's nothing informative in a piece littered w/ successive pics of hot women. i wouldn't read it, let alone comment on it.. same goes for everything else written that's spammed with images.
the emotions of you and i are irrelevant. i just see it from the eyes of an introverted low self esteem fat girl sitting in her room reading your shit. associating your guy-types with the images of nice guy bad guy topless guy. guys she might have felt she had a chance with initially, until she sees the images you associate with them. i'm not saying your images should rep looks 1-10 and everything in between. i'm just pointing out the resulting coincidence from your oversight.
enjoy your evening.
Realistically , this "low self esteem girl" must be shutting off her tv , not looking at magazines , music albums or anything because aside from my article we live in an entire world that shows images that don't reflect the average person. Instead of someone wanting to hide from that reality (which is impossible) they need to face it and get help with their self esteem. One articles photos isn't going to help someone if they feel such extremes
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https://i63.tinypic.com/23qx9qh.png
lol.
Some guys like me are a bit cautious in the beginning, so their true personality is hidden for a few months, so every girl the guy meets just thinks he's boring and shy.
I guess the closes type I can describe my self is well balanced, maybe kinda well balanced, I definitely don't have those muscles those two had in the first pics, if someone knows how to get like that rip let me know..
Good thing you said 'I think' in the title because oh boy.
How old are we that the bad boy and nice guy are still labels that we use. I wish we would stop putting each others boxes and categories, it would make dating so much easier.
Realistically , the whole human language is labeled. The "chair" you are sitting in is a label. The "computer" you are using is a label. Your "race" is a label. Literally everything is, its unrealistic for one to say they don't want labels or categories. It is any living things form of communication, expression and identifying.
So , saying you want labels to be abolished is impossible.
As long as we breathe , we will be labeled. Instead of one complaining simply choose not to listen to it Also,
I create takes for a wide variety of ages including teens , keep that in mind. As an editor I am writing for all , not just my 20s- 30s age group
And for you to admit you don't want a guy who has his shit together is beyond mind boggling to me , but to each their own !
I don't have a preference, as long as he is kind and honest with me all is good.
I'm the nice guy pretending to be the well balanced guy. It's not that difficult to pull off.
It's not.
But one can only pretend for so long.
Oh no no. It's really not that difficult. I just have to do something douchy once in a while.
Well that doesn't seem like a well balanced guy to me. He isn't douchy according to what I wrote.
Oh. Well it works anyway.
thankfully not many women think like you. none of these stereotypes is true. and whoever judges a book by its cover projects his own intelligence. so these women that think so superficially are thankfully a minority. thats what my experience and common sense dictates.
I didn't make this up. This is based on complaints of both sexes, but nice try.
BUT if you mean that a man should be balanced in the sense of not pedestalising women and becoming a carpet, but also being considerate and attentive then yes. but generally your sterotypical archetypes seem like they came from some cheesy women's magazine article written by a clueless teen girl.
no no these are made of INTERNET complaints. not real life. no mature person believes these stuff.
Generally speaking, there are different types of people, that is just the way things are. Some men have bad intentions, while others have good ones. I've been in situations where there are men who are aggressive, rude and want nothing but sex from me. Then there are those who are extremely sweet, but you find they have no edge to them (so they are a turn off). If you think someone has to be a teen to be able to see that MAJOR difference in personality traits, then you're definitely not smart at all.
you can't argue about smartness and have preteen beliefs about the human psyche. these matters are too complex and multivariant, you can dumb down human personalities and their nuances in that black, white, grey attemot you make here.
Okay, so why don't i just share your view and pretend all men are saints? That's called living in a world of delusion. You're probably just mad because you're the reject on this list apparently.
I am not going to argue with you. It's pointless. So have a great day and adios! I will be moving forward on to important things. You can argue by yourself.
now you jumped on the hypothesis wagon. i'm married with the sweetest wife that actually is so different than you that makes me wonder if i were extremely lucky or you are just such a poor specimen of a human and make the contrast so obvious. where did i mention all men are saints. i think we have two parallel monologues here. also learn to take criticism and the fact that not all people will agree with your opinions.
but you never truly argued in your life. when you face the real deal quititing is the only rationa option. have a nice day too. no reason to spoil our moods for nonsense.
There's a difference between being condescending and constructive criticism. When you look up the differences between both , come back and try to address me probably, then maybe I'll care to listen.
it doesn't get more constructive than this. if i were a woman i have bitchslapped you straight in the face cause you imply that we (women) are some superficial gorillas that dont bother to know the deeper motives of a person and just judge the book by its cover. that we are dumb enough to categorize men in badboys and nice guys. that we are irrational enough to be carried away by our emotions and superficial instincts. this article is first insulting to women THEMSELVES. and human intelligence in general of course.
and i come back to my first statement. i dount doubt there are a few people who think like that BUT we know very well their intelligence and their whereabouts... .
I listed personality traits of these men. How is that judging a book by its cover? Judging a book by its cover means I have no prior knowledge about the person what so ever and I make assumptions off of them. I don't even know why you are jumping to that conclusion. You probably did not read this article. You probably just read the title and scrolled down to comment.
Dont speak on behalf of women , who made you the voice? You're just some whiny man who is butt hurt for no reason.
Someone that is intelligent does not have to say they are every 5 seconds. I have a degree but you don't hear me bragging about it. You have something to prove obviously, but you're not doing it here effectively.
how isn't that judging a book by its cover the bad boy can be an engineer in university or spend the weekends with his grandma in his village, or the nice guy could have been serving in special forces. evrything is relevant. one has too make ridiculous simplifications to accept your categorisation of peolpe. if that can't be understood no point of me trying togive any other explanation.
I think you should read my other take that I dedicated to women (I posted the link in the bottom).
I list in that take, that assumptions aren't always accurate, but it is human nature to make one.
That's just how life is in general!
That's something that cannot be stopped!
i guess you werent very fond of hard sciences. no thats not how human thought works. thats how societal mass thinking works and if we had stayed at that level we would have still been scratching our butts in caves... .
the premise was wrong from the beginning. you can't possible know or even assume "what most women want". and there is definaately lots of self projeting in a broader scale in that mindset. i assure. i've met many women who dont share the same beliefs.
So then you make no assumptions I am assuming you are one to walk down a dark alley with a whole bunch of men? Or someone that's walks into a building that people are evacuating? Or a person that assumes someone strung out on crack has never taken a dose of drugs in her life.
Assumptions and judgments are how the human mind work. It helps us evaluate situations and keep ourselves of trouble.
by the way in my science courses I got no less than a b plus. So you can stop your pathetic argument
ok ok i you are invincible wow. the lengths to which you'll result to win the day! wow. ok, i thereby admit my defeat. you were right on everything and i'm just babbling stupidities for the shake of arguing. there is no substance in my works and you answer exactly to what i say without twisting and misunderstanding.
yb the way since asuming is so beneficial i'll assume your other article you mentioned will be of the exactly same spirit and content as this one so i won't attempt to learn whats the ideal woman that me and most men like and dont even realise it.
I think you are a deluded chick. What was the need to show semi nude duds instead of normal guys. It is folks like you in the media who are creating a false idea of expectation for both men and women, While they themselves would be at the bottom of what they preach.
Write a take about it , maybe someone will care to read it
Men come here to complain about hot men , but they never say a thing when there's loads of hot women being displayed. Hypocrisy at best. Perhaps you feel incompetent, trust me it shows
Honey, You're a serial offender. The type of woman who men loathe. It is women like you who promote misogyny and a sexist mindset in men. The moment men show some affinity , you bring out your knives.
Folks like you are the reason why there is so much of Misandry in media and papers
Everyone on GAG knows your mindset, perhaps you do not know it yet
#grow up for F### sake, you are in your 30s already.
Great crock of shit !
You know so much about me based on a take..
Clearly you can't read , I haven't reached 30 yet , so stop aging me.
And judging by your age , you're not far from it either so I'd quit being a whiny wimp and grow a heavier sack of balls
I was expecting the rant from you sooner or later.
1. You are serial offender honey, there is something about stupids and dead people. They don't realize it that they are dead or stupid respectively.
2.30's is the first dreaded number a woman encounters after high school mathematics. which applies to yourself.
3. Finally you decided to have enough of it, and decide to make a misandry comment.
My first impression of you was spot on. Happy birthday by the way.
Your 30s as well, since you believe I am.
Dont see what age as to do with you being a butthurt reject that was not. capable of making it on this list. you'll be single for life. Go cry about this in an upcoming mytake.
Im not going to let someone too vagina to. show themselves attempt to define me by words I strung together for entertainment to appeal to gags various age groups
Well, To cure your heartburn for someone calling you a 30 year old, Let just assume we both are off the same age. Somehow the argument veered off towards age.
Irrespective of what your gag my takes are, you practice MISANDRY to the zilch and i'm sure you're real life friends and colleague will agree to that, if you have them in your books by the way.
Your mytakes too consist of sexist undertones, which many on gag have complained about which i'm sure you will rebuke them by calling butthurt, blah blah blah.
Anyways how old are you?
Nothing. is sexist here your just an oversensitive little girl
LMAO... over sensitive girl?
You've made that accusation before as well. Care to check your previous stupid misandry my-takes.
Honey. You surely hate kids. Don't you? It shows apparently
Im not going to take anyone seriously that doesn't at least have the balls to show themselves while they accuse others of being exactly what they are. Instead I will laugh at you and hope for the new year that you stop hiding like a scared little girl
You can't act strong or courageous and be a coward
Show what? Do you want me to add you on facebook or what? You repeatedly use cuss words such as balls, butthurt at every given opportunity. Imagine if a guy in an argument refers to the words titties, carpet munch etc. All i am accusing you off is that you practice misandry without realizing it in the first place and anyone who calls that out to you, you are quick off your ass to call them names by accusations of being a little boy, little girl etc.
My query is, Are you a sadistic bully in your personal life? Because going by your responses with regards to children the omens do not look good.
Honey, I am actually starting to empathize with you. So, let me ask you , How is your weekend going? xD
I will not carry this conversation on. The moment you checked off "Anonymous" and chose to hide behind a wall, shouting out accusations, makes you a coward. So goodbye. Come back when you can show yourself, then I'll have respect for you because at least you can show me who you are.
Dear, How about a blind date? ;)
I've always thought that this bad/nice guy thing is shallow stereotypical labeling. I think guys and people in general are more complex than that.
Realistically the entire human language is based on labels. The "chair" you are sitting on is a label. The "computer" you are using is a label. Your hair color is a label. Your personality traits are labels. Literally everything so to speak is an label , there is absolutely no way to get away from them. Labels are used to communicate , identify and express oneself.
Realistically people are beyond their labels.
However , when you operate in a certain manner , you must understand realistically you'll be labeled. If I can't keep a stable job , I don't take care of my kids , I'm out partying everything , I may be labeled a "loser". I may have great attributes aside from those major terrible ones but that is all that will be seen.
*out partying every night