
That guy you've had a crush on for months who never seemed to pay you a second of attention, yet the moment you decide to get over him, he will waltz by with his big, shining grin, swoop you off your feet and... offer you gum. And there you go falling down that bottomless rabbit hole again. Look! He may like you after all... right?
Girls are very smart. Our intuition outruns that of the most sensitive emotion-detecting supper computer. We can sense a guy's feelings a mile a way. If you've ever been with a group of gossiping girls, you would have definitely heard "Oh Michael? Yeah, he text me the other day. He's so in love with me it's adorable." Okay, maybe not all girls are that mean, but the bottom line is we do know. We don't need all this online advice, all these different websites to tell us if a guy likes us. We just know, and most of the time, we are right. Guys are very obvious and straitgh-forward when they like a girl.
The problem, however, comes from the guys we like. I've heard myself say this so many times "If this was anyother guy, I would know he likes me or not." When girls fall in puppy love, we don't judge by intuition, but by what we want the situation to be. "Mike looked at me today. I think he likes me!" "We never talk but I can tell he wants to talk to me. He's just too shy." "What if he does this, does he like me then?" We contort male-kind into some mysterious woodsland creature, one we know nothing about.
The down fall of female kind is our neglegence towards what we know v. what we think. We willingly put ourselves through cycles after cycles of confusion and pain just to chase an unattainable image of a man who does not exist. We forget sometimes, that men were not made for us to pick, chose, then make up a lovestory with. We get hurt because we are chasing a shadow of who he is.
Nonetheless, not all hope is lost for deep down, each girl's intuition still burns, shining a way to the truth. That gut feeling that you have. Yes, that! What is it telling you? Behind all fabricated lust lie the answer that you've known all along. Does he like you?
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