Pretty sure only stupid bitches pull stuff like that.
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This is utter bullshit. In the first part, I never see any of those things as creepy, too much, clingy, blah blah blah. You'd have to be a major psycho bitch to think this way.
Well, you'd be surprised at the way people think and (not all) but there are women like this. People are people and from my experience, people can be mean and rude and not really care about anybody but themselves. It does happen.
Here's the version from my country: if he looks at women, he's a pervert; if he doesn't look at women, he's gay! These girls are confused, but they won't confuse me! I know what I want, and I'm too old for their bs. Feminists, put a sock in it!
It's not about rejecting guys, it's about how they do it. It's one thing if you say "I'm sorry, I'm not interested but I appreciate you coming over and talking to me. Imagine it wasn't easy to do". It's a complete other when you say" Go way, you are so not my type and frankly you're a little creepy". That's what I'm talking about.
As for how I treat guys different, I basically treat all people the same. I've been hurt a lot in my life so I don't ever want to treat people in the hurtful ways they've treated me. It's strict code I live by.
@KawaiiPie67, I think you just know good girls. Or you think that ghosting is a good way to let someone know that you aren't interested. I've gone on numerous first dates where the girl will say she has a great time, and that she looks forward to a second date. Then after we depart from the 1st date, I never hear from her again.
I choose to do the second set of things. It's better to not approach and be called clueless than to get pepper sprayed and arrested for attempted sexual assault when I went to approach them. So that's what I do. It's the lesser of two evils.
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I explode on my boyfriend when he tells me I'm beautiful, because I don't believe it to begin with. I hate hearing him lie (at least in my own mind he's lying).
If hearing your boyfriend compliment you makes you "explode" on him and you assume that he's lying, then you are emotionally unfit to be in a relationship and should stay single until you get your shit together.
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Some girls act as depicted in this take. Certainly not all of them.
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No shit.
What you say is very true and I applaud you for your honesty.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVNEp6hZE3gBut this is also very true:
Pretty sure only stupid bitches pull stuff like that.
This is utter bullshit. In the first part, I never see any of those things as creepy, too much, clingy, blah blah blah. You'd have to be a major psycho bitch to think this way.
Well, you'd be surprised at the way people think and (not all) but there are women like this. People are people and from my experience, people can be mean and rude and not really care about anybody but themselves. It does happen.
There are a lot of psycho bitches in the world. I seem to find every single one of them.
Here's the version from my country: if he looks at women, he's a pervert; if he doesn't look at women, he's gay! These girls are confused, but they won't confuse me! I know what I want, and I'm too old for their bs.
Feminists, put a sock in it!
That's why we just sort of do whatever and be kinda nice but not too nice
Great take.
I've been trough all of these things. Your take is 100% accurate.
Excellent myTake. Putting SOs in "double binds" ("damned if you/damned if you don't) situations is also a trait of Borderline Personality Disorder.
I read all those things and can't understand how anyone let alone a woman wouldn't appreciate that kind of effort.
Honestly I just do whatever I feel like. If I'm going to be wrong either way, I might as well do what I would prefer
So how do U treat guys differently than how other women do? I'm sure you've rejected guys too.
It's not about rejecting guys, it's about how they do it. It's one thing if you say "I'm sorry, I'm not interested but I appreciate you coming over and talking to me. Imagine it wasn't easy to do". It's a complete other when you say" Go way, you are so not my type and frankly you're a little creepy". That's what I'm talking about.
As for how I treat guys different, I basically treat all people the same. I've been hurt a lot in my life so I don't ever want to treat people in the hurtful ways they've treated me. It's strict code I live by.
I'm pretty sure most girls give nice rejections... I've nvr spoken like the 2nd line to a guy like that lol. I don't think anyone would.
Then you have more faith in people then I do and I know there girls out there that would do that.
@KawaiiPie67, I think you just know good girls. Or you think that ghosting is a good way to let someone know that you aren't interested. I've gone on numerous first dates where the girl will say she has a great time, and that she looks forward to a second date. Then after we depart from the 1st date, I never hear from her again.
@Botchie Nope I've been ghosted myself so I dislike it.
I choose to do the second set of things. It's better to not approach and be called clueless than to get pepper sprayed and arrested for attempted sexual assault when I went to approach them. So that's what I do. It's the lesser of two evils.
I explode on my boyfriend when he tells me I'm beautiful, because I don't believe it to begin with. I hate hearing him lie (at least in my own mind he's lying).
Lame
If hearing your boyfriend compliment you makes you "explode" on him and you assume that he's lying, then you are emotionally unfit to be in a relationship and should stay single until you get your shit together.
That's dumb. You are the problem, not your boyfriend. You are, likely, very emotionally immature, and you probably shouldn't be in a relationship.
I hope he leaves for someone better
@Toad-1 At this point I hope so too
If you were not beautiful he would not be with you.
The situation you gave above... I guess the girl needed that guys empathy more than his stupid compliments...
Its like laughing at a funeral
"Men, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. So, what are you suppose to do?"
Do what you think is right. What do you have to lose?
TLDR : Women be crazy.
GAG : Stating the bleeding obvious since 2013.
I guess the only option is to become an MRA pickup artist redpiller, and get all the poon.
I say this in the sincere way and not the creepy way.
I love you. XD
Great take.
Bottom line: Just be yourself. Don't compromise yourself for others. You will find people who accept you and your boundaries
wow didn't expect that from a woman. yeah women of the world, read that shit.