Wow, awesome Take. I think you're perfectly fine - in fact you sound more mature and stable than other women. No. 7 is exceedingly true, and you even see it on this site a lot. Women will defend and support each other even when they are wrong, and they mostly do this to get at guys when guys say something they don't like.
Again, really great Take. Probably the first one (or maybe second?) I ever clicked thumbs up to.
Thanks, nobody else feels that way and I'm about ready to cry because of all the negativity and I can't take anymore. But, I'm glad somebody saw that I wasn't bragging. I just wrote about something, that I think about from time to time. So, again thanks.
Don't let people here get you down or make you feel that bad. The demographics on this site - particularly among females - are mostly university students who are insecure about being women and need all those feminist studies and stuff, and other women who are too proud to admit that their gender is ever wrong or imperfect. So they want to hate and disregard ones like you because you make them feel threatened. Their problem, not yours.
I do agree that you're definitely different from most women I've known / been around based on 6 and 7. I see you expressing yourself as a person instead of just a woman. I don't get the disclaimer though.. I've only been on here for 2 months and have had quite a few opinions misinterpreted by others, some have gotten rather nasty replies. Even been trolled a couple times, but I find that funny lol. Anyway, I think this is a great myTake that should stand strong on it's own.
Thanks. I did the disclaimer because the last time I wrote something that was just an opinion, people interpreted as something entirely different. One person even called me a schizophrenic and I'm just not in the right mood to deal with negativity, accusations and people telling me about myself, when they don't know me. I'm just a girl who likes to write about stuff, why can't people just get that?
Well, that's your opinion and this was mine. I didn't say I was special, I'm just different than your average bear. I really have never belonged well in this world and I don't connect to things the way people do, I don't think the way people do and I don't see the world the way people do. That's what I meant by different, that I just don't fit.
You sound like my kind of woman. I've been on here long enough to know that after you read this, you are going to think I wrote this for a reason but I didn't. I just wrote it for no reason.
P. S. These things actually DO make you superior to other women.
I never said that, check out the disclaimer I wrote at the end. I never said I wrote this to show case how special I am, because I don't think I am special. I wrote this because I like to write and after seeing my cousins post about her nail place, I just thought to myself "this is why I'm different because I don't do that stuff" I didn't write this to get anything from anyone because there's nothing I want. I didn't write this to brag because that's not who I am. So, please don't be rude and say I said things I never said.
"I'm just someone who wanted to express some of the things that make her different from others, that's it"
That's pretty "look how I'm different, a special snowflake" according to me and a lotbof the commenters below. Out of all the things you listed the only thing I have is long hair, which I actually have an appointment to cut today amd guess what? I'm not going to write a take on how I'm also so different than everyone else because plenty of women are like this. Or what should I also write a take on how different I am?
Different means "not the same as another or each other; unlike in nature, form, or quality" special is basically "different from what is usual". Saying you are different from most means you are saying you are special wether you like it or intended it to be like that ir not. I'm sorry, that's what this take is "look at me, I'm so different!".
I'm not in the mood to argue, if that's what you think then that's what you think but the fact is nobody knows me or anything about me and reading a couple sentences in a take I wrote doesn't give any of you the right to tell me about myself, what my intentions were, what kind of person I am or whether I different or not. I've always kept to myself and I've never done what other people do, that's just the fact of the matter but if you and everyone else on here wants to think I'm a witch with stick up my ass who thinks I'm better than everyone else, then you go right ahead and do that. I don't have the energy to keep defending myself, anymore. That's all I ever do and I don't have the strength, so you go right ahead and think I'm a horrible person. I don't care anymore. I really don't.
Points 4 , 6 & 7 are common female traits , definitely agree here , sadly there are a lot of point 8's around too !! Point 5 is more of a point 7 , having worked on the doors & seen it all , a typical girls night out is a man free zone , they do NOT check out men & want nothing to do with men , if anything it's a Point 7 night out & men are NOT welcome , any attempts by men to approach are always brutally shot down !! Good take & there is nothing wrong with different.
Nice take :) I see what you mean. You're different because you're not the typical stereotype of a woman. While there might be many women who are like you, we don't expect that from a woman, because when we think of a female, we think of shopping, manicures, makeup, gossip, etc... Men seem to love women like you because they relate to them and get along with them more easily. That's what makes you special.
You are an awesome person. Don't listen to the haters on here. Why is it that many women on here don't understand that you said most women not all. It is a fact what you said. And the woman that said she doesn't agree with the entitlement thing is in denial or ignorant.
Thanks, I appreciate that. And, I'm always loyal to anyone I care for (maybe even to a fault). Also, you can't sleep around if you've slept with anymore before.
you and i could have been twins. The only difference is I don't do mani's/pedi's, and I'm very blunt and direct to the point that I piss many people off...
well, it just seems like a waste of money really... and besides, the dating situation where i live is so bad that it's not worth dating anyone... and since i don't believe in sleeping around, like so many of the girls do here, what's the point?
Thank god I'm not the only one like this!!😂 Only the shopping thing though, I don't shop A LOT and I don't spend money a lot but from time to time I would like to get some new clothes for example, everything else, identical 👌
I think when you read whole take it just sounds like a normal woman who just doesn't fit into the stereotypes some people have of women. I see nothing wrong with that.
I can relate to Manicures/Pedicures, Fashion Trends, Shopping, Girls night out, Female solidarity, Sense of entitlement. I'm kind of the same as you with those.
I'm different from other women because I don't go out to night clubs bars and I don't go to party's or drink alcohol and I don't wear makeup or wear skirts dresses heels or flats everyday and i have more guy friends on the Internet then female friends and I don't like to be friends with many girls cause some can be mean or cause drama
I dont think your take was that bad. Yea usually mytakes are not suppose to be like this but I didn't take anything negative from it. You also did state that you know that not all women are like this.
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All of these traits are extremely common in my experience.
@lumos in American it isn't. You live in Europe so you don't know.
@steven7890789 grass is greener blah blah
Wow, awesome Take. I think you're perfectly fine - in fact you sound more mature and stable than other women. No. 7 is exceedingly true, and you even see it on this site a lot. Women will defend and support each other even when they are wrong, and they mostly do this to get at guys when guys say something they don't like.
Again, really great Take. Probably the first one (or maybe second?) I ever clicked thumbs up to.
Thanks, nobody else feels that way and I'm about ready to cry because of all the negativity and I can't take anymore. But, I'm glad somebody saw that I wasn't bragging. I just wrote about something, that I think about from time to time. So, again thanks.
Don't let people here get you down or make you feel that bad. The demographics on this site - particularly among females - are mostly university students who are insecure about being women and need all those feminist studies and stuff, and other women who are too proud to admit that their gender is ever wrong or imperfect. So they want to hate and disregard ones like you because you make them feel threatened. Their problem, not yours.
Thanks, for saying that. Not many people are nice to me on here, so I appreciate the ones that are. Thank you.
I do agree that you're definitely different from most women I've known / been around based on 6 and 7. I see you expressing yourself as a person instead of just a woman. I don't get the disclaimer though.. I've only been on here for 2 months and have had quite a few opinions misinterpreted by others, some have gotten rather nasty replies. Even been trolled a couple times, but I find that funny lol. Anyway, I think this is a great myTake that should stand strong on it's own.
Thanks. I did the disclaimer because the last time I wrote something that was just an opinion, people interpreted as something entirely different. One person even called me a schizophrenic and I'm just not in the right mood to deal with negativity, accusations and people telling me about myself, when they don't know me. I'm just a girl who likes to write about stuff, why can't people just get that?
WOW!
congratulations!
So special! So different!
This is so tucking stupid. I don't think I have ever rolled my eyes so hard.
Fucking***
Well, that's your opinion and this was mine. I didn't say I was special, I'm just different than your average bear. I really have never belonged well in this world and I don't connect to things the way people do, I don't think the way people do and I don't see the world the way people do. That's what I meant by different, that I just don't fit.
Hahahaha, @rgb008, 'rolled my eyes so hard'! I was trying to imagine what that would look like! I'm gonna have to use that...
@Shaft50 haha. But for real though
I know, I know... she's different
XD... upvote!
You sound like my kind of woman. I've been on here long enough to know that after you read this, you are going to think I wrote this for a reason but I didn't. I just wrote it for no reason.
P. S. These things actually DO make you superior to other women.
I don't feel superior nor do I want to be. Thank you, for your kind words though.
Yeah , superior is definitely the wrong word usage here.
@Stacyzee No, I'm sorry. Superior is the right word. Morally fucking superior.
Having a sense of entitlement (that is inappropriate to what you're actually entitled to), is an inferior moral position than being well-adjusted.
Not judging women by their sex but as individuals is a SUPERIOR moral position to take. (solidarity, etc.)
Not being hobbled by the negative aspects that seem to haunt women is superior than not being hobbled by those things.
You said yourself this was just an article you wrote to showcase how special and different you are. Wow, want a gold star or something?
I never said that, check out the disclaimer I wrote at the end. I never said I wrote this to show case how special I am, because I don't think I am special. I wrote this because I like to write and after seeing my cousins post about her nail place, I just thought to myself "this is why I'm different because I don't do that stuff" I didn't write this to get anything from anyone because there's nothing I want. I didn't write this to brag because that's not who I am. So, please don't be rude and say I said things I never said.
"I'm just someone who wanted to express some of the things that make her different from others, that's it"
That's pretty "look how I'm different, a special snowflake" according to me and a lotbof the commenters below. Out of all the things you listed the only thing I have is long hair, which I actually have an appointment to cut today amd guess what? I'm not going to write a take on how I'm also so different than everyone else because plenty of women are like this. Or what should I also write a take on how different I am?
Different means "not the same as another or each other; unlike in nature, form, or quality" special is basically "different from what is usual". Saying you are different from most means you are saying you are special wether you like it or intended it to be like that ir not. I'm sorry, that's what this take is "look at me, I'm so different!".
I'm not in the mood to argue, if that's what you think then that's what you think but the fact is nobody knows me or anything about me and reading a couple sentences in a take I wrote doesn't give any of you the right to tell me about myself, what my intentions were, what kind of person I am or whether I different or not. I've always kept to myself and I've never done what other people do, that's just the fact of the matter but if you and everyone else on here wants to think I'm a witch with stick up my ass who thinks I'm better than everyone else, then you go right ahead and do that. I don't have the energy to keep defending myself, anymore. That's all I ever do and I don't have the strength, so you go right ahead and think I'm a horrible person. I don't care anymore. I really don't.
@MaiNameIsSunshine stop being butthurt cause you know what she said is the truth.
@steven7890789 Did I ask you something sir, no so good bye, I did not invite you to my comment. Good day.
Points 4 , 6 & 7 are common female traits , definitely agree here , sadly there are a lot of point 8's around too !! Point 5 is more of a point 7 , having worked on the doors & seen it all , a typical girls night out is a man free zone , they do NOT check out men & want nothing to do with men , if anything it's a Point 7 night out & men are NOT welcome , any attempts by men to approach are always brutally shot down !! Good take & there is nothing wrong with different.
Thanks.
Nice take :)
I see what you mean. You're different because you're not the typical stereotype of a woman. While there might be many women who are like you, we don't expect that from a woman, because when we think of a female, we think of shopping, manicures, makeup, gossip, etc...
Men seem to love women like you because they relate to them and get along with them more easily. That's what makes you special.
Thanks.
You are an awesome person. Don't listen to the haters on here. Why is it that many women on here don't understand that you said most women not all. It is a fact what you said. And the woman that said she doesn't agree with the entitlement thing is in denial or ignorant.
Thanks, I appreciate everything you said.
Your welcome.
Great you are my kind of women...
But tell me more about your loyalty? In a relationship.. How much loyal are you? Do you sleep around with different men when you are single?
It's really good to see that there are good women like you out there !! Cheers! :-)
Thanks, I appreciate that. And, I'm always loyal to anyone I care for (maybe even to a fault). Also, you can't sleep around if you've slept with anymore before.
That's great ! :-) but what was your last statement?
"you can't sleep around if you've slept with anymore before"
Sorry, that last statement was suppose to have word never in there.
What? I am still confused LOl ok whatever :P
It was suppose to say "you can't sleep around if you've never slept with anyone before". Meaning, I'm a virgin.
Oh that's great.. :-)
Many women are the same, if anything it's not "different" it's common.
yeah yeah another vagina who thinks is a special snowflake. yeah... you and other 4 billion... .
No, actually I don't feel all that special but you don't know me. So, I can't expect you to know that.
you and i could have been twins. The only difference is I don't do mani's/pedi's, and I'm very blunt and direct to the point that I piss many people off...
You dislike them that much, huh? I don't do those either.
well, it just seems like a waste of money really... and besides, the dating situation where i live is so bad that it's not worth dating anyone... and since i don't believe in sleeping around, like so many of the girls do here, what's the point?
I getcha.
In translation : I want guys to give me a pat on the back after all their shit talking on western women, as if we're all spoiled entitled brats lol
Nope, but everybody else is making assumptions about me. Why should you be any different.
@EgyptianNergets why do you have to be mean to her?
Thank god I'm not the only one like this!!😂 Only the shopping thing though, I don't shop A LOT and I don't spend money a lot but from time to time I would like to get some new clothes for example, everything else, identical 👌
I think when you read whole take it just sounds like a normal woman who just doesn't fit into the stereotypes some people have of women. I see nothing wrong with that.
Thanks.
Nice take ^^
I can relate to Manicures/Pedicures, Fashion Trends, Shopping, Girls night out, Female solidarity, Sense of entitlement. I'm kind of the same as you with those.
Thanks.
I'm different from other women because I don't go out to night clubs bars and I don't go to party's or drink alcohol and I don't wear makeup or wear skirts dresses heels or flats everyday and i have more guy friends on the Internet then female friends and I don't like to be friends with many girls cause some can be mean or cause drama
I dont think your take was that bad. Yea usually mytakes are not suppose to be like this but I didn't take anything negative from it. You also did state that you know that not all women are like this.
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr Seuss
Great job 😊
Thanks.
You're welcome.
Don't mind the haters. Haters gonna hate.
I suppose they are.