How to Move On From the Guy You Like

[YaBaba]

It's quite simple...but you are going to be very reluctant to do it.

Anyway, let's get started.

Step 1: Say your goodbye : D

Could be as simple as, "Nice talking to you, but it's time to go. Peace."

If you must wait for a reply, go ahead.

Read what he says, and then that's it.

You don't respond back. That would just create another conversation. We don't want that. :)

Step 2: Tell your friends

That you have finally stopped talking to him.

Sometimes they say helpful words. Other time, you will have a laugh. : )

Step 3: You probably wouldn't do it.

But for those who can, delete the app you used to communicate with him.

Just for a few months, perhaps. Once your feelings are gone or addiction has dissipated, you can reactivate your account.

Step 4: Go do something :/

If you have plenty of spare time, you are obviously going to be reminded of him.

And if you have nothing to do, then I am sorry. Have patience, discipline, and Good Luck!

[Anonymous]

I ran back to him because I couldn't help it, so I blocked his number. We're completely done now. Actually I'm glad. He was an ass

[TripleAce]

Honest its just do it. Find new beginnings and let time pass. You're guna feel the burn. No way around it

[justagirl5]

Great take, it works for just regular crushes, but what do you do if you love your friend? I should get over him but I don't wanna stop being friends lol

[YaBaba]

lol I haven't been to that situation, so I can't really give any tips : (

[Pedro_N]

I'm was in the same situation. I loved a friend, we kissed once and things where quite confusing between us. As hard as it may be to take the decision to stop being friends or just "pause" and take a break. You have to take it. Take it on good terms, have a serious and light conversation about what's going on, and where you wanna be in life. Then just work on yourself, go out, exercise, try new hobbies. The goal you wanna set, is to live your life as a single happy person! :)
And once you reached that phase where you can say: "Well, ok it was not that hard, I don't actually need his love, we are friends and we can maintain that :D" You can try to reach him out and re-establish the friendship.

Staying friends while you are in love with someone. Is not possible. DOT. It's not a question about maturity or being cruel. It's about your self respect, health and well being.
-Ps: Sorry for the long comment ^^

[RedVulcan]

Nice take! Good job on covering everything I think was necessary. In some situations rebound relationships are a really bad idea and I was wondering if they'd show up but I think I get why they didn't.

[martyfellow]

First priority is to get busy with something that will out you into a new physical location, so you aren't reminded... and new people around you, who won't remind you!

[Anonymous]

Fuck all that shit. Just fuck a lot of people.

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[ElissaDido]

I'm glad I moved on super fast from my "ex-crush " even after talking for 8 months.

[TripleAce]

Yea but 8 months is very very short, wouldn't you say?

[ElissaDido]

@TripleAce kinda haha maybe that's why I moved on so fast, it's a "online ex boyfriend " lol which basically means it was nothing.

[TripleAce]

Well it was something lol. I mean online ex can lead to something major if it actually happens.

Glad you got over it. But why is a gal like you single wherever you are living?

[ElissaDido]

@TripleAce honestly... I don't really actively seek relationships haha I don't feel like I'm in a place to be in one rn because I want to improve myself first ^^
Unless I meet someone who WoW's me I'm not willing to invest my time on dating considering I have to focus on my studies ^^

[Omar5881]

Wow you? Hmmmm wanna ride a buggati veyron 😛

[ElissaDido]

@Omar5881 haha yeah I just wish I haven't lost so much time with him ugh he's a good guy but we're not good for eachother.

[Omar5881]

You're better without him 😛 wanna talk?

[TripleAce]

Yea I can see the kinda lawyer you're going to be lol

Bitter and harsh

[ElissaDido]

@TripleAce hAha I don't think so I'm really docile Irl and very calm ><I'm not planning on being a "court type of lawyer " anyway, I'm more into legal adviser for companies kinda lawyer haha

[TripleAce]

Lol indeed. Ill just bust your chops once in a while haha im sure you're an awesome girl

Legal advisors. Yea those are the ones that need to look good. Pencil skirts and real sharp. Probably would suit you quite well

you see, if you dont have a guy... now you're a force to reckon with. A women that is uber career oriented is a tuff cookie. Lol

Seen lots of them. Looks like you're taking that route 😌 Which is ok lol. But a little love wouldn't hurt either

[TripleAce]

I can picture you. You're someone that yaps so much. Walks around looking sexy. That the guy that likes you. One day will just stop you in your tracks. Tell you to shut up and kiss you

Yea that would put you right in your place

[AriadneSky]

if someone rejects you thats closure enough for me i wouldn't still be talking to him so there'd be nothing to stop doing.

[daniel712]

Maybe you didn't give them a chance to pay attention to you. They were all along but you didn't see it cause you were about yourself

[Karōshi]

A girl who was into me a while ago moved on by spreading them for one of the other dudes at work. lel

[YaBaba]

omg lol

[Unit1]

And why would anyone avoid/move on from the person you have feelings for? Logic...

[beccaboo2]

It's logical if the person doesn't return your feelings.

[Unit1]

@beccaboo2 That wasn't said in this take. I took it as in "Avoid guys that you like and go for those bad guys, who treat you like dirt".

[YaBaba]

Well, the ladies know what this Take was for. So it's ok.

[kas77121]

It is hard to curve the obsessive thoughts but life goes on. Besides, the guys in my past who ultimately ended up paying attention to me were so much better than the guys in my life who didn't care about me 😉

[macix670]

I turn my attention to other things in my life and try to forget about him. It works after a while, sometimes a week and sometimes two months.

[blondfrog]

Lol at the pokemon gif

[DandelionGirl]

It's not as easy you make it sound though...

[lazermazer]

Pretty interesting

[YaBaba]

: D

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[John_Doesnt]

Yeah, either that or be a man.

[John_Doesnt]

@RedVulcan hiring a prostitute won't solve my problems? Well it sure worked last time.

[Thisperson98]

Nice take.

[Finalphilosophy]

time is the best way

[YaBaba]

Yeah but without effort on one's part, time won't help

[Finalphilosophy]

Time always help, but it could be a long time, like few years.

[Omar5881]

@HookingSwan

[YaBaba]

No no don't tell me

[Omar5881]

Tell you what? 😂😂😂

[YaBaba]

Lol they are still together I hope! H and her ❤️