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Why I Never, Ever Text Guys First (Page 4)

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  • amarahorrorstory
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    I don't text first because usually when I do they don't pick up on the whole "I'm hitting on you" part. ITS SO ANNOYING

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  • orphan
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    nothing wrong with letting the guy hit
    you up first until you two become friendly. then your "not texting first" will become a problem.

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    • amandaaxo
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      Yes I have no problemtexting first after we are already friendly !

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  • Kuraj
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    I imagine it is the same deal with guys.
    Though personally, I hate texting.
    I have texted people first when I was young but it was a waste of time and I never got a girl that way anyway.

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  • ProbablyTooMature
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    I'm curious, does this mean first during the day? Or first after exchanging numbers? First after a date? First what?

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    • RedVulcan
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      First contact with intention to date. Pretty sure of this.

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  • Loadedgamer
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    you wrote an essay for no reason!

    So you could just say you don't text first?

    Wow that is SO productive and logic thinking!

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  • Anonymous
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    After reading this, my conclusion was that if girls really wanted to text me, they would. If girls liked me, they would put in the effort to basically 'chase' me, I'm too shy, so I could never take the initiative.

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  • StickStickity13
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    If a guy doesn't like you, texting him first won't change his mind. Texting a guy that likes you back first will work.

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  • Keyspirit
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    What i heard is that gurls dont like to be view as an object that needs to be win over or to be claimed cuz thats like objectifying u. Gurls will nvr know what they want in life. Period. 👌🏼

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  • 93stepsawayfromhome
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    https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/anecdotal

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  • Anonymous
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    With that mentality you won't go far. Not with guys that are not beta manginas at least... .

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  • Anonymous
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    If guys are supposed to message first then how do I message a girl on facebook without looking creepy. It just seems a bit weird to get a message from someone you don't know.

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  • Fuentes
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    Lol for me I think I would be annoying to text first because I'm She so women always text me first haha

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  • ice_vampire
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    In my whole life I never texted a girl first. I just reply back if you message first.
    But my reasons are totally different from yours.

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    • FrenchyFrenchToast
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      how does that work out for you

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    • ice_vampire
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      @FrenchyFrenchToast
      It works out fine for me.

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  • SleepingSnorlax
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    Shot i wish girls would make the first move
    God is would be so much easier lol

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  • AlwaysBelieving
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    The difference is text first or the first to text. You make it sound like a game.

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  • Finalphilosophy
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    I will text you first because you are so special, attractive, clever...

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  • Anonymous
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    If I'm interrested I text first if no then I just wait for him to text me

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  • Anonymous
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    I agree with you. If a guy really likes you he will make the first move and if he doesn't then he doesn't like you enough. That's what I think..

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    • ChrisBUK
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      Or he likes you so much that he fears being rejected if the first move doesn't go well.

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  • Anonymous
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    Wow, but are you sure the kind of boy who ignores you when you text is the kind of boy you want to be with?

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  • hotstuffSRD
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    So you're saying I should message ya
    Ok
    Sure 😂😂😂 LOL

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