5 Reasons Why I Don't Befriend Girls (Page 2)
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Clearly you've met the wrong sorts of girls. No wonder, when you make such negative, sweeping generalizations too.
And these traits also aren't specific to gender.
Don't know what kind of girls you've been meeting, but I feel lucky, the best friends I've ever met were female.
Here point is girlfriends I think, not girl and guy relationships.
@DancingGirl What?
agree some of my best friends have been women
@DancingGirl No, I think she meant just females in general, looking at her replies too
Actually, some of my best friends are girls... men are more competitive, besides that, girls are more tolerant towards my different opinions or views. Backstabbers? That's individual, not gender related.
Tbh... if you really can't get along with an entire gender, it says a lot about you. And I'm a person who didn't have any females I could call a friend til I was pretty old, but when girls have these arguments of "oh because girls are full of drama" or similar, honestly, says a lot about them, because not every girl gets that shit. If you're surrounded by drama, that's you.
But I'm one of those people who avoid drama. I don't try to start any bc it's stupid and a waste of time. I just can't get along with girls not only because they're two faced but because I don't really have girly interests like I don't care about Beyonce, I don't care about make up, beauty, I hate feminism, shopping, chick flicks, boy bands, and all of that crap. I care a lot more about video games and computer programming, which isn't something girls are interested in.
And you really think there isn't a single girl out there who's like you, myTake owner?
Girl gamers actually make up a decent percentage of sales for games and stuff. Really, only certain types of girls are into everything you said, and just like there's all different types of guys, there's all different types of girls. You only need to spend 5 mins on here to see a ton of girls saying they're not into those things too.
I still stand by my opinion that if you've always got drama with girls it can't be everybody else with the problem and you're perfectly ok, because realistically not every girl goes through that with other girls. Nobody can have so many problems with people and blame everybody else.
No one wants to be friends with someone who dismisses half the human race by stereotyping them because of their sex. These are things that some PEOPLE do and some don't. Most guys have female friends and love women. What makes you think anyone would want to be with a woman if they are all exclusively like this - or are you the one exception?
I've had gurl "friends" like that in middle school and none of them are my friends now.
Though now I have girl friends who are the best, there's no competition between us, we support each other, we protect each other, we love each other and we have golden rule, no man can stand between us.
To the ones who don't believe that girls can be great friends, that's because you've never met my friends, I choose them carefully and they are the people I would want to get old with.
*girl
*can't XD
Not true. As a girl, most of my guy friends love that i'm the way i am. I am more relaxed and they love that about me. I love some of my guy friends like they are my brothers and i wouldn't do anything to hurt them... but i wouldn't mind leaving the friend zone with a couple of them. Anyway they are the ones that made me as relaxed advice i am. I used to be the biggest bitch ever and now that i have them to talk to and know that they aren't going to tell anyone is amazing. Yes girls can be a pain in the ass, but we mean well by our friends and if you befriend some of us then who knows maybe you can have an impact like this
Either you're a bitter man or you're a very bad judge of character when choosing friends.
Thanks for reminding us that YOU are a backstabbing, drama queen, who is very competitive and likes to sabotage other people's relationships, and turn against people.
I've kept secrets for years and never told anyone, I don't backstab my "friends", I am definitely not competitive, I'm already in a relationship so I have no reason to sabotage anyone elses, and I turned against these people for a good reason. I have been nothing but nice to them and then I find out one of them tried to make a personal attack on my boyfriend. This is the same girl who talked shit behind my back. I don't have time for people who are gonna backstab me and take advantage of me.
And it isn't just one girl, every girl I've been friends with in the past has taken advantage of me.
Bla bla bla. Are you female or not? By badmouthing all females, you are dooming yourself, you silly little catty bitch of a girl. Think you're superior, eh? How dumb
Yes I am female and no I don't think I'm better than anyone else.
So you were describing yourself. Cause you're not describing me. Bye felicia
I'll be honest I agree. All my friends back stabbed me or tried to sleep with my dad or boyfriend. I never got along with girls, i had more fun joking with the guys. All the girls i knew just wanted to talk shit about other people. Guys have back stabbed me too. Usually over getting a girlfriend or drugs.
Ironically, according to observations and personal experience, women who can't stop bitching about women's drama, are the ones that create it. The reason why they usually befriend groups of guys is because they enjoy it when the spotlight is solely on them. Then those groups of male friends usually happen to fall apart because they all ended up falling for her due to her constant cock-teasing. Just saying...
Everyone has different personalities... plenty of guys are like this too. And plenty of guys and girls aren't like this.
Why downvote lol
Anyone who isn't hating on females gets a downvote.
I've definitely met some women who were like this, but they're in the minority... And it's easy to choose not to hang out with those kinds of people.
I used to feel that way until I met my current friends. Your just hanging out with the wrong people.
For my whole life? Nah I think its just some natural trait girls have that makes them two faced.
My 5 best friends aren't like that at all.
Then where do I find girls that aren't two faced?
I met mine in college., my roommate was a vollleyball player and so I got really close with the girls on the volleyball team. We're all still best friends.
I've said it many times, women could get whatever they want in the world, equal pay, equal rights, whatever, if they could just stop stabbing each other in the back for five minutes.
A misogynist is a man who hates women, NEARLY as much as other women hate women.
You're not describing friends, you're describing jerks.
Well then where do I find real friends?
You're asking the wrong person.
you just try and try to find real ones until you do.
while i do agree with this entirely about most girls, you have to remember not all of them are like that. however, i prefer guys more for the same reasons.
My wife is my best friend since 1967. She didn't do any of the things mentioned.
"I don't befriend girls".
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*is joke*
That only happens when you be friend those type of people.
I have 3 amazing girl friends with amazing character.
There are good girls out there, with good morals, and behavior; you just have to be one as well, and be observant.