Effort: The Most Attractive Thing To Me!

[Anonymous]

Everybody find some certain things attractive. Sometimes it can be just a lovely smile, and sometmes just a certain word. For me it is a kind of behavior. I find people who make effort very attractive.

The most attractive thing to me is effort. Someone who really wants to talk to me, want to see me, wants to make me a part of their life.

"I don't have time"

Some people say they don't have time. They just use time as an excuse. They say they don't have time to text, to meet, to talk etc. But don't we have time for the things that we really want? You will eat even you don't have time but when it comes to checking your phone you just don't. You just can't say a simple hi because you don't have time. They must find a better lie for it

And there are some people who don't use time as an excuse but they are really too busy. They won't even have time to breath yet they will call you, they will make effort even to see your face for a few min. That's what I find attractive. I find these kind of people attractive. They make me feel special. They make me feel like I am an important part of their life.

[Navaro]

If it's about the effort, do you try to put forth the same effort for him?

The simple reality is that the more two people try to out give each other, the better the relatioship can be.

Many relationships are two selfish people that are both so fixated on what they want from each other they do not take much time to think about what they are willing to give each other.

Just remember that it cannot be one sided. If all the effort is on his side but you do not come close in how much effort you give, he will eventually burn out and get discouraged. He will begin to feel un-appreciated and you will be the primary source of his sadness.

If you match him though, or even try to beat him :D, there can be the potential for a great relationship.

Not to say this is your tune, but don't think for one moment that it is a privilege for the guy to serve you and or be with you. You are on the same level as the rest of us.

[shoedanglefan]

What attracts ME the MOST, is a Lady wearing Heels/Flats and Nylons, sitting Legs crossed, and VERY HAPPILY DANGLING HER SHOE off the end of her foot. Seeing THAT, Drives Me CRAZY, Every Time.

[Anonymous]

Hmmm, yeah... I know your type. Very self-centered and entitled. A self-respecting man is not going to kill himself trying to make you "feel special". Big red flag.

[scooogy]

Effort is what drives me crazy in girls

[Anonymous]

nice!