How to Be a "Not Your Typical Girl" and Steal Everyone's Hearts

[That_Indian_Girl]

Have you ever wondered that one girl who looks just plain, doesn't attract a lot of attention and YET she's the one that resides in people's heart? Here's a little guide on how to be THAT girl.

1. Don't be boring. Develop a hobby or a skill. Tbh, "music" is not even a hobby. Reading, Dancing, play an instrument, anything. Be passionate about something. A thing that hold special place into heart. Be as adventurous as you can.

2. Develop sense of humour and wittiness. And by that, I don't mean that you recite all the cliche jokes you've ever heard. Be original. People love to be made laughed. Be witty in your responses.

3. Don't follow the crowd. Everyone hums Despacito but you like Hypnotize more? Do that. Have your own opinions.

4. Be yourself. Don't pretend to be what you're not. If you don't like to wear neon or apply winged eyeliner, don't do just because everyone does.

5. Be humble. A little courtesy never killed anyone. Most people think attitude is attractive, but it's not. Your arrogance or playing hard to get isn't really a good deed if you wanna make a long term impression.

[KenM9215]

I hate to say this but you have no idea how many women (around my age) I've talked too and when I asked so do you have any hobbies or what do you like to do for fun? they tend to answer with well I like to watch Netflix and listen to music. Okay so do I, but I still dance (swing and ballroom. Also a bit of Latin), do community service, play guitar and piano, and occasionally play a sport.

don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with lounging around from time to time, but there has to be more to a person than that. other wise they are boring. At least to me they are but hey to each their own.

[KenM9215]

Thank you for MHG!

[googeee]

Woman don<t want men they want a theme park.

[Anonymous]

Most sexist shit I've ever read. Girls just be yourselves, you are unique for exactly who you are. Be what you want and not what others tell you to. We can't be liked by everyone. The people that love you will love you for who you are, yes even being the '' typical girl''

[lushbomb]

LOL just be you. thats "your typical girl". Like the mytake but i know many people who want to fit in these categories so much it gets annoying. I guess they minus the humble, but they try to hard to be "that girl". you can tell by their cockiness.. the way they express themselves. like "I can sing and act and i try to be funny but you know what im better than you". lol i know people like this...

[DonkeyRick69]

Don't be a poser. You know the trendy images girls like to give themselves such as the rock chick etc

[That_Indian_Girl]

True!!

[Z-Spark]

please explain to me who the fuck finds attitude attractive?

[That_Indian_Girl]

There are people. And mostly, it is portrayed by Tv serials, movies etc.

[Z-Spark]

oh tv... makes sense then
just a little advice, dont have an attitude its the number one reason people reject other people

[RedMatch]

Well I guess that confirms my thoughts of me being abnormal, cause i don't do any of the typical above 😂

[KnightCross]

well i guess ur forgot some other more relevant points:
http://vocaroo.com/i/s0pSsQFTg81P

[ArabianPwincess197]

Interesting Take, I was agreeing as I went along :) I like to think I have most of those traits lol

[catelyntje]

I'm actually fine being that boring girl I don't like to stand outside the crowd tbh

[Solanaceae]

Amazing <3 I love reading, play tennis, knit, play the piano and cello, ski, shoot, and ride. I think I've got enough hobbies in my repertoire haha :) I gotta work on the rest

[Anonymous]

Well I am into cars & motorcycle. I know 3 languages have a stable job. I have a good sense of humor & humble... yet I can't even attract a fly... lol

[frozenhorizon]

Music is a hobby if you write/play music, not if you just listen to it :)

[frozenhorizon]

Also I agree with your ideas except #2. You don't have to be a comedian to be an interesting person. I would count that as a hobby, you're basically just practicing stand-up comedy as a hobby. But it should be done as a hobby because you're interested, not to "improve" your personality because that goes against the "be yourself" part if it's not a genuine interest.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I'm the ultimate boring girl. Watching movies, TV Shows though even this is starting to get really boring lol

I just like to do my own things, even if it's boring to 99 % people in my area.

[TheUsername27]

Yeah women rarely take the role of saying something funny. They sort of wait for you to say something and judge you on it. The ones that do stand out!

[HELLOHELO]

As women and maybe just maybe this is just me reading into this but there seems to be a stigma around the idea of a women being funny. It like men have to be the funny one to attract the women but if a women is way more funny then the guy it is viewed as a turn off or intimidating because what will the guy use to attract a women... apparently in there arsenal of stuff that is one of there weapons to attract a women but really... who knows.

[TheUsername27]

@HELLOHELO That is a fair enough concept. ''if a women is way more funny then the guy it is viewed as a turn off or intimidating because what will the guy use to attract a women.''
It may make some guys feel inferior or maybe they may see it as a more of a good friend trait. Some guys will find it really attractive.
To be frank i think for most guys it will make her seem like the kind of girl that doesn't take herself too seriously and doesn't value her looks so much that she relies on it to attract people. If a guy see's it as unattractive he doesn't have a very good mind set at all.

[chrismarie5589]

How about a "how to not live your life trying to please everyone." Enough implementing standards on women. We do what we want and if someone doesn't like it well that's just too damn bad.

[Anonymous]

Words of wisdom. I especially agree with the get a hobby one

[Anonymous]

Thank you for this. I always thought I was the boring girl no one took interest in, but just by speaking my mind I can be me.

[jacquesvol]

Good list. I'd add a degree and a good job

[That_Indian_Girl]

Yeah. Although it's kinda common and getting a degree doesn't really imply common behavioural changes😅

[jacquesvol]

Degrees aren't handed out to every Joe and Jane.

[That_Indian_Girl]

From at least what I've seen, yes, It can be

[jacquesvol]

@That_Indian_Girl not the kind of degree that gives her a good job.

[meganthemenace]

Raven avoids bullshit, be a teen titan, be like raven.

[scooogy]

a not so typical girl will be listening to me and understand how I feel

[Pomegranate139]

I honestly just thought it meant I was a weirdo

[John_Doesnt]

But girls can't be funny. It's impossible.

[Allebana]

i.imgur.com/Mm4uF92_d.jpg

[DanoMR98]

@Allebana

>Token's Life Matters

kek, I loved that shirt

[Allebana]

@DanoMR98 haha at first I didn't get it because I wasn't aware of the movement (it doesn't exist in argentina) then I read about black lives matter here and it downed on me
gag can be helpful sometimes lol

[Mel0707]

Hey I'm the funniest person I know hahhaha

[chrismarie5589]

John just doesn't get it