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some men are hunters. some are tamers. I fall into the latter. I don't hunt nor will I chase I will simply wait. wait until the prey decides to come near me. il throw out a treat or two and make them want the collar. I am patient...
once every other hunter has thrown their spear of gifts and money only to fail when all of them have gone home failed.
then I shall move
after all what to do when no one is hunting you anymore?
*Offtopic Comment*
'sit, cookies, anime, anime, anime, draw, cookies, candy, videogame, sleep'.
#happy2beSingle.
@DarkraiMewK22 s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...bc40df1d70.jpg XD
I would watch anime for extensive periods of time , if only i had the time to T3T
@DarkraiMewK22 Crunchyroll. com D8QMEG95AET guest pass
Now you have reason to
try Youjo Senki Konosuba and 18if
Youjo Senki - 😍😍
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I do watch, just if i had more time aside from studies and drawing, i would!
@DarkraiMewK22 put down the pencil pick up the Crunchyroll and try 18if or another world with my smartphone (Konosuba rip off)
Yea... but.. fan-art, writing stories :3 fun
@DarkraiMewK22 shhhh. put down the pencil and no one gets hurt. and use the cunrchyroll
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*Goes to KissAnime
@DarkraiMewK22 come on crunchyroll is fine it supports the creators X3
I do have CrunchyRoll on the WiiU tho 😄
I would upvote this... but I doubt you want Jew germs anywhere near your flawless weeabo world, so I'll just leave it. :) Have a downvote instead ya dakimakura fucking goy xD
If you have to chase her, that means she's running away
Yeh, But us Guys are expected to chase you Girls.
That was a whole lot of words, when you could have simply said "The juice isn't worth the squeeze".
Preach it brother!
Don't think so. That comment would sound far more like you're making a statement about masturbation than about sexual relationships with females...
Um the only time you can show up at my door unexpected is when we've been together for at LEAST a year... but if we are just dating don't be creepy. Don't blame us because you don't know basic shit lmao
Okay, don't show up at your door. Got it.
I'm not waiting a year to be able to do that -.-
@FýrdracaDócincel it's really easy to get around this rule anyway. Date someone else. Problem solved.
@Silver158 Very true.
Except when there's also girls out there who thinks that's romantic, then we're in a pickle. Hence the article.
I think that you are exaggerating a lot, but that article by Jessica Valenti is of course unreasonable. At a certain point you need to stop blaming society if you don't feel good about yourself. Ultimately self-esteem comes from within.
Cause women are quick to reject u if u dont have a high paying stable job and slow to date. a lot of women are mean, unapproachable, or taken.
So true
Ouch... well said, unfortunately. :-(
I will give you my reason for not chasing girls, i dont have to
for every girl i approach who plays games or acts like a princess i find another 10 open to my approaches so whenever a girl acts like an ass for one reason or another i simply move on, plenty of options no need to be glued to one girl only and be her clingy bitch when you can meet others who are much more approachable and down to earth.
P. S: ladies whoever calimed that men like the chase is one wrong motherfker , we dont
girls dont know what they want so dont treat them like they do, treat them like you do and they will not have a problem with it
I'm at the age now where I don't give a fuck. If a chick doesn't take me as is, then I move on. No more time to waste. I don't play games any more...
hi fi dude. I am the same kind.
main reason i dont approach is because i dont give a fuck. if a girl likes me she's gonna make the effort. she's going to be a burden to me so she's gotta prove she's not one for me to give effort.
I am not sure what you are wanting, I know people can be difficult to deal with men or women. But this condemnation of womanhood is wrong , if you treat people right you will be treated the same in return if not it's their loss. I would say 95% of my close friends are female and I get on with them better than the male ones !!!
Praise be you mr saint. Very accurate to sum it up. Why should we? The ones with a house money food etc.
Everytime we do it’s a case of “I have a boyfriend” “my phone died” oh let me stare at you and reject you later it’s crazy stupid and where sick of it no more chasing. If girls want us they can get us and ill make it just as hard as they do for us.
Wow. Your disclaimer at the beginning was like covering a pan of shit with saran wrap. It just didn't help.
Find yourself quality women, and just don't worry about the leftovers. Maybe hope they breed less and that's it.
This is so exaggerated, this is not how things work in real life, every single time. Not every women thinks guys need to chase them or if they do chase them, they are creeps.
But enough women do, that's part of the problem. It doesn't even need to be a large percentage of women. The fact that their are so many guys saying that basically it's simply not worth it should give us all pause.
For most guys, it's a learned habit. An example would be, you're driving to work everyday. There's a pothole at the same spot that you have been hitting every time. What do you do? You remember where it is and do your best to avoid it. Drive around it, get in another lane or take another road.
well over 90% believe in chasing, and I'd say its proportional with guys sadly
Men and women manage to hook up some how. Idiots in love, walking slowly, holding hands taking up the whole bloody pavement (sidewalk).
Your opinion made me laugh so much! Old grannys are the worst, they walk exactly in the middle and when you want to go around them they lean on exactly that one side -.-
But guys are the same. As humans we all want the unattainable.
wrong, guys want a girl that likes them and wants them and not other guys, they dont want a queen who thinks she has no match
The only unrealistic want guys have is the Insanely Gorgeous girl that no other guy wants or the Gorgeous girl who will have sex with him, because he's an alpha male but she hasn't had sex with any other guys for being alpha males lol. That's the one that's really out there. Some guys like me don't care about the number of sex numbers, but i'd be lying that I want a girl that I don't have to be concerned about other guys always hitting on her. But that's just not realistic so I focus on being a good guy xD
Opinion owner... Thats not true. We are not at all the same. The unattainable... excuse me , that says more about you than about me.
Maybe instead of just trying to come up with morals to use for all women, guys could take the time to actually learn what type of girl your dealing with before jumping to actions.
Trust me a girl will appreciate it if you put in more effort to learn what she is more comfortable with or not.
And how are you supposed to do that when you're never going to be given that time? And you could stand to take a leaf out of your own book as well- who about taking the time to actually learn what type of guys you're dealing with before jumping to conclusions and dispensing rejections?
*how about
You can't get to know a girl first. The whole problem is that even when they try to learn their efforts are contradicted. You can't get to know a girl first because these issues occur within that learning phase. In the best case scenario she's the fabled 'cool girl' who's reasonable and forgiving of basic shit and none of this phases her. In the worse cases she will have the kind of negative outlook you see in the pictures; no matter what he says she reflexively has to search for a way in which he is doing wrong here. But still most of the time it's a guessing game; guess right the first time because you really don't have much time to learn anything. Get it wrong and you're out.
Also, how do you get to know a girl before you get to know a girl? It doesn't seem very sound. :P
But what is the reward? Men are realizing the pain an't worth the gain.
Feminism has completed fucked up at least two generations of women. The feminist point of view is so conflicting and self destructing women don't even know how to interact with males and what is normal courting behavior centuries old.
I love men still. I think guys just need to be more selective with who they invest their time in
so they need to invest their time in finding who to invest their time into...
Preach
True , although , men don't invest in women anymore.( I do myself ) , but most all men are not being selective for marriage or relationship , just quickies and so on. There's two sides to every pancake. Investing in what , is the new question...
True, but a lot of men ruin it for the rest of us. A lot of them are just looking for a quick fuck, so many just chase whatever, giving women with a very skewed idea of what they are worth on the market. Men who are looking for relationship material are a lot more selective, but the women don't realize this because they don't separate the thirsty guy from the guy who is looking for a romantic relationship.
BULL SHIT.
Men chase women allllllllll the time and will never stop doing that because it is in their nature to chase attractive girls.
Weak dudes are the ones who want girls to somehow be feminine yet make all the moves and do the assertive and masculine things like asking guys out and planning dates and shit. That shit is ok for a girl to do but do not expect a girl to enjoy doing stuff like that.
Pathetic...
yup. Says the likely high school girl who decided to post this anonymously. Seems legit. I don't know where ya live, but I hear more and more often girls talking about no guys bothering with them anymore. Just cause in somewhere old fashioned like Poland guys still drool over even an inch of boobs showing doesn't mean the rest of the world's men don't give a shit anymore.
Because a lot of men are realizing most women are not worth chasing so they simply don't bother. Women used to be the selective ones but now times are changing.