I don't think all pretty girls are cold-hearted bitches, I know some pretty girls who have awesome personalities, who enjoy watching the game instead of watching The Hills or The Bachelorette, I know pretty girls who enjoy playing video games. I think the reason why there is that perception of pretty girls or women is that people may assume she's a gold digger and she must have been pampered her whole life and doesn't want to work for anything.
Personality and looks aren't always correlated, positively or negatively. You actually have to get to know someone to know what their personality is like. Imagine that.
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It's certainly a myth that attractive women are stupid. I have not found them to be any more or less so than less attractive women. And not all attractive women have bad personalities. But on average they certainly are more arrogant and entitled than less attractive women. That is no myth.
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"Most of the caring, helpful and culturally aware people are beautiful girls."
Really? I wasn't aware there were no caring, helpful and culturally aware men. Huh...
You are doing exactly what you accuse them for. They are putting all attractive girls in one category. You are putting all unattractive girls in one category. Furthermore unattractive and attractive are subjective.
I find it's the women who are seen as gorgeous with bad personalities are seen as gorgeous BC they put themselves out there. And hey, sometimes the cocky arrogant girls are the ones who out themselves out there which gets them noticed.
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Damn I'm short I must be ugly :'( average boobs and skin :( Why oh why? Wait, because no one has ever mentioned this to be bad before you came along.
"It's a myth that attractive girls have bad personalities and are stupid..." TRUE. "... And who propagated that myth other than unattractive people themselves?" I THINK IT MAY HAVE BEEN HOLLYWOOD. You do realize that you an attractive woman are propagating the same myth, but about ugly women instead? "I don't make friends with unattractive girls, I don't need their negativity in my life."
I wonder if I am the only one wondering what this beautiful woman looks like.
But acting like you're God's gift to the earth is. You even basically said your boyfriend is lucky you stayed faithful because you could leave him in a heartbeat because of all the "options" you have. Your whole Mytake just reeks of of generalizations of "unattractive" people while basically putting "attractive" people on a pedestal (which attractiveness is very subjective anyway). The problem isn't you aren't just telling your life experiences, you're actively doing the thing you claim to hate which is stereotyping people and judging who and who's not attractive and refusing to be with anyone who doesn't fit your narrow view.
In your my take , you just basically stated you compliment other beautiful people and how you take care of yourself to stay beautiful.. I don't get it.
I agree with this. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever met were smoking hot. One is an IFBB bikini pro, literally a 10 who makes money posing in almost nothing. She's a total sweetheart, but guys are terrified to even talk to her.
Its when a girl spends to much time in the mirror fawning over herself she turns narcissistic and that's what makes them dumb, arrogant and unbearable to be around
Yep I would agree with that but that's not always the case. Most beautiful girls don't go about thinking about beautiful they are, they work, school, friends and families. Worries just like everyone.
Yeah they call that one being humble. A humble person is the polar opposite of the narcissist; Kind, easy going, generous. The sort of person anybody would want to know
I agree with you to an extent but try to stay away from grouping people just taking in each person one at a time and making my mind up then. I find it suits me better to do this.
I can say that the myth is true. In my country, if you are beautiful people will try to bring you down and say that you must be dumb then. They always try to find the flaws. It is hard because many people take this to be true in order to diminish us. I have suffered a bit of bullying as well from the cool girls group.
Well I don't see how a weak ass shell like a physical appearance can determine someone's personality it can influence it but if u got a strong personnality u can fix it
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I hope you see the irony in everything you said. I agree that it's a myth that attractive people have bad personalities. But in your case, you proved to be one of those girls. You may be beautiful (as you blatantly say you are) but remember that beauty lies within and that outer beauty you are so proud of... will eventually fade away.
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I don't think all pretty girls are cold-hearted bitches, I know some pretty girls who have awesome personalities, who enjoy watching the game instead of watching The Hills or The Bachelorette, I know pretty girls who enjoy playing video games. I think the reason why there is that perception of pretty girls or women is that people may assume she's a gold digger and she must have been pampered her whole life and doesn't want to work for anything.
Personality and looks aren't always correlated, positively or negatively. You actually have to get to know someone to know what their personality is like. Imagine that.
It's certainly a myth that attractive women are stupid. I have not found them to be any more or less so than less attractive women. And not all attractive women have bad personalities. But on average they certainly are more arrogant and entitled than less attractive women. That is no myth.
"Most of the caring, helpful and culturally aware people are beautiful girls."
Really? I wasn't aware there were no caring, helpful and culturally aware men. Huh...
You are doing exactly what you accuse them for. They are putting all attractive girls in one category. You are putting all unattractive girls in one category. Furthermore unattractive and attractive are subjective.
I find it's the women who are seen as gorgeous with bad personalities are seen as gorgeous BC they put themselves out there. And hey, sometimes the cocky arrogant girls are the ones who out themselves out there which gets them noticed.
Damn I'm short I must be ugly :'( average boobs and skin :( Why oh why? Wait, because no one has ever mentioned this to be bad before you came along.
"It's a myth that attractive girls have bad personalities and are stupid..." TRUE.
"... And who propagated that myth other than unattractive people themselves?"
I THINK IT MAY HAVE BEEN HOLLYWOOD.
You do realize that you an attractive woman are propagating the same myth, but about ugly women instead?
"I don't make friends with unattractive girls, I don't need their negativity in my life."
I wonder if I am the only one wondering what this beautiful woman looks like.
I hope you see the irony in this because you sound very conceited. Basically, proving the opposite of your "Mytake"
I don't think I am. I'm just telling it like it is instead of sugar coating anything
That doesn't make it any better. Being arrogant isn't a good quality
Straight talk isn't arrogance
But acting like you're God's gift to the earth is. You even basically said your boyfriend is lucky you stayed faithful because you could leave him in a heartbeat because of all the "options" you have. Your whole Mytake just reeks of of generalizations of "unattractive" people while basically putting "attractive" people on a pedestal (which attractiveness is very subjective anyway). The problem isn't you aren't just telling your life experiences, you're actively doing the thing you claim to hate which is stereotyping people and judging who and who's not attractive and refusing to be with anyone who doesn't fit your narrow view.
Attractiveness is very hard to rate, to someone I may be ugly to someone I may be beautiful.
Majority of humans lie in the healthy range meaning that there's always someone who'd find them beautiful.
wow narcissistic much? you just proved that most attractive females have bad personalities..
So true. It's funny. As I was reading, I was thinking the same thing: will she eventually notice the irony? Guess not. Hahah
In your my take , you just basically stated you compliment other beautiful people and how you take care of yourself to stay beautiful.. I don't get it.
I agree with this. Some of the sweetest girls I've ever met were smoking hot. One is an IFBB bikini pro, literally a 10 who makes money posing in almost nothing. She's a total sweetheart, but guys are terrified to even talk to her.
Its when a girl spends to much time in the mirror fawning over herself she turns narcissistic and that's what makes them dumb, arrogant and unbearable to be around
Yep I would agree with that but that's not always the case. Most beautiful girls don't go about thinking about beautiful they are, they work, school, friends and families. Worries just like everyone.
Yeah they call that one being humble. A humble person is the polar opposite of the narcissist; Kind, easy going, generous. The sort of person anybody would want to know
I agree with you to an extent but try to stay away from grouping people just taking in each person one at a time and making my mind up then. I find it suits me better to do this.
Real Beauty is when you dont have to put down another woman to stand out. We can all appreciate eachother and sometimes beauty is in the personality.
I can say that the myth is true. In my country, if you are beautiful people will try to bring you down and say that you must be dumb then. They always try to find the flaws. It is hard because many people take this to be true in order to diminish us.
I have suffered a bit of bullying as well from the cool girls group.
Well I don't see how a weak ass shell like a physical appearance can determine someone's personality it can influence it but if u got a strong personnality u can fix it
I hope you see the irony in everything you said. I agree that it's a myth that attractive people have bad personalities. But in your case, you proved to be one of those girls. You may be beautiful (as you blatantly say you are) but remember that beauty lies within and that outer beauty you are so proud of... will eventually fade away.
#1 You sound arrogant and full of vain glory.
#2 The time is coming when you will look like a wrinkled ball of paper. So calm down.
#3 Read the #1 and #2 again. 😎
A lot of women over estimate their looks and are actually average. Women bitch at each other nothing new there
I've seen pretty girls that are just as mean as any hag. And uglies that are fun to be around. A good soul goes a long way.