Why Be Good When You Can Be Bad? (Page 2)

[NJ_Casanova]

Sadly for most people it's not a choice.. it's how they were born.

Good people get shit on/have it so much worse.

I've tried to change and be the bad guy.. only care about my pleasure.. but like the saying goes, "a Lepord can't change his spots".

[Feels]

How they were raised *

[NJ_Casanova]

@Feels I think partially it's how you are born, and partially how you are raised.

[Anonymous]

This is the issue here... You think your all cool, by doing drugs, cheating, sleeping with any guy that talks to you, and god only knows what else. Just because you put no value into sex or respecting yourself doesn't mean everyone else is wrong. The problem is that in a few years time when you get older, and want to marry and settle down none of the good guys will want you. Then you'll complain. Being a good person is hard and sometimes it's easier to be bad. It shows the weak from the strong. You have no self control, no morals, no respect for yourself and the poor men that ever came in contact with you. I being a drug addict, std ridden whore is a good thing for you than your lost. I hope your dad is proud. Have fun being used for the rest of your life

[Anonymous]

Being bad has consequences, take it for an example my husband was a smoker he quit because he was smoking so heavily he had a really bad cough he thought if he didn't quit he was going to die... that's just one example plus being bad you don't get to experience what a lot of good girls get to experience

[lolily]

Keep being you stay happy live life.

[kitty71]

So taking soft drugs is cool becauwe you have to live life to the fullest and enjoy life? No thank you just because people jump off the Cliff beause it is "cool" does not mean I have to do it too, that be dumb and stupid.

[Plumy]

It is nice to be brave!
in my opinion it doesn't matter if bad or good, just do what you feel like doing and don't care about what others say!

[zzzondarrr]

But isn't it bad actually bad? 😂

[Plumy]

@zzzondarrr isn't "bad" actually bad?
Nope there are many things considered bad by others that aren't actually bad, like I'm procrastinating hw a little time and someone says I'm bad mehh 😅
By "brave" I mean the feeling that this take gives to me, rather than "bad", I'm sorry if that doesn't match your definition of braveness but I'm grateful for putting me to test about this matter despite someone gave an answer to your opinion already ^^

[Plumy]

Ah anyway I didn't say I totes agree with this tale but I'm not close minded to bash it in its entirety ^^

[pobly]

congratulations, you have discovered that morality is subjective.

just as you can judge those for not "living life to the fullest" others can judge you for your hedonism

[Jaximus-Lion]

Huh!!! Being bad by having sex and do drugs? Am not sure that you really understand the real meaning of being bad is.
Being bad is having no morals, no respect, treating people like trash and letting them know about it several times, lying, stealing, beat people up just because... having sex, drugs and alcohol doesn't make you bad

[derek2017]

Being bad actually means being selfish there is no actual bad or good in the world there is just selfishness (immaturity) and empathy (maturity) for other people. I personally wouldn't date such a person because it would be all about them anyway and because I actually appreciate a person and try to do things for them as long as they dont get in my way (yes im also a little selfish) to accomplish my goals.

[Nivinxus]

So... the essence of this take is, it is okay to be hedonistic? While the mindset is not bad, there is just nothing refreshing about it. But that's just an opinion that I've no doubt will be in the minority.

[hellionthesagereborn]

The irony is that the term hedonism is a reference to a philosophical ideology that believed that happiness was desirable and even they where against what we call "hedonism" because they knew that it was an ephemeral type of happiness that would only bring pain much later.

[oddwaffle]

You know... guys think bad girls are more fun too. The naughty girl who are freaky and kinky and absolutely wild can drive a man into unknown waters.

Of course they like it better if she can somehow keep all of that inside and look absolutely professional and proper normally only to unleash them at random times.

[lovelyhoneybones]

Being "bad" often times means being stupid and irresponsible.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Let’s just be honest and say that balance is important. Either extreme isn’t healthy

[KnightCross]

you can be immoral if you want that's your choice. but even the "bad guys/girls" suffer. and a lot. it is just that they just don't let that transparent to other people. it's less painful being "good guy/girl" because even where you feel pain you know that it has its purpose of offering for the redemption of Crucified Christ

source: wisdom of life and an Old Testament verse that i forgot

[levantine99]

they suffer the most. they tend have terrible mood swings almost bipolar, usually a direct result of the soul reacting to the unnatural state its being at.

[KnightCross]

@levantine99 they want to show up as they are cool and having fun but deep inside them I know that it's not true, God confirms that from Old Testament but I forgot which verse was

[martsa]

Great take! Gives some other kind of perspective in my life :D I like being good girl thought. But it's cool that you live your own life just the way you want without giving a shit about judgmental people!

[zzzondarrr]

But isn't bad like objectively bad? 😂

[martsa]

@zzzondarrr I think it depends the aspect and how you define ''bad'' :o

[zzzondarrr]

but no matter how do u define it, dont u agree its always bad=bad? 😂

[martsa]

@zzzondarrr Not necessary

[front2back]

"Bad girls" in a nutshell:

[zzzondarrr]

lol, good pic!

[levantine99]

same with players, dont limit it to women

[sugarchateau]

lmfao good thing there is a grey area between good girls and bad girls

[SportsFan78]

I mean you go ahead do what you want to do. The only thing I would like to say is that I think (this is just my thoughts that aren't backed by statistics) girls care a lot about whether or not a guy is a virgin. For some (me) being a virgin is not by choice but rather not being deemed naturally attractive by women.

[Lynzerilee]

Being a bad a person is the easiest thing, people who are good and who don't let their dark side define them are special. If by being bad you mean : smoking, drinking, sleeping around etc well some bad people are the nicest ones.

[EllezBellez98]

Love this post ;), as someone who chooses to enjoy stuff now instead of saving myself this was awesome to read.

[zzzondarrr]

But how can u enjoy stuff that u know it's bad?

[EllezBellez98]

@zzzondarrr its bad because people say its bad. Fucking outside of marriage is fine if you do it properly, use contraception and its safe. Smoking weed is fine, much less serious than alcohol but for political reasons there is this taboo around it. People who don't put themselves at risk don't live life to the fullest.

[zzzondarrr]

Well maybe people say it's bad because it's objectively bad? :P
So weed is not bad because alcohol is worse? xD

[EllezBellez98]

@zzzondarrr @zzzondarrr Weed isn't bad, but an over consumption of it can lead to minor brain damage. Weed in controlled and small quantities can be good for relieving stress. It directly causes ZERO deaths a year, alcohol directly causes thousands. So the people who's opinions I trust on weed are not yours, there those that belong to people conducting current experiments on the effects and collecting data.

[TheClevelander1]

Actually I'd say people who take more risks, have more "fun", depends on your definition of fun.. that's why I put it in quotes

[Anonymous]

Agreed. I like to be bad.

[rich4-sparx]

I'd argue most of what you said was pretty normal. Not 'bad' at all. For most people over 16, almost everything becomes just actions and consequences unless its some seriously illegal stuff, e. g. threatening murder, cheating or drug dealing.