Indeed being a woman is very difficult in the world no matter in part u r... but being a woman feel sorry and think as weakness is more sin and crime than any other thing. There are many things only woman can do and with woman there is no concept of life. It all depend upon thinking and perception. there is a old famous saying " give me good mothers i will give you a good nation". Woman is base of every family and thus base of any society. If woman want to change thinking then they should anticipate their responsibility as mother and give their children the thought to respect women and educate them to treat women well. It all comes from home and thus it will change the society gradually. No one can be stronger than a woman when she decided to do so.. so be positive and see the power in inner self...
Only 1, 4, 7, 8, 10, 22, 23, 27 and 30 are specific female struggles but most of the other numbers are either overlapping with male struggles or they are not true (aka you're not supposed to do or be anything. F society for all we care?)
If you want to be taken seriously, then be serious instead of blaming it on your gender. If you want to be able to handle life, then start actually getting a grip on it. Here's a hint: It's not easy. Cooking and housekeeping is a survival and domestic skill, not gender specific skill. Hair everywhere? Surely you have not tried testosterone yet.
I could go on but for now that suffices.
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Wow that was a lot of complaining over pretty much nothing. A lot of those problems are because of your own doing and you put them on yourself. You think men have it easier? Because we don't. Hell half of this list can apply to men directly too. You're an adult, life is going to throw the most bull shit at you. You can either just deal with it like an adult or complain about it like a child. But complaining about it doesn't get you anywhere and just makes you look annoying to others because we are all dealing with our own versions of the same bullshit.
Everyone deals with struggles. I definitely had penis envy growing up, if you're in a Latino community especially Mexican with machismo running rampant, you'll know why.
I find the older I get, the less I care about half these things. Because we all get judged
So much of this is another example of women victimizing themselves,2 is straight up false and #3 is my such a pet peeve of mine. Independent “strong” women get called bitches not cuz they’re strong willed or speak their mind it’s because THEY ARE BEING A BITCH, but they will never own up to their behavior.
Me too! It's not fair, how come the males are the super cool, logical laid back, accepting ones, and I'm stuck with a gender that whines about their privilege! I Love being a female and getting to do girly things (Like tea parties, one of my favorite childhood memories) but I have the mentality of a male and I can't relate to most females.
I'm the other way by the way. I don't watch sports and play video games a lot. I'm more on the creative side. Since men have less styles, I find it kinda boring. I can relate female stuff but I'm still straight and I still do my role.
#25 and #28 okay, but the rest is from the 20s... I like girls with petite boobs and rather flat asses, so what? They don't have an hour-glass body, I don't know what they eat, they look the most beautiful when they smile, and only Heaven knows what they eat, how they behave, how many shoes they have, and I don't even dare criticizing a girl for what she says. Here's a benefit of being a female: When we call you a bitch, you have every right to kick us guys in the nuts.
To the rest of what you wrote: Please, forget about it. Go out there and live. We men love you for what you are: Females.
Huh, I did not know all that was problems. Very informative. I will say some of those aren't because you're female. I'm not taken seriously at work either, had to know how to cook and clean at a young age, would be considered a crybaby if I cried in public, and in general find life very hard as well. You do have some strictly girl problems that I did not know about. Very clear concise take here, and fun to read. I can see why you're an editor, nice job.
Hey love, thanks for the myTake but I have to say, most of what you said sounds as if you were raised in a very conservative environment. If that's the case, I just want you to know that there's more to life than wearing makeup and having children before you're 30. Don't be so concerned about what other people think of you! Love yourself <3 Have a great day!
I do experience some of these but I don't let it define me as a woman. I'm not saying your experiences aren't valid but personally, I think it's just easier to let some of this stuff go
Such are the trade offs of being female versus being male. For men, it is easy peasy to get along in the world. For women, as i see it, there is a whole lot more to deal with; I call them the 'trappings of being female'. So, for men, we have this box we live in, which is small and confined. For women, their life is very fluid, has all kinds of options, and allows for a lot more things in life to enjoy, as well as deal with. Just my two cents...
As a woman getting older is no fun. Hormonal changes are a total bitch, I'll be waken up at night in the middle of winter and have to sit in the cold bathroom because of night sweats. It's only going to get worse from here on. 😕 Most of the things mentioned don't bother me.
Nice take and I agree with you on most of what you said. Especially about the cooking and cleaning, looking and smelling good all the time and all those stuffs. We are strong no doubt. I just think that if women who put so much effort in bringing other women down started actually standing up for the women then we would actually move forward. Because lets face it the men are closer to their mother. Exceptions are there. You wrote fabulously. Good work.
Well some of the things you said, i find more of a personal problem (like the whole lipstick thing) but other than that... BITCH YOU BETTA PRRREEEAACCHHH!!!
Being female is a walk in the park, as long as you're white or Asian, and live in a First World country. I wish *I* could become a millionaire for simp losers by being a 5 out of 10.
Toitally agree with it and I will add one more. If a woman gets knocked up for whatever reason we the woman are the ones responsible for carrying that baby in our wombs, suffering pregnancy symptoms, and all that stuff while men do not suffer that they just plant the seed and end of story for them URRH!!!
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Indeed being a woman is very difficult in the world no matter in part u r... but being a woman feel sorry and think as weakness is more sin and crime than any other thing. There are many things only woman can do and with woman there is no concept of life. It all depend upon thinking and perception. there is a old famous saying " give me good mothers i will give you a good nation". Woman is base of every family and thus base of any society. If woman want to change thinking then they should anticipate their responsibility as mother and give their children the thought to respect women and educate them to treat women well. It all comes from home and thus it will change the society gradually. No one can be stronger than a woman when she decided to do so.. so be positive and see the power in inner self...
Most of these are not female-specific struggles.
Only 1, 4, 7, 8, 10, 22, 23, 27 and 30 are specific female struggles but most of the other numbers are either overlapping with male struggles or they are not true (aka you're not supposed to do or be anything. F society for all we care?)
If you want to be taken seriously, then be serious instead of blaming it on your gender.
If you want to be able to handle life, then start actually getting a grip on it. Here's a hint: It's not easy.
Cooking and housekeeping is a survival and domestic skill, not gender specific skill.
Hair everywhere? Surely you have not tried testosterone yet.
I could go on but for now that suffices.
Wow that was a lot of complaining over pretty much nothing. A lot of those problems are because of your own doing and you put them on yourself. You think men have it easier? Because we don't. Hell half of this list can apply to men directly too. You're an adult, life is going to throw the most bull shit at you. You can either just deal with it like an adult or complain about it like a child. But complaining about it doesn't get you anywhere and just makes you look annoying to others because we are all dealing with our own versions of the same bullshit.
Everyone deals with struggles. I definitely had penis envy growing up, if you're in a Latino community especially Mexican with machismo running rampant, you'll know why.
I find the older I get, the less I care about half these things. Because we all get judged
All the points here that could be solved if the woman herself wasn't just as judgmental.
2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 11,12, 14, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 29, 30
Holy shit. So this is why people think im a guy *eyeroll*
So much of this is another example of women victimizing themselves,2 is straight up false and #3 is my such a pet peeve of mine. Independent “strong” women get called bitches not cuz they’re strong willed or speak their mind it’s because THEY ARE BEING A BITCH, but they will never own up to their behavior.
Me too! It's not fair, how come the males are the super cool, logical laid back, accepting ones, and I'm stuck with a gender that whines about their privilege! I Love being a female and getting to do girly things (Like tea parties, one of my favorite childhood memories) but I have the mentality of a male and I can't relate to most females.
I'm the other way by the way. I don't watch sports and play video games a lot. I'm more on the creative side. Since men have less styles, I find it kinda boring. I can relate female stuff but I'm still straight and I still do my role.
@Aiko_E_Lara You remind me of harry styles.
@MelaninDoll Really? Wow I didn't reckon. I don't even know who he is lol
#25 and #28 okay, but the rest is from the 20s... I like girls with petite boobs and rather flat asses, so what? They don't have an hour-glass body, I don't know what they eat, they look the most beautiful when they smile, and only Heaven knows what they eat, how they behave, how many shoes they have, and I don't even dare criticizing a girl for what she says. Here's a benefit of being a female: When we call you a bitch, you have every right to kick us guys in the nuts.
To the rest of what you wrote: Please, forget about it. Go out there and live. We men love you for what you are: Females.
Huh, I did not know all that was problems. Very informative.
I will say some of those aren't because you're female. I'm not taken seriously at work either, had to know how to cook and clean at a young age, would be considered a crybaby if I cried in public, and in general find life very hard as well.
You do have some strictly girl problems that I did not know about. Very clear concise take here, and fun to read. I can see why you're an editor, nice job.
Hey love, thanks for the myTake but I have to say, most of what you said sounds as if you were raised in a very conservative environment. If that's the case, I just want you to know that there's more to life than wearing makeup and having children before you're 30. Don't be so concerned about what other people think of you! Love yourself <3 Have a great day!
honey, please stop being a victim and just be a women
Who's saying I am a victim here? You're saying you don't experience any of these?
I do experience some of these but I don't let it define me as a woman. I'm not saying your experiences aren't valid but personally, I think it's just easier to let some of this stuff go
Such are the trade offs of being female versus being male.
For men, it is easy peasy to get along in the world.
For women, as i see it, there is a whole lot more to deal with; I call them the 'trappings of being female'.
So, for men, we have this box we live in, which is small and confined.
For women, their life is very fluid, has all kinds of options, and allows for a lot more things in life to enjoy, as well as deal with.
Just my two cents...
What is this? The 1940s? I've had barely any of these problems happen in my life. Let alone daily. I don't even know anyone who truly does.
"Oh woe is me and my vagina."
As a woman getting older is no fun.
Hormonal changes are a total bitch, I'll be waken up at night in the middle of winter and have to sit in the cold bathroom because of night sweats. It's only going to get worse from here on. 😕
Most of the things mentioned don't bother me.
@Goodwifie Woe is me again. Honestly. Who likes approaching death? NOBODY.
There’s nothing special about that.
LMFAO I've never seen so many thumbs up and thumbs down at the same time.
@LongWhiteBeard lol I've had worse
Nice take and I agree with you on most of what you said. Especially about the cooking and cleaning, looking and smelling good all the time and all those stuffs. We are strong no doubt. I just think that if women who put so much effort in bringing other women down started actually standing up for the women then we would actually move forward. Because lets face it the men are closer to their mother. Exceptions are there. You wrote fabulously. Good work.
Well some of the things you said, i find more of a personal problem (like the whole lipstick thing) but other than that... BITCH YOU BETTA PRRREEEAACCHHH!!!
Yeah, I don't agree. I just want to say that life sucks in general for everyone for many reasons, being a girl has nothing to do with that.
ok :)
Being female is a walk in the park, as long as you're white or Asian, and live in a First World country. I wish *I* could become a millionaire for simp losers by being a 5 out of 10.
Your struggle is real.
But hay dudes dont have all dem butterflies and rainbos eider.
This is so precious.
Yeah.
Imagine if rainbows were once seen as ominious in medievil times.
Toitally agree with it and I will add one more. If a woman gets knocked up for whatever reason we the woman are the ones responsible for carrying that baby in our wombs, suffering pregnancy symptoms, and all that stuff while men do not suffer that they just plant the seed and end of story for them URRH!!!