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Dear Women, Being Hit On Isn’t That Big Of A Deal (Page 2)
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Before long women will be so starved for attention and validation they'll start shaming guys not catcalling them. After years of "OMG Guys are so rapey, creepy and disgusting. You don't understand the abject terror that is our lives as women under patriarchy", now these dumbs slags are crying about "WHYY DOESN'T HE APPROACH MEEEE? MEN HAVE NO BALLS". Fuck y'all.
Just because you might enjoy having a random guy come up to you and try to talk to you, doesn't mean other women do. The problem is a hot woman has high standards and wouldn't be interested in most guys anyway. So these guys hitting on them is just annoying.
My point isn't to say you have to love being hit on. Sure, being bombarded gets annoying - but it isn't that big of a deal. Some women act like being seen as hot is somehow a curse, when people would kill to be in their position. I'm just saying, check your perks and don't act like you're being raped every time a guy says good morning.
She’s not saying “love being hit on”, it’s more of “stop crying and bitching about it”. 😂
You’re the perfect example of what was described above. When your looks and youth wither in old age, we’ll see how much value you truly hold to your identity other than “being hot and having high standards”.
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So I'm not allowed to be annoyed when guys I don't like hit on me? Oh ok. Excuse me for having opinions and feelings of my own.
Be annoyed if you are so compelled.
However, don't go overboard in your reaction and make the guy feel like he was wrong for approaching just because you just so happened to not like him.
I mean.. what if you did?
I hear so much whining nowadays like "why do guys approach me if it's not wanted?"
Weeelll.. how are they supposed to know whether or not it's wanted if THEY DON'T APPROACH? lol
If a girl were to approach me, and I rejected her and acted all annoyed, and she went back to her friends in tears, then I’d be the world’s biggest asshole to them.
Just saying.
So yes, excuse yourself.
@QooLipBite
Being rejected shouldn't make you want to cry. It's a part of life.
This one seemed a little tame actually. Still really good though. I guess cause of the subject? Anyways. Ya. Great points. I'll keep those in mind. Thanks.
It'd help if women understand that in current social state, men kinda HAVE to at least try and compliment and hit on them because thats what they actually have to do to not feel lone to their death. Women don't have to do shit they sit there and wait for whoever looks most like Brad Pitt to hit on them.
Pretty much. I don't know maybe because it doesn't happen to me that often. Not saying that guys can't be creepy, but usually if you just say you aren't interested they'll back off. Nice Take.
Thank you my friend.
Well, it also depends on her past experiences, and, above all, how he hits on her. I've always been respectful, and at least had good convos even if nothing serious came out of it.
True.
Awesome article, thanks for taking the time to share.
I agree, most of the time it's no big deal, until you have the guy that is too pushy and doesn't graciously accept a no.
The same women that complain about getting hit on are the same women that would complain if they DIDN'T get hit on.
Girls who equate being hit on, catcalling and sexual harrassment are simply socially stunted. They are incapable of differentiating these things and are probably socially developed at an age of a 12 years old.
This was really well-written and so on point. I'm glad you wrote this because I doubt it'd be taken as seriously coming from a guy. Really well done. I just hope this isn't the minority view amongst woman these days.
Agreed. Personally, compliments from anyone make me upset and a little sick to my stomach, but I'm aware that those feelings are irrational. It's my fault I feel that way, not the other person's. I know I can't control those feelings, and most women can't control feeling irritated when someone hits on them, but it's not the other person's fault. It's not society's fault. It's the fault of your irrational emotions.
I've always loved receiving compliments - they're very sweet and well intended. But, you're right: saying rude things isn't very nice.
I think... I think I get it now! So instead of saying "Nice tits. Can I motorboat?"
I should say "You have really pretty eyes! May I motorboat?"
kinda, lol
You are easily my favorite person on this site.
Thanks babe.
Men approaching women will become history at this rate. Thank you for actually appreciating men and NOT being the usual hive mind misandrist man basher. Women like you are becoming extinct !!
To be fair , the seeds of misandry are planted into the heads of girls from an early age , they have been conditioned to view men as predatory , sex crazed , inferior beasts.
Women HATE getting hit on UNLESS it's a hot guy. Normal guys are pigs for doing so!!!
I wouldn't mind getting hit on at all, but that's probably because I've never been hit on.
Maybe you should start with a definition of "hit on" -- and even the difference between "hitting on" and flirting.
well, it is when a creepy stranger's following you and complementing your tits
Excellent and accurate. Asking a woman to simply hang out in a G-rated way shouldn't wind up generating an e-mail to an H. R. department.