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Why I Have High Standards Now (Page 2)
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You seem to have realistic high standards. That is good. Too many have absurd high standards, and then wonder why they are always alone.
Good girl you deserve the best I'm proud of you
Loving yourself is much much tougher than loving others
Yes!!! I advocate this wholeheartedly! Know your worth and do not let anyone get you down!! :)
Okay, and? Sounds like you have decided to not be a doormat.
The only woman who can have "high standards" is a VIRGIN. Any other status woman who has high standards and isn't a virgin is delusional. She will be an old cat lady or she will be with a bisexual beta soy boy.
Show that reply to ur girlfriend bud assuming you have one and see where her standards are!!!
Habits are indeed very hard to break. Sexual ones are the worst I think i personally I never had a drug habit but it can't be worse the sexual addiction
My standards are too high but my time is valuable to me I’m not going to waist it
I am a guy and apply the exact same standards to women! Good take!
As long as you consider that men have the same right, there is little I can say. You sound a bit vain (judging from that take, maybe you're different in reality) but whatever the consequences of it, good or bad, you're the one facing them so, it's ok I guess.
I wouldn't say vain , I can see how it comes across that way. I'm starting to care more about myself and what I think instead of what others think I should be or should do.
And I dont think ill be facing any consequences since this isn't a bad thing.
Depends. Maybe all will go well, which I wish you to happen, but having high standards has its downsides. Less choice of people for exemple, which can result in loneliness. But most girls I've seen having high standards changed, and not for the best. They started to think no one was good enough for her, and even their current friends were too low.
That's where it can turn bad, if your high standards turn into impossible standards. Beware of that, you may want the best for yourself, as long as you don't start to think you're above everyone else. Which, realistically, isn't true. No offense, it's true for everyone, that doesn't mean you're bad.
You're focusing on the wrong aspect of this take. You are assuming I meant in dating and friendships I'm going to be like one of those girls who has impossible standards and turns people down for not fitting every single one of them.
The thing is , I had 0 standards. This isn't even high , this is what's necessary in my opinion. I used to underestimate myself and not allow myself to have a say in things or say to myself ' no one wants me I'll just settle for anything ' , which is what many single and desperate guys seem to do once they're extremely lonely. They lower their standards so bad they will be with anyone just so they can't be alone , and that's definitely not something that I want.
I also never said I'm better than everyone, I'm not. But why should i believe I'm beneath everyone instead of putting my foot down and saying ' I don't deserve to be treated like shit , so I'll stand up for myself and be the best I can be'. That's what I meant.
What I mean is that, in everything, and not only dating and frienship, you have to know your worth. But you real worth, not what you think you're worth. Because underestimating yourself is as bad as overestimating yourself.
And that's the problem of many people with high standards, they tend to overestimate their worth, what they can give, what they deserve, and aim for something way over what they deserve.
I'm not talking about me, since I can't even have no standards, I'm not even worth of it. You can choose to aim for the best for you, in anything, but you have to know what's the best you deserve.
I know what I want and I'm not going to stop and think 'hmm is this what I truly deserve or what I think I deserve' I'll work hard for it until I get it , then I say yes I deserve it. All I'm saying is I'm not going to lower my standards in life and aim lower just because i may not make it , I'm not thinking about 'what are the odds i won't make it' I'm thinking 'what does it take for me to make it'. But I respect your opinion , I just disagree I guess. My standards aren't all that high , they're decent.
people cal me narcissistic, but who cares what they call you? right
you do you girl
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Okay then. Be a single and independent woman for life. Every guy would be fine with that.
Having high standards got me staying single for years now.
LOL funny how the exact same women who love having high standards cry the most about men being "shallow" as soon as they don't fit his standards.
Very well. Good for you.
Having High standards is divine
Good. I hope things go well.
I feel you
If u expect me to read all that shit then... LOL