being attractive certainly has its advantages people seem to go out of there way to do things for you that they probably wouldn’t do otherwise. People are typically nicer and enjoy talking to you when your attractive. However in a work environment it can be very difficult to move up in a company when it seems everyone that not female wants to undermine you. Or bad mouth you behind your back.
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Im the same way about being rich. 1. You have to feel guilty about not giving any to the poor. 2. Taxes are higher. I dont know how often i get pissed off at my tax rate. 3. Wondering how am i gonna spend my money EVERY SINGLE DAY! 4. Family and friends always asking for some. You know, its better that people like us be both ugly and poor. PFFT
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valid, yet a lot of "not attractive" people face the double because of how poor expectations of them people have. I dont want to not consider myself unattractive, yet I'm at a currently life stage in which Im not feeling very confident and believe me, I dont get any attention
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This sounds like a lot of whining. I think the good parts out weigh the bad. Promotions, pic of the litter far as dating, people being friendly, ease making friends. Count your blessings we all have our cross to bear.
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I agree. But it's not all perfect and I want People to know that. I didn't write this to brag or to whine. I wrote it so People could understand it's not all great
It's not just attractive girls who get assaulted. Anyone, woman or man, can be a victim of assault.
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I wasen't sure about that one so I'm happy I said I wasen't sure about that. And that wasen't the main point of this mytake but thanks for taking your time and commenting:)
Must be so horrible being popular and attractive...
Fuck off.
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I know you are jealous but you dotn have to be. I wrote this because People like you don't have to be so jealous and low that you have to hate to feel better. Good luck in the future tho!
“Victim U” rofl Attractive women can be intimidating to guys sometimes, assuming she’s not single and way out of their league. It must be rough for a woman to be single for that reason.
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Guys look at you. OMG the horrors of being attractive.
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Not the problem read again and try to understand or move on
Ok? But didn't you forget attractiveness is subjective?
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Yes I know but for example most people would say that the girl in the pic looks Good. Some don't but this is based of how people act and what people have said. (First paragraph)
Ok and how would you know they're only nice to you just because you think you're pretty? Not nice to you because you're a person? All are assumptions tho. All those compliments? Take it as a joke.
I don't wanna argue but I just have to rephrase what you said. "People seeing you for your apperance and not who I am on the inside. A lot of guys are just out for my body. And I'm not in to that." and also "But People act different when they mean different things" They aren't nice. They're acting nice. What makes you so sure that it's because you're pretty? You're not pretty to anyone else besides them. Of course everyone is beautiful their own ways. If you feel like I'm trying to argue then maybe you should set your feelings aside and stop feeling like I'm trying to argue with you. You don't have to answer or respond to what I said and why bother?
You definatly have an attitude. So if you keep it I won't talk to you anymore.
And I know because of body language and what people say. I can tell what people mean. 60% of communication is body language.
And I don't mean every one is nice to me just because of the way I look but some most likely are because of the way they act. It's easy to get used when people only want the outside.
We can have a conversation but you don't need to be sassy.
Ok good accuse me of having such an attitude and being sassy. Do you realize how that sound? And not even gonna assume you don't have thick skin but calling my those just proves it. Also "And I don't mean every one is nice to me just because of the way I look but some most likely are because of the way they act. It's easy to get used when people only want the outside." You know you're not alone. That's pretty much what everyone else experienced so isn't that normal? And what I said everyone is beautiful their own ways so there are always creeps for them.
Why can't I say anything without being called sassy, having such attitude or just wanna argue? You know I can say anything when ever I want and it's called freedom of speech. You made yours and I make mine. What's the problem?
That's prooves the way you act. Just read the conversation. I haven't been mean to you once so far. Even though you have questioned me and said rude things many times now. You don't even know me.
And no it's based of how people act pleace read again or move on of you don't understand. I don't have time for this so have a Nice day, bye!😊
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being attractive certainly has its advantages people seem to go out of there way to do things for you that they probably wouldn’t do otherwise. People are typically nicer and enjoy talking to you when your attractive. However in a work environment it can be very difficult to move up in a company when it seems everyone that not female wants to undermine you. Or bad mouth you behind your back.
Im the same way about being rich.
1. You have to feel guilty about not giving any to the poor.
2. Taxes are higher. I dont know how often i get pissed off at my tax rate.
3. Wondering how am i gonna spend my money EVERY SINGLE DAY!
4. Family and friends always asking for some.
You know, its better that people like us be both ugly and poor.
PFFT
valid, yet a lot of "not attractive" people face the double because of how poor expectations of them people have.
I dont want to not consider myself unattractive, yet I'm at a currently life stage in which Im not feeling very confident and believe me, I dont get any attention
This sounds like a lot of whining. I think the good parts out weigh the bad. Promotions, pic of the litter far as dating, people being friendly, ease making friends. Count your blessings we all have our cross to bear.
I agree. But it's not all perfect and I want People to know that. I didn't write this to brag or to whine. I wrote it so People could understand it's not all great
It's not just attractive girls who get assaulted. Anyone, woman or man, can be a victim of assault.
I wasen't sure about that one so I'm happy I said I wasen't sure about that. And that wasen't the main point of this mytake but thanks for taking your time and commenting:)
I do my part by staying out of attractive people's lives. Sorry that you have to deal with that
Thank you for saying the truth because most of those things happened to me as well! Nobody really gets it. You never asked to be treated that way.
Aw, pooe baby!
Must be so horrible being popular and attractive...
Fuck off.
I know you are jealous but you dotn have to be. I wrote this because People like you don't have to be so jealous and low that you have to hate to feel better. Good luck in the future tho!
“Victim U” rofl
Attractive women can be intimidating to guys sometimes, assuming she’s not single and way out of their league. It must be rough for a woman to be single for that reason.
Guys look at you. OMG the horrors of being attractive.
Not the problem read again and try to understand or move on
They sure aren’t jealous of your spelling skills sister
Yes to #5! It gets on my nerves so much. I just count myself lucky I don’t get approached though.
So basically you are an attractive female that doesn't let it get to her head? I respec that
Ok? But didn't you forget attractiveness is subjective?
Yes I know but for example most people would say that the girl in the pic looks Good. Some don't but this is based of how people act and what people have said. (First paragraph)
All adjectives are subjective
You know you only think you're attractive if you believe you are but in reality no body would be nice to you just because you're pretty.
PS I don't find that girl in the picture attractive. I don't even know her.
I'm just saying my experience and based of what people have said and how they act around me. Your experience is problaby different.
And you don't have to find her attractive not everyone will I said most people not all:)
Ok and how would you know they're only nice to you just because you think you're pretty? Not nice to you because you're a person? All are assumptions tho. All those compliments? Take it as a joke.
I never Said People are just Nice to me because of the way I look. But People act different when they mean different things. Why do you wanna argue?
I don't wanna argue but I just have to rephrase what you said. "People seeing you for your apperance and not who I am on the inside. A lot of guys are just out for my body. And I'm not in to that." and also "But People act different when they mean different things" They aren't nice. They're acting nice. What makes you so sure that it's because you're pretty? You're not pretty to anyone else besides them. Of course everyone is beautiful their own ways. If you feel like I'm trying to argue then maybe you should set your feelings aside and stop feeling like I'm trying to argue with you. You don't have to answer or respond to what I said and why bother?
You definatly have an attitude. So if you keep it I won't talk to you anymore.
And I know because of body language and what people say. I can tell what people mean. 60% of communication is body language.
And I don't mean every one is nice to me just because of the way I look but some most likely are because of the way they act. It's easy to get used when people only want the outside.
We can have a conversation but you don't need to be sassy.
Ok good accuse me of having such an attitude and being sassy. Do you realize how that sound? And not even gonna assume you don't have thick skin but calling my those just proves it. Also "And I don't mean every one is nice to me just because of the way I look but some most likely are because of the way they act. It's easy to get used when people only want the outside." You know you're not alone. That's pretty much what everyone else experienced so isn't that normal? And what I said everyone is beautiful their own ways so there are always creeps for them.
Why can't I say anything without being called sassy, having such attitude or just wanna argue? You know I can say anything when ever I want and it's called freedom of speech. You made yours and I make mine. What's the problem?
That's prooves the way you act. Just read the conversation. I haven't been mean to you once so far. Even though you have questioned me and said rude things many times now. You don't even know me.
And no it's based of how people act pleace read again or move on of you don't understand.
I don't have time for this so have a Nice day, bye!😊
So I suggest you move on about my free speech.
Not trying to boast. Out of all these I mostly dealt with 1 and 5 and flirting.
And yet those problems are all better to have than being a dog.
Most women, conventionally attractive or not, encounter these problems... has nothing to do with looks.
Good take and that's real...
Thanks! What do you mean by "that's real..." tho?:)
It means that such things do happen to girls who are attractive even to boys, it's not fake, it's real...
Oh okay yeah sadly it is lol
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everybody likes an attractive woman. go cry somewhere else kid