Rule number one: don't date co-workers. And it's better for you to be alone and focus on yourself than to chase a girl who is not over her ex. The negativity of the drama she might bring outweighs the positivity of the fun times.
I'll tell you one possibility. If she knows that you are interested in her and she tells you that she's not currently into dating, then she knows that there is a chance that you might move on. Will she take that risk if she likes you now?
Guess they don't want to be seen as a ho. They'll hook up with a guy they just met 30 minutes ago at a bar but make a potential boyfriend wait a month for a kiss because she's "not that type of girl."
That's a interesting one @ManOnFire, I would defer to the ladies on this one. She seems ok with you having good intuition so I would give her time to figure herself out. A little patience won't hurt.
It’s the way we were raised. We are supposed to at like lady and conduct ourselves according in public. Would you rather everyone know what y’all do behind closed door or keep her all to yourself.
You should decide what you want first, be her friend or you want more? Looks like you want more, if so, I know from personal experience, you talk with her about it, if she rejects you, the friendship is also dead
Well, I told her I need to tell her something, but didn't say what. I'm gonna give her the bad news that I don't wanna be the guy who has to be the friend because I'm not attractive to her, and that we can't hang out anymore.
Good for you, I turned SIMP, badly and stayed there for few extra months after, I can tell you, losing a friend can and will suck, but having to recover after those extra months, hardest thing I had to do in my life
Yeah, it won't be easy for me to say and probably not nice for her to hear but I gotta say it. I don't wanna be that guy anymore who just settles for friends and who feels pain knowing that the girl you like is sleeping with someone else. I just feel degraded being in that situation, and I'm too old for it. At this point in my life, I'm looking for something serious, and I'm done settling for just friendship. It's either I have you or have nothing at all.
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Rule number one: don't date co-workers.
And it's better for you to be alone and focus on yourself than to chase a girl who is not over her ex. The negativity of the drama she might bring outweighs the positivity of the fun times.
most modern people have some kind of body count. however they might lie about the number.
I'll tell you one possibility. If she knows that you are interested in her and she tells you that she's not currently into dating, then she knows that there is a chance that you might move on. Will she take that risk if she likes you now?
Guess they don't want to be seen as a ho. They'll hook up with a guy they just met 30 minutes ago at a bar but make a potential boyfriend wait a month for a kiss because she's "not that type of girl."
That's a interesting one @ManOnFire, I would defer to the ladies on this one. She seems ok with you having good intuition so I would give her time to figure herself out. A little patience won't hurt.
1. She is a ho.
2. Fastest way to turn the tides is friendzone her.
3. Hit it if you must but dont marry this girl... see #1
Women pretend all sorts of crazy shit. They're women.
I think it's pretty clear she isn't interested in you like that, she sees you as a friend.
Agreed and the hard to get comments are misleading
Simply said. 😆😆😆
Here's how i do it, if she ain't fucking she getting blocked and deleted & ignored when i see her at work
maybe she don't wanna be a hoe... but is a hoe... but tryna get outta that life... I don't know
If I was you I wouldn't even be friends
True, time to move on
you're just a friend to her, the things she's said shouldve made you realise when she hurt your feelings in more than one way. Move on.
Guys seems to move on after sex, though not all, to keep them ladies prefer wait till marriage thing.
Maybe this is the girl type men like, they know it and acting like a little cat to become a tiger during the relationship
Sadly, I think you have been friendzoned, brother. I'm sorry.
The bigger problem is (probably, from as far/much as I have read) that you don't value your time enough.
It’s the way we were raised. We are supposed to at like lady and conduct ourselves according in public. Would you rather everyone know what y’all do behind closed door or keep her all to yourself.
They also do so because they know most men in some way like women who haven't been around block a lot of times and who seems innocent.
You are right seems innocent,
You should decide what you want first, be her friend or you want more? Looks like you want more, if so, I know from personal experience, you talk with her about it, if she rejects you, the friendship is also dead
Well, I told her I need to tell her something, but didn't say what. I'm gonna give her the bad news that I don't wanna be the guy who has to be the friend because I'm not attractive to her, and that we can't hang out anymore.
Good for you, I turned SIMP, badly and stayed there for few extra months after, I can tell you, losing a friend can and will suck, but having to recover after those extra months, hardest thing I had to do in my life
Yeah, it won't be easy for me to say and probably not nice for her to hear but I gotta say it. I don't wanna be that guy anymore who just settles for friends and who feels pain knowing that the girl you like is sleeping with someone else. I just feel degraded being in that situation, and I'm too old for it. At this point in my life, I'm looking for something serious, and I'm done settling for just friendship. It's either I have you or have nothing at all.
it's considered 'disgraceful' on her part. society's double standard, probab.