I am dating a girl who is clingy. Messages me all day via text or whatsapp.
She is sexy and attractive, so believe it or not, I was NOT annoyed by her messaging so much. And she was intense about it too. Asking a lot of deep questions and stuff.
It didn't annoy me.
The reason why I was turned off by it was because the constant messaging made me suspicious of her. Is she a psycho chic? Is she a stalker? What are her attentions to be so obsessed with me? Is she trying to manipulate me?
Over time I have come to realize that this is just who she is. I have started to realize that she may be crazy in love but she is not psychotic. And I have come to realize that she isn't toying with me as her obsession, it is just a genuine head over heels crazy affection for me.
So I have finally gotten to the point where I actually kind of like her clingy nature. It turns me on. And when she doesn't message me...I miss her.