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seen some women posting there reply by throuht the message to warn a women that i was a jerk. it deponds on me. i used to do but not has more. only done for reporting people online. yes, is was good mytake.
Which is why when dealing with a woman you never put stuff in writing.
Also...
you don't know if what you text her could be used against you in a court of law.
Be very , very careful indeed.
Indeed. Excellent point.
Well... this is why all companies have Information policies.
It's also why you should only ever share what you are willing to be shared onward. Never just assume privacy.
You guys gotta learn the difference between a girl and a woman. I haven’t done this since I was 22.
I word it that way on purpose. Because there are many 'women' out there who are still girls.
Indeed
We seem to have an abinda of immaturity and arrogance going on these days. I've been r evaluating my dating life going into the future. I had been out of dating for 5-6 years. It's been a... sobering experience tbh. Lessons have been learned. At least that's a good starting point...
*abundance
Most women get old, not matured
@MzAsh That's what she said
Nah, older women still do this, except in person. "Girls night?" Yea their boyfriend's and husbands personal business is the ice breaker right after the wine comes out. They call it "bonding."
"Don't tell anybody I told you this but, het still pees in the bed. Tee hee!"
On what planet is that anyone's effing business? I overhear that crap all the time.
again, not all women are the same, I personally dont show dms of someone to someone else, unless its something actually funny and then i ask the person if they're okay with me sharing it to this person, etc.
If i really care about a guy and love him and later end up breaking up with that guy, id still not show our dms to someone else because thats the person who was once so important to me.
but i do know there's women who do that and I agree that its kinda weird and cringe
Yep... makes sense. They tend to think every little thing that pops into their little head should be shared or verbalized. Diarrhea of the mouth and constipation of the brain.
Girls I had relations with always shows her friends, it's a no brainer.
Especially when they add you to a group chat with said friends, it's just obvious.
I show texts to get advice about what to say back. Never for anything else. Or wait actually, also if something clever or funny was said by me or someone else😜
yeah they will use it as "proof" that you are a turd and try to ruin your life with that and even stoop down to deleting texts from that to make it seem like your a bad person
I do not share texts very often except in order to discuss the full context of of a conversation. None of my friends have shared complete texts and only 2 have shared some information that was stated in the texts. I do not look at texts on my wife's phone unless she does not understand what is said or does not have her glasses.
Be careful how your character propels forward towards others and reflects your own defects. That will obviously be warranted to show and tell others as to the misunderstood intentions or intended wrongfulness. Its very rare for others to share to all... good ifavorable intensions with appropriate truthfull feelings directed towards someone. Usually when boundaries have been breached this becomes repeated to others to examine.
These comments show just how women refuse to be held accountable for their own flaws they just try to flip it back on men why are women obsessed with us lol
If I found out my girl was sharing private texts, we'd be having a long discussion as to why I Should continue to date her...
@ManOnFire Your post is the main reason why I only text to my close friends, bros, & or family members.
What's the point? Even guys do that.
Basically we should be careful of EVERYONE we text to.
This needs to be MHO. Period. If you can't trust the person, should you be "talking" to them?
@the_kisses_of_sun I did say that some guys probably do do that, but for women it's very regular. And when guys do it, their reasons are probably not for the ones I noted in this Take.
No she is right. Men and women do it equally. Only immature women and gossipers do it for the sake of gossiping and being wicked. If there is a concern about it, women will naturally share because they are concerned and if they lack experience or wisdom, let alone knowledge about a situation or men, they become scared, just like you men, about confrontation, so they ask other women and those they trust for insight and advice. It is by no means always about plotting, gossiping or spreading rumors. But to judge the quality of the relationship and whether or not she should continue to invest. At that point, if that is continuous, it may not be wise for her to be dating. But most men are sneaky today for sex, as most women are sneaky to get things. I usually like to address my issues to the person I am speaking. But I've found that many men are not happy with that. If I cannot get that answer, somebody has to know. I will not form relationships with people I cannot trust. Otherwise, as a private person, I keep everything private unless there is a point of concern. I believe that is just normal. Before technology like this, it was word of mouth or written letters. So this is no surprise. What matters is that good word is put in. If you have a concern, address the boundaries or don't get involved with shady and untrustworthy people. This is where morals and character come in.
@btbc92 thanks! I do it for the same reasons as you. Mostly because I lack experience and wisdom in interactions with men and I find myself clueless in many situations. I don't know what to say or how to act. So I ask my friends about it. :)
That is why it is best to not date or get involved until you develop yourself as a person. You don't want bad experiences with men to shape your perception. Bad enough mine was badly skewed because of this very thing. At least it's a good 10% chunk. I personally do not share my business with everyone. But what I did state most of my friends and of course, speaking in general for younger women do ask these questions. Men today seem to be very clueless that this behavior is not new and has always been the case. The same behaviors you hear about in ancient Egypt or Rome, old colonial, victorian era, no matter the era, women will always be, well, women. I believe if men were more honest and upfront most of this wouldn't be happening. But many today only care about sex more so they take too much offense because they feel it's not benefiting them if their not getting any. Sad.
Two wrongs don't make a right. This take is mostly aimed at guys to be aware of what to text women. Saying "but guys do this and that!" is resorting to whataboutism. Which is nothing but a logical fallacy. Yes, we all know there are guys out there who do shit and EVERYONE should be cautious of them. In fact, I myself have experienced dudes sending private conversations around to other people and even an idiot who tried to show me his girlfriend's nudes (which I refused to want to see as I feel bad for the girl).
With that being said, this take still holds truth regardless of guys doing this as well or not.
@btbc92 From my experience guys do it to brag and show off (it's about lifting themselves up not about the person sending the message). Girls do it to mock, shame, or signal status (it's about the inferiority of or to harm the person sending the message). A subtle but important difference.
@AKeeblerElf Very well said!
Yes this is true about all people and the reason that I have still never taken or sent a dick pic...
I have shared text messages before but more on a level to assess the message and get different opinions on what he said lol I'm a over thinker
learned this the hard way. Not to worry the bitch who did this I read her diary and I think she knew
Ohhh daaaaayum. Good pay back!
My brother reads all my messages. Except when I sext.
Your brother reads all your messages?
Yeah so
Well, how do you mean? He reads all the messages you send him? Or you literally let him go on your phone and read your messages?
Latter
Sorry to say it but that is really weird lol.
hhhhhhhhhhhhh
I think it's smart to get a second opinion from someone you trust.
I think it's weird that most people claim to be honest and genuine but flip shit if you don't hide their words like a secret.
If my friend/wife/girlfriend showed my texts to her brother, I wouldn't be mad. I'd ask her what he thought of them and either consider his advice, or their family values.
People who want to do the right thing don't mind being double checked.
People who only want to be told they are right fucking hate it.
Just make sure you're still thinking for yourself too. It's a second opinion, yours is still the one that matters.
Yeah absolutely
Wait, you're sexting your brother? I would think that'd be the bigger problem. 🤣
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Are you busy Friday night or this weekend? Do you want to meet?
Anything besides "Yes" = delete, block and keep it moving. ...