What is the Allure & Mystery of younger women dating older men? Why is it frowned upon by so many people, especially the Religious crowd? (Page 4)

[DannieDoesntCare]

I as a religious person frown upon golddigging not relationships like that. My greatgrandparents were at least 10 years apart and while that's not much it's still a good bit. And it's not even. Necessarily mystery sometimes it's just hey you are financially stable and I like you. Let's go on a date and see what happens.

[Pegases]

It's actually normal. But I think what most people want to prevent are predators. Older men are more experienced, so it can be dangerous for a girl that doesn't have a good head on her shoulders.

[NoUsernameSelected]

If you are 18+ you are the only person alive that is accountable for your own body.

Do with it whatever you want as long as you don't harm others. If you want to be with an old guy, that's your decision.

[Thot_Stomper]

I don’t know what it is but I slept with 70 year old and it was amazing. Maybe I have issues I don’t know but I would do it again in a heartbeat.

[wingattebaby16]

if an older man is fit, healthy, and can rock my world in bed, i agree.

oldest guy i ever was with was 55yo when i was 19-23yo... my girlfriend's dad and he was sly in putting the moves on me. Took him 3 weeks, but he seduced me and omg!

Black guy, 6'5" tall, 55yo, flat stomach and nice muscles. Blew my mind in bed and out of it! lol

[Thot_Stomper]

🙌🙌🙌🙌

[zeitgeist057]

A guy that old or even in 40-50s is going to appreciate being with you and be so turned on, it's going to be that much better for you both. The best sex is when your partner is turned on, imho, and the more so the better.

[AviatorTom]

I agree with your starred "**" reasons. Older men are generally more stable and more caring, which is what a younger woman is looking for.

[jshm2]

It isn't.

You've just used a lot of words to say nothing, kiddo. You're always going to marry someone older if you're marrying up. Or younger if you're an oldy yourself.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I don’t know what the allure is, but I sure am glad for it. Women my age are so much more complicated than younger girls.

[Andres77]

I'm sorry that is how your life started. It sounds like things are much better. now

[Andres77]

The older guys were still wrong... and it makes me wonder how many other girls they took advantage of.
Bottom line, you took a shitty situation and you made it better.
I can't fault you.
I'm glad things are better for you and your family.

[wingattebaby16]

yup, David is the love of my life... i plan to give him more kids too. and I love my 3 stepdaughters, plus our 2 daughters.

I am blessed to have a man that is loving, caring, and got his degree, so he works and supports us and i get to stay home like a 1950's mom and be a housewife. Of course, living in Idaho, we can afford to live so i dont have to work.

People say, when he is 70yo and i am 51yo, won't i grow tired of him? NO, that is love. and I chose him knowing that Life can get hard as we grow older.

[TenderFantasy]

I wouldn't have married a man that already had young kids. You're emotionally strong.

[Andres77]

@TenderFantasy
Agreed
(About her strength)

[BJP21]

Im a prime example of this Now 40 my former girlfriend is now 30. The issue we often had was maturity. It can go both ways in the age gap. Nobody really had an issue with our ages as we did spend good quality time together. The partial reason for our break up centered around mental and emotional abuse. ( I wasn't the abuser) The compatibility factor really plays a huge roll. Making sure that younger or older someone is mentally and emotionally stable.

[rachel776]

i would not date a guy that old that's ridiculous. i don't know that religious people really care how old a guy i want to date is

[LindsayR07]

Wow, just wow...

To answer the original question: it's frowned upon in religious circles because the young women (12-22) are reserved for the clergy.

[Staximus]

If you have children, make sure you never treat them like your mom treated you. You have to be the one to break the cycle. You have to heal yourself from the damage done by your abusive mother.

[Surely]

No one should have go through what you went through. Glad to see that you were stronger than most and survived.

Hope the rest of your life is many times better than your earlier life! Good luck!

[Bratsondanielle]

I didn't know this. Of course I'm not religious (at least not in the invisible-guys-in-the-skies-way) but I didn't know. Of course lots of karens frown upon anything and everything so why not that too.

[Reaper1985]

older men tend to be more mature while having more deposable income on average. provided they haven't been married and/or had children yet.

[Jamesshinobi]

frowned on by religious people? they are the ones that started the whole groomimg children thing. have you never met a Jew, Mormon, Catholic, or Muslim?

[monkeynutts]

Very interesting take. Life can be a rocky road, I think adversity can often make a really good and compassionate person. I hope you have found satisfaction and love now, and if not yet, than soon.

[RuthlessAggression]

There's nothing mysterious about it. It's about as cliche as can be

Luckily, my mom, beat the cliche, and is actually one year and 24 days OLDER than my dad

PUNK!

[LimitedBenefits101]

Younger women want older men for the money

Older men want younger women for the beauty.

only one that hates seeing older men and younger women is OLDER WOMEN

[Boldy_Erin]

I'm an atheist. I've always dated older guys. I couldn't date a guy the same as me or younger. I just couldn't.