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When I wear something like this, I'm prepared for them to look at me. But isn't that why we wear things? To be looked at?
Yes. Thank you for being honest.
Some guy was literally grabbing and rubbing his balls with his hands down his pants while I was sat at a bus stop and he was super close to me but I ignored it the best I could. The lady sitting next to me whom was closer to him was brave enough to start laughing and pointed at his penis, I then laughed too out of nervousness because I didn’t know what was going to happen but whatever did I was ready to defend myself and her. The guy was shamed and he quickly put his junk away and slowly walked off grinning and cackling like it was funny and this other lady had a KID with her but was luckily facing the opposite direction and paid no attention to this man. I was dressed up and thought I looked nice and without showing skin, yet men still looked at me and even had the nerve to do that. It has nothing to do with women/girls showing skin but men being predatory/pervy and mentally unwell.
This so stupid 🤣 women aren't the problem you are. If you can't control yourself when you see abit of skin on a woman may God help your soul.
Women get looked at and attacked wearing anything. I remember having dirty old men shout at me from there cars as I walked home from school in my school uniform as a teenager. Women aren't the problem men are
It's stupid that women want to dress to show skin and still act like men are wrong to look. Men are not the ones with the problem, women are. Men know what women are going to do with their bodies, women are the ones who still haven't learned that men are going to look. The vast majority of men look at women with plenty of self-control, you only the notice the ones without it.
My can men learn to be respectful. Your not helping men by saying this stuff Your making them out to be simple cave men who don't know no better. Not all men are that stupid sweetheart
Why can't*
You're struggling with the common young woman's problem: selective listening. As I already said, the VAST MAJORITY of men look at women with plenty of self-control, you only the notice the ones without it and are trying to make it like that's ALL men.
These women only want the really good looking top 10 percent of men looking at them and scorn other men who dare to look at what they are dangling in their faces. Bizarrely these women seem to have a different opinion about getting likes from all men on social media sites even if the men leave them sexual comments about the bits being displayed in photographs!
Um nah ill dress however I'm comfortable and if men creep on me then I'll call them out and publicly shame them
you don't get to make others responsible for your actions :D that's not how it works.
@genericname85 okay and they chose their action of being a creep who stares so I'm allowed to call them out on it
so riddle me this: is a male who's an exhibitionist who runs around in a trenchcoat flashing women with his naked body beneath a "creep" or are they the creepy ones for looking?
He's a creep for flashing people. But that's a very different thing than wearing a tanktop and getting gawked at in Wal-Mart.
@genericname85 are you trying to compare women wearing regular clothes to man purposefully flashing his genitals at strangers? Cuz those obviously aren't the same things
no i'm not comparing. just making you aware of your big fat and blatand double standard. that's all.
What double standard? Das macht keinen Sinn.
@genericname85 it's not a double standard since those things aren't comparable
@Agape93 it's crazy how much men think they're entitled to being creeps
i'm not comparing. you're making the difference that in the case of men now suddenly "acceptable standards" matter. which apparently they didn't matter for women. so there's your double standard.
Agreed. Dude needs to stfu, he's already made himself out to be incompetent
@Agape93, i can't read what you're saying cause i blocked your ass but i think it's funny that women avoid accountablility like a vampire avoids the light. as soon as you shine some light on the bullshit they're doing, they immediately like to blame it on men XD and i know she can't read that @Apple1996. just wrote that for you to read cause i already know what dumb shit she wrote without even seeing it xD
@genericname85 men are allowed to dress however they want as well. That has nothing to do with flashing their naked body
men are supposed to dress according to what's socially acceptable. not accoring to "what they're personally comfortable with". and that same standard applies to you and women in general. that's all there is to it. like imagine the guy flashing you and then calling you a creep for looking. not saying you're doing that. but women do that. and if that's not ok in principle, it's not ok in principle for both genders and both genders should adhere to socially acceptable dressing. both women and men.
like how is a guy flashing his balls and a woman having her tits out on a shelf for everyone to look at different? blaming the one taking a look is victim blaming in both cases.
@genericname85 women aren't flashing anyone lol and yes everyone dresses based on personal comfort and preference
@genericname85 boobs are not sexual organs. They aren't inappropriate to flash. They're meant for feeding childern
@genericname85 I've never just accidently stared at anyone in public. I'm bisexual and very visual but somehow can still control my eyes
He's just a fucking einzeller.
@Agape93 omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm not wrong
What do you mean by "creeping on"?
@AndrésC64 like creepy staring
Not to nitpick, but what do you mean by that? Is looking at you creeping? How long do I have to look at you before it's creeping?
If girl show her cleavage why should I don't stare?
If girl wear shorts then why should I don't stare her legs?
Girls have rights to wear whatever she wants so I have also rights to stare whatever I wants too. No?
And apple you're mother of half dozen kids who the fuck gonna stare at your loose cleavage? Sit down 🤣🤣
You have no idea how womens bodies work, sit down an stfu until you actually get a woman in your life
Bitch you're fucking broke, who are you hiring, your mom?
Nope she is Ruch because she have rich son...
Aw just because your mom in the hiring business it's doesn't mean everyone's mom do. Don't be that much innocent release. 😊
Dude your English sucks. Wtf are you even saying?
I'm saying I'm In love with you 🥰🥰
Oh god not you again
See suddenly how you became so cute? That's the magic of love true love. by the way I have question.
What you do with your holes if men stop giving you his cum. ? Your hole became useless. No? You can't born baby without help of men. You need men. 🤌
@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 moneymagnet24 has a new account it seems. Tagged him for harassment.
Aww she start crying 😢 😭
What harassment? Who moneymagnet24 ? Wtf 😂😂
Just saying the men in this thread are gross af for what they are saying.
@Agape93 ill keep an eye out for him harassing and if it keeps up I'll make sure he's gone.
Thanks babe
Sure maam you can keep your beautiful eyes on me..🥰
Let me assure you... if I'm showing any skin, it's because I want it to be seen !!!
THANK you for being honest.
You’d think women would know better…
- SolitarySolace
Exactly. Actions have consequences. If you put yourself on display, don’t be shocked when people notice.
– Eva ❤️
Ahh control your behaviour messages are so revealing.
Why not sit down and go about your day in your own way instead of trying to police what others look like.
You're probably the same kind of person who'd complain when women wore headscarfs or hijabs or dudes wore skimpy shorts and vests to show off their physiques because you can't help but sexualise them and everyone around.
Not a flex
That makes zero sense.
Too many words?
Don't tell other people how to dress or behave.
if YOU find others sexually arousing DON'T show it in public. Take that shit away and deal with yourself. Yeah, they look good, don't hate them for it. They and others like it and can control themselves and appreciate it civilly.
when you go swimming to the local pool or shore, are you happy about all the people who keep their eyes on you a little longer than usual? i'd be happy if i could wear whatever i want when it's 35°C outside without attracting exclusively creepy stares, thank you very much.
No girl who shows skin doesn't want guys looking. It's why they do it. But they only want the guys looking who they want looking, and they want to be able to shame the others. It's a certain personality type, these girls. They are to be avoided.
This MyTake is going to have a lot of woman and simps hating on you, me personally I don't agree nor disagree...
That's fine
Men will always look at women no matter how covered up they are. If they stop wearing short shorts and skirts, we'll just have to deal with longer shorts and longer skirts. If they stop wearing low-cut tops, we'll just have to deal with that and look at a little less cleavage but we won't stop looking.
When I’m at the beach I’m literally in a triangle top ( with my DDs bouncing around) and a thong I’m not there to be gawked at but I am old enough to understand guys are gonna look.
just stop. ur disgusting.
At the beach everyone is exposing skin. You know that guys will look. If you are in a bikini top you know they will look at your boobs. Guys will enjoy the view. No reason for them to make any rude comments. Seems you have a great attitude.
gooner and his girlfriend
@chocolatetwopointo thank you
for what?
I guess that is fair but it is also fair to say, look but don’t touch!
Also be self aware, if you are making her uncomfortable maybe stop staring. Or if you are 75 and she is 19 maybe stop staring. JMO!
Don't exist if you don't want to be sexually harassed. Does that sound right? No. So don't think men get a pass just because girls decide to exist for themselves.
This is a bullshit answer
Well, your mytake is good but it does not really matter because women will eventually wear what they want too irrespective to whether they are being seen and how they are being seen by men.
Right. But they need to stop whining.
Creepy or hottie is in the POV of the woman and let's just say there's some lookism involved.
I agree, loose light cotton clothing is cooler than skimpy clothing anyway,,,
accountability and women are like oil and water. they don't mix.
Ironic coming from a man