Facts about us girls?

[lola-butterfly]

so us amazing creatures of god , i'm not sure where to start from cause there is so much to tell about us but i guess i'll talk about us with relationships okay ?

personnaly speaking i don't realy have a type of guys , i mean it does not matter how a guy looks but it's all about how is his personnality , how he thinks , how he can make me laught and flirt with me... etc

when it comes to dating guys make a huge mistake by talking about what they want from us , you'll be out with him only for two times and he'll be like : so when are we going to do it and start talking dirty and stuff , guess what we hate it and it's a total turn off , the truth is that we do want to get laid too with that guy that we like and think is right for us but we like it when it comes naturaly after that we start feeling it

some of them say that they are done with playing and want to settle down but the truth is that they never get enough and even if they did they don't realy change their attitude they want us the good ones but act with us same as they did with B***

and the worst part is when we finally fall for them and we start caring , they'll be like yeaah go easy on me too much love and game me space or ouuuh i'm sorry but it's not working

eventually we always end up broken hearted and still we never learn and it does not work out without them in our life

it's hard being a girl with feeling and a good heart it so damn hard nowdays

[ILoveLadies]

Guess what? Us guys run into the Dave stuff you describe here. Beleive it or not, there are guys who feel exactly like you do. They're just afraid to admit it most of the time. and recently I've run into all the crap you describe from nearly every woman. So much drama or there.. and it usually begins with "why do all guy..."
Give me a break ladies, you dated some pigs, but trust doesn't make ask men pigs.. Just like I dated drama queens and bi**yes but they doesn't mean you are all that way...
It does mean that the nice ones at harder to find.

[sammy_31]

We tend to be more emotionally attached I would agree. We probably seek that more than physical pleasure you know someone who can have a good conversation and really listen. I like your take but I wish there were actual facts there more of your opinions than facts. Anyway I get what you're saying. Well do not fall for someone so fast get to know them a little, you can have fun along the way but always know where you're going and where you're at. Don't lose yourself either, NEVER be you and if they can't accept that then do they really want you?

[lola-butterfly]

luuv your opinion ;)

[sammy_31]

Thank you and I liked your take. :)

[lola-butterfly]

Thanks <3

[sammy_31]

You're welcome :)

[Byakuyarko]

Your article is the exact reason I despise girls with 'feeling and a good heart'.
"amazing creatures of god"
wow. I guess your definition of being good doesn't include the virtue of humility. It's one thing to be comfortable and accepting one's gender but your assertion that you, a woman, are an 'amazing creature of god' is bordering on the sin of pride.
you open your advice with a cliche insincere statement. You do not have a "type of guys" that you like. You went on talking about personality and thoughts. Really? You'd date and love anyone no matter how ugly or broke they are? Or even if they have a dangerous criminal past? Can you honestly say that with sincerity? You mean to tell me that thousands of years of natural selection mean nothing and that "love" is the deciding factor for romances? If you truly believe that, I commend you for your optimism irrespective of how misplaced it is.
You talk about how being sexual and pushy when "you're not feeling it" is a turnoff. Alright, I totally agree with that. However, I also think that expecting your boyfriend to pamper you with grand "romantic" gestures like a fancy dinner and ridiculously expensive gifts on inconsequential days like anniversaries and Valentine's day is a big drain on a boyfriend's time and resources that he should not be obligated to put up with. Shaming and emotional blackmailing are underhanded tactics used to force boyfriends to conform to these illogical and hollow ceremonies of "romance".

[Azara]

She never sodas hygiene about dinner or showering gifts or anything. Your tirade is misplaced.

[Byakuyarko]

"sodas hygiene"? what do you mean mate? And my tirade about dinner or showering gifts is about equivalent exchange... And since 'good hearted girls' don't always agree with equivalent exchange, my tirade is not misplaced in the slightest... Refute what I say and try to make sense

[lola-butterfly]

it's not a pride it's the truthh we are amazing creatures for you same as we do concidere you too
the statement of the guy is never as importante as the understanding of each others and that confort of finding the right person for you
and romance has nothing to do with money , romance is simply a kiss a good word a hug a nice appologize those things are little but mean the world to us
go try using money to get a good girl and get back to me on that one ;)

[Byakuyarko]

Wow... English must not be your first language... The first part of your reply is incomprehensible. To adress the latter half of your reply, I'm not even going to argue about "romance"... Tell me this, is hug or kiss or apology enough for a Valentine's day gift?
I've a better idea, I'll spend money to get myself a good video game...

[lola-butterfly]

just write me a love letter that'll do it

[Byakuyarko]

And sorry to break it to you, no girl or guy is special. No one can claim to be 'an amazing creature of god'...
Because God doesn't exist. And no creature ever created is special... Least of all bipedal Apes with xx chromosomes... I'm just putting it out there...

[Byakuyarko]

And that bit about trying to score with a good girl? Yeah... That's a classic shaming technique... Sorry, it doesn't work on me... I've dated before... My 'tirade' is based on the experience of dating 'good girls'

[Byakuyarko]

Why would I need to write you a love letter? A pure hearted paragon of a woman ( not sarcastic) probably have men falling over their feet to try and get a date with you...

[lola-butterfly]

yes they did
wanna join the club !

[Byakuyarko]

Look mate, let's just agree to disagree... Savvy? I'd rather not be blocked and reported for something as stupid as 'romance'... As for your offer... Thank you. That's very generous of you but I make it a point never to join any cults... Especially ones that require me to write a' love letter' :p

[lola-butterfly]

don't worry we're only talking no one is gonna report or block the other + if i couldn't take your point of view i wouln't have write this ;)

[Byakuyarko]

Aye... Peace and respect bro... I can't agree with what you have to say but you're entitled to your opinion...

[lola-butterfly]

ouuh yeaah to the limit man lol

[alenx619]

girls that get victimized is not always the guys fault in the sense that a girl should know what is going on in relationships like be smart. and learn to not be a victim. girls have issues too. for example where is it written that women can't pick up on a guy? that will help cus if she sees boyfriend material she can go for what she wants. what about switching it up and not acting like trying to have a good relationship is gonna get you a good relationship. girls need to understand that trying to have a good relationship is not better than trying to be a good person in a relationship.

[molan]

"it's hard being a girl with feeling and a good heart it so damn hard nowdays"... sure, and it's hard being a guy with feeling and a good heart as well...

Both genders have it's ups and down, guys don't appreciate being told "we like it when it comes naturaly after that we start feeling it"... when the guy naturally already have the feeling. Don't blame the guy for expressing his feelings.

[lola-butterfly]

we like it when you express your feelings
but what feeling exacly !

[TheWiseOwl]

I'm sorry but a vast majority of women are heathens, not amazing creatures of God, where this utter tripe stems from is bewildering to me it really is and I am noticing a trend of women not wanting relationships with Men due to busy lives, so they seem more interested in friends with benefits and then end up getting attached and getting salty about it on GAG.

[lola-butterfly]

that's just some cases does not apply on all other situations

[TheWiseOwl]

There are some fantastic women in this World but most women like most women are just feral savage animals.

[lola-butterfly]

ouuuh come on
us animals !
then what should we call you guys !

[TheWiseOwl]

I meant Men and Women and there are plenty of Men who behave appallingly in this World and you are free to call them whatever you wish.

[lola-butterfly]

ouuh if it's both then yes you can call us all animals lol
but in a nice way

[TheWiseOwl]

In a nice way? No I don't do nice, sorry.

[lola-butterfly]

not you
me i do nice stuff

[TheWiseOwl]

Smashing :)

[lola-butterfly]

hahaah sweet stuff man lol

[iloveyaLikeSeriously]

Like I said as anon above⤴ we r stupid_ -but, we are amazing creatures😏 😚:P

[TheWiseOwl]

You keep telling yourself that.

Some women are amazing, most are rather mediocre.

[cuzzy]

Wa wa wa I have had a few bad experiences with the opposite gender so now they r all jerks. But I still really want a gf or bf¡¡ For fucks sake mates have a cry. I have been through the emotional wringer more times than id care to admit. But I dont let it clowd or distort my opinion of the opposite sex. They r all god till I prove em bad.

[lola-butterfly]

who said anything about you being bad
we need you , and same for you
it's just a saying about a kinf of guys
not all of you

[Azara]

If you really think thaT way about men you should stop dating them. Bc the way you describe it they don't respect anyone... Out of respect For yourself you should move on from them not go "back". Dignity is more important than being able to change your fb statUs from single to relationship.

I don't think you really think this of all guys you've just had bad experiences... If you really thought this way you'd just stop dating.

[lola-butterfly]

it's never about all of them i know there is always good ones and bad ones + im a very optimistic kind of persons and i don't realy date a lot , cause i can't date anyone unless i realy feel the love lol

[Overactivetits]

"so us amazing creatures of god..."
stopped listening right there.

[K-Cool-Dude]

God made every creature *amazing*. So whats the damn difference?

[lola-butterfly]

i didn't talk about any difference

[K-Cool-Dude]

then what are you talking about?

[lola-butterfly]

read the title

[K-Cool-Dude]

oops...

[TheFlavour]

Put a penis on an see what happens? Seriously I will admit us guys can have it bad but I've seen girls get put threw a lot worse stuff an it seems like its true that girls do get more emotionally attached but us guys we just don't give a shit

[lola-butterfly]

" girls do get more emotionally attached but us guys we just don't give a shit "that's the issue

[TheFlavour]

an thats my point. Lol how evolution has played out. Wonder how it would be if guys were more emotional an girls were more manly?

[lola-butterfly]

i'de love to see that lol

[TheFlavour]

it would be more entertaining then having to read some of the stupid things guys say on this site

[lola-butterfly]

hahahah yeaah
you have no idea lol

[TheFlavour]

I think I got a picture of how bad it can be which makes it even worse since I just joined

[Anonymous]

That works both ways. And saying looks don't matter is bs. Why do you think a guy would even approach you? Unless he's been stalking you or can read your midg then it was based solely on looks. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't date a fugly guy either. I'm not superficial at all. It's just facts

[YourFutureEx]

interesting but
"so us amazing creatures of god"? every creature is amazing -_-

[lola-butterfly]

yes all of us are

[YourFutureEx]

That's better :)

[Anonymous]

Fact about us girls? We're stupid 😏 we really are..

[Tdieseler]

I am in LOVE with this. Fact about us guys too... we're stupid as well... we need each other to become "smart"...

[Opinion Owner]

Awww,😏 😘 Just like that 👌👍

[lola-butterfly]

hahahah lol greaat one
sometimes we do get so stupid lol

[TimesNewRoman]

Its hard being a guy with a good heart and intentions too.

[Tdieseler]

nice guys theory huh...

[TimesNewRoman]

huh?

[TimesNewRoman]

oh... you forgot the tm... i had no idea what you were saying lol

[Anonymous]

Girl... I completely understand. It's almost like a puzzle.

[Tdieseler]

You think girls have problems? please put on a penis and see what happens...

[Noxifer626]

It's also hard being a shy guy with good intentions but no confidence.

[sugarvenomx]

I ain't no amazing creature of God that's for sure

[SatoBlak]

I'm a male horse. Does this also apply to me?

[lola-butterfly]

hahahahha lol

[JackKerouac77]

Interesting take.