It's because sex is far easier to get for women, this is because of simple reproductive fitness dynamics. As in a man can knock up 5 women in a day, but a women can only get knocked up once in 9 months, so you only need a small percentage of men to knock up all the women. This makes men more sexually driven and women more selective. A man will need a lot going for him to have the same potential sexual success as the average women. This is why male promiscuity is celebrated (because it's hard to do) while a women will just be considered a slut (because all she needs to do is open her legs).
Men can argument any way they please, for any position they prefer. I don't care. I have nothing against argumentation from anyone. Man or woman.
But I do have everything against social pressure imposed by the so called "keyboard sages" who want their own interests fulfilled. Religious ones will humiliate non-virgins because they want higher chances of finding one. Mawhores will attack women who don't fuck on the first date because they want more tail.
The only reason I didn't take time to address this crap and put it all into one small "keyboard sage" category, is because you don't matter. You're a guy. You don't understand my position, you don't understand my needs and most of all, I'm not dating you, so nothing you say really matters to me.
Same for all women. Stop wasting your time dear keyboard sage.
The only real pressure is the one OTHER WOMEN impose on me. And it's their behavior I will address, even if that's just you talking through them.
Keyboard sage seems to be a nice buzz phrase fr you. Ok, don't complain when people look down on you for being a slut, don't complain when you are nothing more than a lukewarm whole between your legs for him to put his dick in to the guy you like, the more sexual partners a women has the more she devalues herself as relationship material. I got taught this stuff in both anthropology and cognitive science at university and you don't even have an argument against it, you know i am right. Also the most "beta" thing a man can do is waste his resources raising someone else's child, a women obviously knows the child is hers while a man needs a test, if a women is known to be sexually promiscuous this is a warning sign that the potential for insuring the progress of another mans genes is high. Sex is literally the greatest biological advantage the female gender has, and you are cheapening the supply, thus women won't like you either as eggs are worth more than sperm.
But continue to be a slut if you want, then when you hit 30 and want a real relationship and men you think are below your league won't want to touch you, remember me when you are crying at how you devalued yourself, let me tell you even the female anthropologists at the top of the field agree with me.
One thing I don't get is when some girls who are promiscuous allow themselves to be treated like sex objects and complain when they get treated like that. Not to mention when they're with a guy who sees them as more than a sex object, they ditch the guy for a guy that uses them for sex and still complain.
Now you are saying marrying a slut is a negative thing to blood mountain, so are you agreeing with me now? only the true bate males marry sluts as sex in exchange for resources when they get older, enjoy being seen as worthless for anything but sex from the person on the street up to your own father.
No, I just know you'll marry a slut. I don't think that's a bad thing, but you do. And you sound like a loser enough not to be able to have much choice in a partner. If not a slut, she's gonna be ugly as fuck.
No i have choice, that's why i wouldn't date a slut, even ugly girls can be absolute sluts (i know a few, this is because sex is easier to get for girls like i explained), only men without choice have to settle for sluts. Note that i am not calling a non virgin girl a slut, but if you have slept with 10+ different men, enjoy having very little choice in proper relationships, or hide the fact that you are a slut with your life. As i said slut is a derogatory word for a reason, are you just not able to understand the simple biology i explained or are you experiencing cognitive dissonance? This is a very forgiving forum and you are still getting guys telling you that sluts are devalued, go to other forums preferably ones that are predominantly male and see how guys tell you sluts are worthless, there is your empirical evidence for you. Honestly please be a slut if you want, so you can see first hand how much of a mistake it is.
lol, i am not marrying, serious relationships yes, but nothing legally binding, and if i find out she was a slut i will dump her on the spot and tell everyone i know she is/was a slut. Word gets around, all the girls that are very slutty are known, men and women both spread the word. You think guys don't warn other guys who is and isn't a slut, if you are having sex with a lot of people, yo are stupid to think most people don't know.
She'll be new in town. You won't even know anyone. You'll marry her because she seems different from all the girls you met. As it turns out, she'll just be a different brand of slut. But you won't learn that because the only people you'll meet for years from her town will be her puritanical parents.
Of course there is a chance, it's just not likely. You might end up with a guy who murdered people and you wouldn't know. I Probably wouldn't get serious with someone when i know nothing of their past though, and as i said, fuck legal marriage.
Oh but you will believe. You'll want to believe desperately, because your pride won't be able to handle the fact that you've been duped by a dirty slut. It will slowly eat away at you for years before you finally accept it and go insane.
No girl, i won't experience cognitive dissonance, i am very analytical in my approach to everything, but yeah i may marry a slut, i am just going to try not to, like most men will.
I understand your point, but are you not a bit hypocritical now? You're basically saying that you know how it should be and you make yourself a little bit better because you are a "regular, confused, sane and sexual girl" who knows better and therefor has the authority to tell someone else to shut up? Just saying.
The women I describe use tactics of social pressure, shaming and social rejection as tools to push other women in the direction they themselves took, all because they want their own choices justified by doing so. That's despicable.
Imagine if I became a vegan and spent my life mocking you for not being a vegan and talking about how superior I am to you, all because I need you to imitate me, so that I feel validated over something I'm actually insecure about.
Yes they are bitches and yes I have every right to call them bitches.
And you are doing exactly what you claim to dislike with theses women: You shame them, call them bitches and cunts and you tell them they're wrong. The hypocrisy in this take and your comments is ridiculous.
Interesting how you feel the need to attack me, just because my opinion differs from yours. If we ignore the shaming part -which I still think is wrong -, you still call them names and tell them to shut up and that they're wrong. That is rude no matter what and is what you said you didn't do. But you do.
WTF! LOL! I don't really care what you do. I do find it ironic that you are judging others because you yourself have been judged. Ok. Sure. This "article" did give me a good laugh though.
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If someone makes retarded judgements and I judge them for that, I'm perfectly justified in doing so.
Analogously: If I judge a Muslim zealot who has judged all non-Muslims to be execution worthy, I am perfectly justified in my judgement based on the judgement said Muslim has made.
So what you're saying is people should stop judging others for their sexual decisions, right?
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No. That's impossible. I'm simply asking the ladies who see themselves in this article to keep their mental retardation to themselves. Such women aren't capable of proper reasoning. All they have are constantly repeated platitudes and mocking used to created a social stigma that works in their favor.
I have nothing against girls debating on this and keeping it civil, but I have everything against cunts simply proclaiming they are standing on moral high ground because God, or because YOLO... -_-
You are on the internet, you better be ready for everything. I agree that people should debate this away from people who don't really care about it, but that isn't happening anytime soon on the web.
No people can't debate this away. That's even more silly of a notion. This is personal and it's individual. And it greatly hangs on how you see your personal relationship and what it means to you to be in one with that person. It's about how your partner sees virginity.. This is no one else's business. While it can be debated, it can never be debated away into an accepted objective social standard. There are just way too many contradictions in society for that to happen.
I realize this MyTake isn't serious... but you used crazy Miley Cyrus as an example :p Anyway, I LOVE how this MyTake shows how all of the crazy people react in the comments LOL
I really like the "smart slut" I don't date any other type of girl. I feel bad for the misguided "holy virgins" who are seriously deceiving themselves.
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Lots of girls are neither. This article isn't suggesting our gender is a dichotomy.
I didn't think you were suggesting that. Yes it is true, only a very small portion of the female populatoin is appealing to me in terms of pursuing a romantic relationship, and of course, the "smart slut" in itself assumes many forms, many of which I wouldn't like and wouldn't like me.
I don't agree with this at all. I'm waiting till I get married because I think its something special I can share with my future husband, I don't think I have more self-respect then any other girl.
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I don't have less of an opinion of girls who decide not to stay virgins until their married either.
And I'm the same as you. The girls I am talking about in the article are not normal girls like you and me. It's the girls who are convinced of their superiority and are pushing their belief on everyone just to validate their own life choices.
How smart are you going to be when you get an STD, a kid when you are not ready to raise one, or that you are basically just a walking vagina without a brain?
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this take was too stupid that I choose to pass. if I want to answer this piece of crap It would be 4000 characters, at least. no time for this.
just the errors in your assumptions shows how smart the second group is.
This has got to be the most hilarious take I've read on this site so far! If you hadn't gone anon, I'd follow you for sure! Great, great article!
LOL exactly!!!
I wanna know who she is. I like her.
LOL! Looks like you've already got a following of at least 2! XD
Huh?
No you RD! I was talking about the Anon author of this take! She has at least two fans in us.
Oh yeah hahaha. Yep. "You got a friend in meee. You got a friend in me." <------ Toy Story reference.
Nothing wron with a chick who`s a little spicy LOL
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Most commonly found in the Western hemisphere, but most loudly promoted by American culture.>>> this part I agree.
However, it is up to individual how comfortable they are. Not all virgins behave in superior manner they just like to wait until marriage.
It's because sex is far easier to get for women, this is because of simple reproductive fitness dynamics. As in a man can knock up 5 women in a day, but a women can only get knocked up once in 9 months, so you only need a small percentage of men to knock up all the women. This makes men more sexually driven and women more selective. A man will need
a lot going for him to have the same potential sexual success as the average women. This is why male promiscuity is celebrated (because it's hard to do) while a women will just be considered a slut (because all she needs to do is open her legs).
We are biologically inclined to see sluts as less valuable, you are the dumb slut
Men can argument any way they please, for any position they prefer. I don't care.
I have nothing against argumentation from anyone. Man or woman.
But I do have everything against social pressure imposed by the so called "keyboard sages" who want their own interests fulfilled. Religious ones will humiliate non-virgins because they want higher chances of finding one. Mawhores will attack women who don't fuck on the first date because they want more tail.
The only reason I didn't take time to address this crap and put it all into one small "keyboard sage" category, is because you don't matter. You're a guy. You don't understand my position, you don't understand my needs and most of all, I'm not dating you, so nothing you say really matters to me.
Same for all women. Stop wasting your time dear keyboard sage.
The only real pressure is the one OTHER WOMEN impose on me. And it's their behavior I will address, even if that's just you talking through them.
Keyboard sage seems to be a nice buzz phrase fr you. Ok, don't complain when people look down on you for being a slut, don't complain when you are nothing more than a lukewarm whole between your legs for him to put his dick in to the guy you like, the more sexual partners a women has the more she devalues herself as relationship material. I got taught this stuff in both anthropology and cognitive science at university and you don't even have an argument against it, you know i am right. Also the most "beta" thing a man can do is waste his resources raising someone else's child, a women obviously knows the child is hers while a man needs a test, if a women is known to be sexually promiscuous this is a warning sign that the potential for insuring the progress of another mans genes is high. Sex is literally the greatest biological advantage the female gender has, and you are cheapening the supply, thus women won't like you either as eggs are worth more than sperm.
But continue to be a slut if you want, then when you hit 30 and want a real relationship and men you think are below your league won't want to touch you, remember me when you are crying at how you devalued yourself, let me tell you even the female anthropologists at the top of the field agree with me.
One thing I don't get is when some girls who are promiscuous allow themselves to be treated like sex objects and complain when they get treated like that. Not to mention when they're with a guy who sees them as more than a sex object, they ditch the guy for a guy that uses them for sex and still complain.
Yes, whine you loser. Like that is gonna help you when you marry a slut.
Now you are saying marrying a slut is a negative thing to blood mountain, so are you agreeing with me now? only the true bate males marry sluts as sex in exchange for resources when they get older, enjoy being seen as worthless for anything but sex from the person on the street up to your own father.
No, I just know you'll marry a slut. I don't think that's a bad thing, but you do. And you sound like a loser enough not to be able to have much choice in a partner.
If not a slut, she's gonna be ugly as fuck.
No i have choice, that's why i wouldn't date a slut, even ugly girls can be absolute sluts (i know a few, this is because sex is easier to get for girls like i explained), only men without choice have to settle for sluts. Note that i am not calling a non virgin girl a slut, but if you have slept with 10+ different men, enjoy having very little choice in proper relationships, or hide the fact that you are a slut with your life. As i said slut is a derogatory word for a reason, are you just not able to understand the simple biology i explained or are you experiencing cognitive dissonance? This is a very forgiving forum and you are still getting guys telling you that sluts are devalued, go to other forums preferably ones that are predominantly male and see how guys tell you sluts are worthless, there is your empirical evidence for you. Honestly please be a slut if you want, so you can see first hand how much of a mistake it is.
Oh you're definitely marrying a slut. She'll lie to you and you'll lie to yourself as you paranoidly analyse why her vagina feels so huge.
lol, i am not marrying, serious relationships yes, but nothing legally binding, and if i find out she was a slut i will dump her on the spot and tell everyone i know she is/was a slut. Word gets around, all the girls that are very slutty are known, men and women both spread the word. You think guys don't warn other guys who is and isn't a slut, if you are having sex with a lot of people, yo are stupid to think most people don't know.
She'll be new in town. You won't even know anyone. You'll marry her because she seems different from all the girls you met. As it turns out, she'll just be a different brand of slut. But you won't learn that because the only people you'll meet for years from her town will be her puritanical parents.
Of course there is a chance, it's just not likely. You might end up with a guy who murdered people and you wouldn't know. I Probably wouldn't get serious with someone when i know nothing of their past though, and as i said, fuck legal marriage.
Oh but you will believe. You'll want to believe desperately, because your pride won't be able to handle the fact that you've been duped by a dirty slut. It will slowly eat away at you for years before you finally accept it and go insane.
No girl, i won't experience cognitive dissonance, i am very analytical in my approach to everything, but yeah i may marry a slut, i am just going to try not to, like most men will.
The most logical guys are the first to bullshit themselves because of how fragile they are before their emotions. You'll never admit it to yourself.
You just have to do what you feel is the best solution for you. If you want to wait, go ahead. If you don't, go ahead.
Alright. I agree.
I understand your point, but are you not a bit hypocritical now? You're basically saying that you know how it should be and you make yourself a little bit better because you are a "regular, confused, sane and sexual girl" who knows better and therefor has the authority to tell someone else to shut up? Just saying.
But you are claiming you're right - you just wrote you're better than them because they chose different paths than you did. And you call them cunts.
The women I describe use tactics of social pressure, shaming and social rejection as tools to push other women in the direction they themselves took, all because they want their own choices justified by doing so. That's despicable.
Imagine if I became a vegan and spent my life mocking you for not being a vegan and talking about how superior I am to you, all because I need you to imitate me, so that I feel validated over something I'm actually insecure about.
Yes they are bitches and yes I have every right to call them bitches.
And you are doing exactly what you claim to dislike with theses women: You shame them, call them bitches and cunts and you tell them they're wrong. The hypocrisy in this take and your comments is ridiculous.
Interesting how you feel the need to attack me, just because my opinion differs from yours. If we ignore the shaming part -which I still think is wrong -, you still call them names and tell them to shut up and that they're wrong. That is rude no matter what and is what you said you didn't do. But you do.
uuummm... whats your point anyway? Whats this all about?
I don't get it either :\
The slut isn't smart at all in my opinion. Many guys can talk the pants off her leaving her with STDs, a kid along with poverty and then alone.
The word "smart" is as mocking as the word "holy" used to describe the virgin.
But you yourself put, "the smart slut" soooo...
WTF! LOL! I don't really care what you do. I do find it ironic that you are judging others because you yourself have been judged. Ok. Sure. This "article" did give me a good laugh though.
If someone makes retarded judgements and I judge them for that, I'm perfectly justified in doing so.
Analogously: If I judge a Muslim zealot who has judged all non-Muslims to be execution worthy, I am perfectly justified in my judgement based on the judgement said Muslim has made.
So... What exactly are you trying to say?
What is your point?
So what you're saying is people should stop judging others for their sexual decisions, right?
No. That's impossible.
I'm simply asking the ladies who see themselves in this article to keep their mental retardation to themselves. Such women aren't capable of proper reasoning. All they have are constantly repeated platitudes and mocking used to created a social stigma that works in their favor.
I have nothing against girls debating on this and keeping it civil, but I have everything against cunts simply proclaiming they are standing on moral high ground because God, or because YOLO... -_-
You are on the internet, you better be ready for everything. I agree that people should debate this away from people who don't really care about it, but that isn't happening anytime soon on the web.
No people can't debate this away. That's even more silly of a notion.
This is personal and it's individual. And it greatly hangs on how you see your personal relationship and what it means to you to be in one with that person. It's about how your partner sees virginity..
This is no one else's business. While it can be debated, it can never be debated away into an accepted objective social standard. There are just way too many contradictions in society for that to happen.
Damn... calling JustBanannaz straight out! hahahahahahahahahaha
Word.
I realize this MyTake isn't serious... but you used crazy Miley Cyrus as an example :p Anyway, I LOVE how this MyTake shows how all of the crazy people react in the comments LOL
This is the best shit I've read on gag. 10/10 for you.
I really like the "smart slut" I don't date any other type of girl. I feel bad for the misguided "holy virgins" who are seriously deceiving themselves.
Lots of girls are neither. This article isn't suggesting our gender is a dichotomy.
I didn't think you were suggesting that. Yes it is true, only a very small portion of the female populatoin is appealing to me in terms of pursuing a romantic relationship, and of course, the "smart slut" in itself assumes many forms, many of which I wouldn't like and wouldn't like me.
I don't agree with this at all. I'm waiting till I get married because I think its something special I can share with my future husband, I don't think I have more self-respect then any other girl.
I don't have less of an opinion of girls who decide not to stay virgins until their married either.
And I'm the same as you.
The girls I am talking about in the article are not normal girls like you and me.
It's the girls who are convinced of their superiority and are pushing their belief on everyone just to validate their own life choices.
How smart are you going to be when you get an STD, a kid when you are not ready to raise one, or that you are basically just a walking vagina without a brain?
Another brilliant (albeit useless) addition to the world of GaG.
Lol Harakiri :)
Talk about 2 sided come on, girl I get what you're saying but I do not agree completely and I will not STFU :) Arrivederci :D
Why won't you STFU? :O
I asked nicely. =(
Aww girl but I don't want to even if you asked nicely xD #dying
The most confusing artical that repeats "shut the fuck up" lol