What the hell is up with people? all day you've been making very bad articles and making horrible perceptions about women... men can be cheaters too... men or women we aren't all that different so quit doing this, i've been seeomg a total shit storm of nrgativity all day and more than usual, this tells me most of you are in moods lol i noticed every time that everyone gets into a giant mood all at the same time and POOF the negativity is worse than usual, chill out and stop hating, if your in a mood go chill out, close all your browser windows including Facebook and watch a happy movie.
do me a favor and shut up, will you? There exist THOUSANDS of articles like this about men. And you get all buthurt over ONE about women? And the problem is, she is right on every. single. one. of. them!
This was only about women because it was based on a personal experience with her female friends. Women and men cheat, everyone knows this but it's not a nasty thing to write about just women cheaters. Don't get so offended.
Not all girls cheat. I can honestly say in my almost 43 years I never have. Not that I have never been tempted (during my first marriage to an abusive asshole there was a guy friend who was really nice to me.. But still I did not go there). I'm old fashioned and as a Christian it's just not right in my belief. I'm not judging anyone else. That's not my place. For me, however, I could not in good conscience do that to my husband. I'm married to a wonderful man that I love with all my heart and I could never do that to him or to us. Even if I knew for a fact he would never find out.. I would know and more importantly.. God would know. Guilt would eat me alive. I love my husband too much to do that to him.
Fuck you myTake owner. She's not a rare gem. Just a good person with good morals and there are many out there just like her. Certainly far more of her kind than your trashy friends. Most women do not cheat on their husbands, most women do not cheat on their boyfriends and most women who do still see it as a disgusting act that should never be glorified in the way you have done.
I don't belong to any. I've never cheated and never would. If I did what you did and asked for everyone's cheat stories, they would all look at me in shock and no-one would have any stories to tell. You have a "unique" group of friends. I liked this myTake though, well written.
You'd be surprised as to how many women in my age group have cheated at least once, and not spoken about it. My girlfriends are quite typical unfortunately. Thanks for your input!
This take is seriously fucked up. Do women really cheat so often that u can accurately put them under a whole "sub-category" of cheaters? Its really that common for women to cheat?
I would never cheat on a girl. If it was t working for me i would at least have the decency to break up with her instead of cheating. Cheaters sicken me 😡😤
I'm the avenger... all these holier than thou people responding obviously haven't been cheated on. I have and I'm totally against cheating but it changed me. After two boyfriends doing this I realized I was different. So I do cheat but only if I feel they have done so. I also realize I shouldn't stay with someone I don't trust but it takes time to move on when you're in love so in the meanwhile revenge sex it is and oh so marvelous. But I don't ever get caught but I make my bf get nervous but without any evidence to accuse. Give them a dose of their own medicine. I don't care if it's immature... Welcome to the new me... The one who changed after she was f***ed over too many times!
I always know... I say 'I feel' cause what's cheating on me is not necessarily to them eg. 'I feel' them talking to other girls online in an intimate manner is cheating... They say it's not cause nothing physical happened.
Funny how everyone acting like they don't cheat yet statistics show how common it is so i really feel most of all the people responding to this post are full of shit
Well not openly - this was a closed conversation between best friends who were also very intoxicated. But yes, they all cheated. Sadly, it just seems like it's a part of the modern dating and mating experience nowadays...
I just think a lot of women lie about not cheating. So it's a double cheat. Society worships womanizers or players, but if women come out and admit to an indiscretion, they are bitches or whores. There is a double standard here. I'm not a champion of cheating, but life is messy and things happen when you're vulnerable or stressed. No need to beat yourself up for being human and imperfect. Sharing those stories heal and allow people to put their behavior into perspective, whether it's good, bad or ugly. Alcohol was the truth serum. Some women DO cheat, and these are just the things I noticed about the ones I personally know. Too bad more could not be as unabashed and honest... An aside: not all the men they cheated on were angels either. Thanks for your your opinion!
There is a difference between being a womanizer or a player and a cheater.
Being a womanizer or a player means that you are very skilled at seducing women, and use this to get many women in to bed. This isn't bad at all unless the guy is some manipulative asshole. It just means the guy likes casual relationships and he's good at them. I don't see any problem if women like casual too but this still is no relation to cheating.
A cheater is someone who is in a relationship where both people are supposed to have feelings and are both supposed to trust each other. They go behind their partner's back and break the trust. They are greedy and sly. Many expect that they can get away with it and love how their partner has no idea. They are the kind of people who should be having casual relationships but have decided to break someone else's heart while they have their fun.
There is no double standard. Men and women cheaters are both looked on by society with disgust.
In the hippy, brainiac and shocker. I haven't cheated on my LTP (long term partner) but previously I have.
Many years too late I may have discovered why, the polyamorous label has only just been revealed to me and I feel it fits me so well and explains why I always had such issue with fidelity. I find it a battle to stay uninvolved with other men, not a battle to resist my sexual urges but a battle to resist forming emotional attachments that aren't strictly platonic. I love my partner with all my heart but I still enjoy forming bonds with others and it does make me sad I can't. I know my LTP would never understand, he is a strictly monogamous man.
www.counter-currents.com/.../ It has nothing to do with polyamoury, it has to do with the fact that you where never monogoumus to begin with. Monogamy is somethin we choose, and we do so because it is the best way of maintainging a society, the best way of raising a family, it is the best way of insuring our partners happyness. What you feel, thats what every man has felt from the very begining. The issue is you just never new/bothered to create a coping mechanism. Cheating is wrong its unhealthy and its destructive not just to families, not just to the spouse cheated on, but to society itself, all of it rest on our trust and the family unit which your polyamourus label is destroying. Its called dealing with it, your significant others have done so, you have no excuse not to either.
My ex cheated on me with her "best friend" aka the guy she really loved and was just to stubborn and afraid to go for. Not really sure where that fits in here. Probably a little bit of 1 and a little bit of 6 since just because she was pretty close to both those reasons as her excuses.
Honestly, I don't think there's one type of person that would cheat over the other. I don't think it can be broken down into category's. I also know, I would never and could never cheat on anyone. I could never hurt anyone like that.
You remind me of another online blogger who played out this archetype of the whiny materialistic scheming bitch on her posts just to get hundreds of comments. It worked out for her, because she landed an internship for a woman's mag Cosmopolitan or some other shit. You did well at upsetting everyone with the last pic. I pity everyone who believes you. Maybe it's just your culture, maybe it's really just you and your friend.
I feel bad for any guys who had the misfortune of falling for you or any of your trashy friends.
This post just solidifies my opinion that marriage is fucking stupid. Because if a guy is the higher earner and ends up with a cheater like you or your friends he's the one getting fucked over in the end.
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we live in a very sick society. the amount of narcisism and mental confusion is immense. this article is like reading a 5th grade comopolitan article for dumb bimbos. i'm amazed you didn't add an A-D poll with questions that predicts a supposed personality profile...
This is why I cheat. Girls do it all then On my way! so why the heck not. I'm just a guy, if they can cheat and feel bad I don't know why my dumb ass feels bad when I get caught. Screw that, I'm going to cheat as much as I want with no regrets or shame.
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What the hell is up with people? all day you've been making very bad articles and making horrible perceptions about women... men can be cheaters too... men or women we aren't all that different so quit doing this, i've been seeomg a total shit storm of nrgativity all day and more than usual, this tells me most of you are in moods lol i noticed every time that everyone gets into a giant mood all at the same time and POOF the negativity is worse than usual, chill out and stop hating, if your in a mood go chill out, close all your browser windows including Facebook and watch a happy movie.
do me a favor and shut up, will you?
There exist THOUSANDS of articles like this about men. And you get all buthurt over ONE about women?
And the problem is, she is right on every. single. one. of. them!
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This was only about women because it was based on a personal experience with her female friends. Women and men cheat, everyone knows this but it's not a nasty thing to write about just women cheaters. Don't get so offended.
See moody lol if you wasn't you wouldn't snap at people constantly lol chill out
Not all girls cheat. I can honestly say in my almost 43 years I never have. Not that I have never been tempted (during my first marriage to an abusive asshole there was a guy friend who was really nice to me.. But still I did not go there). I'm old fashioned and as a Christian it's just not right in my belief. I'm not judging anyone else. That's not my place. For me, however, I could not in good conscience do that to my husband. I'm married to a wonderful man that I love with all my heart and I could never do that to him or to us. Even if I knew for a fact he would never find out.. I would know and more importantly.. God would know. Guilt would eat me alive. I love my husband too much to do that to him.
You are one of the rare gems then...
Fuck you myTake owner. She's not a rare gem. Just a good person with good morals and there are many out there just like her. Certainly far more of her kind than your trashy friends. Most women do not cheat on their husbands, most women do not cheat on their boyfriends and most women who do still see it as a disgusting act that should never be glorified in the way you have done.
Seriously can't tell if you're trolling or not. Cheating isn't something to be proud of and if you really think this way... I feel bad for you.
I don't belong to any. I've never cheated and never would.
If I did what you did and asked for everyone's cheat stories, they would all look at me in shock and no-one would have any stories to tell. You have a "unique" group of friends.
I liked this myTake though, well written.
You'd be surprised as to how many women in my age group have cheated at least once, and not spoken about it. My girlfriends are quite typical unfortunately. Thanks for your input!
This take is seriously fucked up. Do women really cheat so often that u can accurately put them under a whole "sub-category" of cheaters? Its really that common for women to cheat?
No, it really isn't. I don't have one friend who has ever cheated on her man and neither have I. I do know several guys that have/do cheat, though.
I would never cheat on a girl. If it was t working for me i would at least have the decency to break up with her instead of cheating. Cheaters sicken me 😡😤
I'm the avenger... all these holier than thou people responding obviously haven't been cheated on. I have and I'm totally against cheating but it changed me. After two boyfriends doing this I realized I was different. So I do cheat but only if I feel they have done so. I also realize I shouldn't stay with someone I don't trust but it takes time to move on when you're in love so in the meanwhile revenge sex it is and oh so marvelous. But I don't ever get caught but I make my bf get nervous but without any evidence to accuse. Give them a dose of their own medicine. I don't care if it's immature... Welcome to the new me... The one who changed after she was f***ed over too many times!
"So I do cheat but only if I feel they have done so"? So even if you don't actually have evidence of them cheating you'd still cheat?
I always know... I say 'I feel' cause what's cheating on me is not necessarily to them eg. 'I feel' them talking to other girls online in an intimate manner is cheating... They say it's not cause nothing physical happened.
Funny how everyone acting like they don't cheat yet statistics show how common it is so i really feel most of all the people responding to this post are full of shit
Hallelujah woman! ;) finally someone being real. Respect!
I've never cheated... so i dont know how I can fall in any of these categories.
That's it. I'm done. No girls for me...
I'm not dealing with this crap...
You're telling me that EVERY SINGLE ONE of your friends cheated on someone and was unashamed enough to share it openly?
Well not openly - this was a closed conversation between best friends who were also very intoxicated. But yes, they all cheated. Sadly, it just seems like it's a part of the modern dating and mating experience nowadays...
Sigh... If that's the case...
What a sad existence we lead.
Not every female is like this some of us have respect for ourselves and others
Most women are not like this
You and your friends are a bunch of low life bitches
lol keepin it real
I never wrote 'most'.
Sure, you never wrote it but your... ahem... "partying thought for those in denial" really implies it.
Plus the general tone of the take suggests that you see cheating as an acceptable an normal thing to do. :)
I just think a lot of women lie about not cheating. So it's a double cheat. Society worships womanizers or players, but if women come out and admit to an indiscretion, they are bitches or whores. There is a double standard here. I'm not a champion of cheating, but life is messy and things happen when you're vulnerable or stressed. No need to beat yourself up for being human and imperfect. Sharing those stories heal and allow people to put their behavior into perspective, whether it's good, bad or ugly. Alcohol was the truth serum. Some women DO cheat, and these are just the things I noticed about the ones I personally know. Too bad more could not be as unabashed and honest... An aside: not all the men they cheated on were angels either. Thanks for your your opinion!
There is a difference between being a womanizer or a player and a cheater.
Being a womanizer or a player means that you are very skilled at seducing women, and use this to get many women in to bed. This isn't bad at all unless the guy is some manipulative asshole. It just means the guy likes casual relationships and he's good at them. I don't see any problem if women like casual too but this still is no relation to cheating.
A cheater is someone who is in a relationship where both people are supposed to have feelings and are both supposed to trust each other. They go behind their partner's back and break the trust. They are greedy and sly. Many expect that they can get away with it and love how their partner has no idea. They are the kind of people who should be having casual relationships but have decided to break someone else's heart while they have their fun.
There is no double standard. Men and women cheaters are both looked on by society with disgust.
In the hippy, brainiac and shocker. I haven't cheated on my LTP (long term partner) but previously I have.
Many years too late I may have discovered why, the polyamorous label has only just been revealed to me and I feel it fits me so well and explains why I always had such issue with fidelity. I find it a battle to stay uninvolved with other men, not a battle to resist my sexual urges but a battle to resist forming emotional attachments that aren't strictly platonic. I love my partner with all my heart but I still enjoy forming bonds with others and it does make me sad I can't. I know my LTP would never understand, he is a strictly monogamous man.
www.counter-currents.com/.../
It has nothing to do with polyamoury, it has to do with the fact that you where never monogoumus to begin with. Monogamy is somethin we choose, and we do so because it is the best way of maintainging a society, the best way of raising a family, it is the best way of insuring our partners happyness. What you feel, thats what every man has felt from the very begining. The issue is you just never new/bothered to create a coping mechanism. Cheating is wrong its unhealthy and its destructive not just to families, not just to the spouse cheated on, but to society itself, all of it rest on our trust and the family unit which your polyamourus label is destroying. Its called dealing with it, your significant others have done so, you have no excuse not to either.
Oh... you're missing so many different kinds of women cheaters, hon... So many...
One of the most common ones is the damaged girl who is looking confirmation from any guy she can get.
You're 100% right - that's a good one, just not one of the women in my circle.
My ex cheated on me with her "best friend" aka the guy she really loved and was just to stubborn and afraid to go for. Not really sure where that fits in here. Probably a little bit of 1 and a little bit of 6 since just because she was pretty close to both those reasons as her excuses.
Alternatively this could be titled "6 reasons not to get married".
Truuuuuu
Honestly, I don't think there's one type of person that would cheat over the other. I don't think it can be broken down into category's. I also know, I would never and could never cheat on anyone. I could never hurt anyone like that.
You remind me of another online blogger who played out this archetype of the whiny materialistic scheming bitch on her posts just to get hundreds of comments. It worked out for her, because she landed an internship for a woman's mag Cosmopolitan or some other shit.
You did well at upsetting everyone with the last pic. I pity everyone who believes you. Maybe it's just your culture, maybe it's really just you and your friend.
Is it really that hard to stay loyal.
I feel bad for any guys who had the misfortune of falling for you or any of your trashy friends.
This post just solidifies my opinion that marriage is fucking stupid. Because if a guy is the higher earner and ends up with a cheater like you or your friends he's the one getting fucked over in the end.
we live in a very sick society. the amount of narcisism and mental confusion is immense. this article is like reading a 5th grade comopolitan article for dumb bimbos. i'm amazed you didn't add an A-D poll with questions that predicts a supposed personality profile...
Women like you are the reason why so many guys turn into assholes. You deserve to die alone.
If that's an excuse to turn into an asshole, would an article about not doing the dishes qualify as grounds to be a complete twat?
This is why I cheat. Girls do it all then On my way! so why the heck not. I'm just a guy, if they can cheat and feel bad I don't know why my dumb ass feels bad when I get caught. Screw that, I'm going to cheat as much as I want with no regrets or shame.