If they can't except your kids they are not worth it. I'm a sing mom I have been for 3 years I really not date, because my son is my first priority. When I do go out with someone I don't let them meet my son for awhile. I don't want my son to become attached to some guy and it not work out.
I have been a single mom for two years and my kids have only meet one guy but my children already knew the guy we have been friends for a very long time but I waited a while before telling them that we were dating
I know many guys who've gotten with single moms. It's just a matter of who the guy is and what he likes/doesn't. Guys who are ready to settle down for instance; like the fact that they can pretty much walk into a ready-made family.
Biggest turnoff there is i mean sexually i don't care If you look good that is sex and a dating is cool as long as your kids aren't in the picture (my place never yours) but no way I could ever commit to you or your kids sorry but kids are extra baggage i don't need
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Depends on your age, but usually yes. It makes us think that you are unreliable and don't think things through. Unless your baby daddy was a criminal or a cheat, why aren't you still with him? Didn't you consider the strength and stability of your relationship before creating a life? And if it was an accident, why? Didn't you plan ahead and use birth control or condoms. Yeah yeah nothing is 100% but it's still pretty unlikely both failed. Most of us want a woman with a little more common sense.
I kinda thought it would be for some reason, but I know plenty of guys who would and have dated them since I started college. I think as long as he likes kids then it's fine.
No, kids aren't a dealbreaker for me. I know I'm very young to be saying this but there are a few girls at my age who have a kid, and I would date them.
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If they can't except your kids they are not worth it. I'm a sing mom I have been for 3 years I really not date, because my son is my first priority. When I do go out with someone I don't let them meet my son for awhile. I don't want my son to become attached to some guy and it not work out.
I have been a single mom for two years and my kids have only meet one guy but my children already knew the guy we have been friends for a very long time but I waited a while before telling them that we were dating
I know many guys who've gotten with single moms. It's just a matter of who the guy is and what he likes/doesn't. Guys who are ready to settle down for instance; like the fact that they can pretty much walk into a ready-made family.
Biggest turnoff there is i mean sexually i don't care If you look good that is sex and a dating is cool as long as your kids aren't in the picture (my place never yours) but no way I could ever commit to you or your kids sorry but kids are extra baggage i don't need
Doesn't turn me off...mainly because of my age.
At age 28, women my age are more likely to have a child or a divorce / broken engagement.
Plus I like kids.
a lot of guys in the age group that we are in dont relise that
Then they're being irrational.
I know better. ;-)
Solly but i gotta say yes..totally 100% turn off >.>
Keep in mind you're still a kid though.
Nah its real. A used car isn't good anymore so i prefer a new car.
Ouch...
Maybe when u grow up u will see things different
Probably after when i get used up as well. Im still a new car so a used car is consider unfair to meh
***sheds a little tear***lol
Haha dont cry ma bellegurl, ur always gonna be ma baby mama x)
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Depends on your age, but usually yes. It makes us think that you are unreliable and don't think things through. Unless your baby daddy was a criminal or a cheat, why aren't you still with him? Didn't you consider the strength and stability of your relationship before creating a life? And if it was an accident, why? Didn't you plan ahead and use birth control or condoms. Yeah yeah nothing is 100% but it's still pretty unlikely both failed. Most of us want a woman with a little more common sense.
I don't have an issue, I've actually dated single moms before. It gets kinda tough when the kid is too much to handle and you can't say anything.
I kinda thought it would be for some reason, but I know plenty of guys who would and have dated them since I started college. I think as long as he likes kids then it's fine.
Huge turn off. Not a chance in hell I would date a single mother.
This!
they are to me. i say this only because i'm not kid friendly, i don't want any of my own.
I don't think less of them as a person. Things happen.
But I would never have any interest in dating one. I don't like kids.
No, kids aren't a dealbreaker for me. I know I'm very young to be saying this but there are a few girls at my age who have a kid, and I would date them.
I would think not but then again there are some that would stay clear of single moms, I'm guessing because they have no childrenthem selves.
Im 19, i dont see it as a turn off at all. Wouldn't disqualify me from dating you if you were my age or whatever
Every man comes in third in the life of a single mom.
1st it's her kids.
Then it's her.
Then it's you.
Period.
Okay to date, not okay to mate.
I think younger men would find it a turn off, Older more mature men wouldn't see it as a problem
They're alright. As long she doesn't have a gang of kids like 4 or five with multiple daddies and baby daddy drama
Yeah, it's a deal breaker for me, unless the girl was one in a million. Some guys are okay with it though
If I'm not bringing my own kids into a relationship, then yes, it'd be harder to date a single mom