30 years old and boy crazy?

[Anonymous]

A close friend of mine is completely boy crazy! If we were teenagers that would be fine but we're 30 years old. I swear that she is constantly switching from one guy to another that she thinks is cute and has a crush on. I love her to death but it's quite annoying to hear about the latest and greatest crush she has. She wants the real thing but with how she is I don't see it happening when everyone is your crush.
Any advice on how to nicely and respectably tell her that her boy craziness is a little over the top? I of course hope that one day she meets someone nice and settles down but in the meantime have a new crush every other month is too much to keep up with.

[AlexCab]

Well... if there's any way you can get me her phone number, I'll talk to her :P. Kidding.

You seem to be close to her, and her to you. Why don't you just ask her? Invite her in for an activity you would both enjoy, maybe watching a movie, maybe a coffee, whatever makes sense and just be honest and open to her, like how is she feeling in life in general, and from there jump to some specifics like what about settling down? That will automatically lead the conversation to what you intend to ask.

And seriously, phone number? ;)

[Anonymous]

Sounds a bit like me but with girls. I seem to have a new crush every week. I want to settle down but I know the girl will have to be pretty special for that to change. Its pretty bad and after reading this it kinda describes me.

If im honest just be blunt with her. Tell her straight

[Anonymous]

I'm actually tired of people putting a label on age , Society tells you oh you're 30 it's time to settle down. I personally still don't feel like I'm in my 30's I've the body and energy as a 20 year old. If your friend is mature and doesn't behave childish other than her having crushes she's fine , Now if she has kids it's a different story. She has to set an example. But if she is single and she doesn't have any other responsibilities let her have fun.

[Anonymous]

Who the fuck want to be old? You?, I don't know what wrong with that she's not trying to relieve her youth she likes to have fun I see a lot woman just have a partner after a while break up and goes with another

[Asker]

What's with this whole relive her youth nonsense? 30 isn't young but it most defiantly isn't old! Maybe it's me but I can see the harm from jumping from liking one to the next when you're looking for the real thing. To me you'll end up settling for the first person who shows some interest because you're so quick to like them and want them to like you.

[Anonymous]

There should be no harm in that as she's not seeing a guy exclusively and isn't married.
Serial daters are the ones with the issues-especially when sex is thrown in the mix.

[Roarke]

i wouldn't tell her anything... she's just trying to relive her youth, same as you do when you go to an amusement park.

[Anonymous]

hahaha some people just dont want to grow up