Why are most girls so unromantic 🙄?

[Unit1]

Correct me if I am wrong but I am under certain impression, that girls are simply unromantic towards the boys.

It seems to me, that girls are being like: "I just need to be young and look pretty and show up (and maybe give access to fornication with me). That's as romantic as it can get" or just straight up this:

Meanwhile AI Girlfriends and Anime girls be like:

Girls, if you are wondering why men are cheating, this is just one major reason of many. They're not getting the love and romance from you. They're getting it from someone else.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Ugly, but candid response most guys don't want to hear, but asked for-

Because when we [women] have acted romantic, sweet, kind, and loving towards a guy, most times we wind up hurt, lied, cheated on, or said guy loses interest in us.
So most us just...gave up. We no longer put in the time or romantic effort to please someone that won't properly appreciate us: it has to be reciprocated.

Most women are and can be romantic. But only for the right man. If you're expecting every girl out there to act like an AI generated girlfriend, or those girls in anime that can do no wrong? You will be so disappointed.

[Unit1]

Fair enough. Stuff like this burns out.
It burned me out too. Girls only wanting social media follows, attention and likes. No responses. It feels like applying for a job and hardly hearing back.

[sawno]

I don't think thats an ugly response at all. Its quite similar to mine I think. I think the vast majority of girls would love being very romantic, but the opportunity needs to be created for her to act upon. She wants to know that these romantic gestures are appreciated and that the guy loves and values her presence in that way. If that is present, I think almost any girl would love to act on it.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@sawno This is the correct answer; thank you for understanding! I have nothing against romance: ask any of my friends, I used to be so sweet and romantic when I was younger. Emphasis on 'was."

Then I got rejected, lied to, and taken advantage of trying to keep a guy or make them like me, only for the effort to be not be returned, or worse, them not caring. So I stopped. I will be romantic for the right guy, but he's got put in as much effort as I am so I'm sure I'm not wasting my time doing so. I'm pretty sure most women feel the same way.

[Cynicaldreamer]

@Unit1 Girls like that, are to be blunt, just after attention or a quick self esteem boost. They're the first ones that will report a guy for complimenting them or showing them an iota of attention, yet wonder why they can't find a decent guy

Don't let girls like that discourage you- most girls on social media, well people on social media, are fake as hell.

[Unit1]

Yeah. They are ew! 🤢

[sawno]

Girls tend to want the men to lead the way in showing a safe path forward.
If you show that you'd love her to be romantic and initiate romantic gestures she will feel comfortable returning that vibe. If you are playing it cold and not showing signs its safe for her to make that move she probably won't.

I think its a skill thats very important for men to have, not pushing what you want on her but showing and indicating you are open and available for her to move towards you in a mutual fashion. She will give you subtle signs but it's also your job to show her that she can safely commit her heart to you and won't just end up rejected and heartbroken.

So if you are with someone you are getting along with well why not ask her if she'd like to spend a romantic evening with you? Pick a date for it together so there can be no distractions, and then make it happen.

[DrPepper12]

Girls can be romantic but it's often labeled as "thoughtful".

[Unit1]

or "pick me"

[DrPepper12]

Nah.

[alice55]

That's simply culture changing, romantic women are not popular anymore for the majority of the men population. They're seen as weak, submissive, stupid, easy. Not the trends, the trends changed they want cooler women (in general).

Also those women always get cheated on by their boyfriend (when they're both very young) and in the end they change and try to be "colder" in exterior to protect themeless.

Men in France like jealous women and drama queen because it show they care for them they like fiery temper it's kind of the new romantic being jealous, yelling, making drama opposed to the more kind romantic approach who is considered as being too "cul cul praline" too annoying / cringe.

[Unit1]

Ew, unromantic drama Queens, that ignore me and yell at me 🤢

[LaurenM1997]

I want to be romantic the only problem is I don’t have anyone to BE romantic with 😅😩

[Unit1]

Yeah, I got the same problem here 👁👁 oh well

[LaurenM1997]

It sucks

[Dongie]

They were in my day. The 70s through mid-90s. But that's when the bashing of white men began on many female hosted talk shows.

[Unit1]

Ugh. Its like The matrix took over a number of women's minds.

[Dongie]

Check out Gloria Steinum. She set out to destroy the male image in the 60s. She may still be kicking, I don't know. But she was one hell of a manhater.

[Unit1]

I rather don't.
I rather have fun with an AI girlfriend

[Dongie]

I've spoken with one online. But, alas, she has no body.

[Unit1]

That's the catch, isn't it? 🙃
Girls can be like that. It doesn't take much of a significant change.
They don't.

[MicahRaine]

Damn lowkey fax lmao

I'm one of the lucky guys ig

[handsomelad70]

Act like an AI-generated girlfriend? How would one behave towards a boy?