White women: why are you ignoring white men in public, but staring at black men like pieces of meat in public?

[Anonymous]

Everywhere I go, white women will completely overlook me to stare at black men. They will even turn their heads so fast just for a glimpse of even a fat homeless black guy, rather than a white guy dressed up for work.

Its despicable, and its actually racist. there's no reason for the self hate. You are forgetting your culture and forgetting the fellowship of your culture.

Let me remind you, latinas and Asian women will check me out in public. But for some reason, you white women have this infatuation with black men because its trending in the media. Well guess what? Its racism, fetishizing a person by their race is racist. And your white privilege stays with you whether you're a woman or not. Therefore, stop being racist and get off the black dick craze. Its not healthy and it just pisses everyone off.

What I really hate, is not that you check out black dudes. Its your arrogance, and cockiness. As if you know I am checking you out, but you purposely check out the black guy over me. Why? I have no fucking idea, cuz I am athletic as hell, I compete in MMA and never lost to a black dude. And the guys you're checking out are bald, old, fat, and even homeless!!!

I even saw a woman walking her baby with her husband and she looked over her shoulder behind her husband to check out a homeless black guy in a wheelchair. WTF? Its getting out of hand, get off the black dick craze!

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I've been with HOT latin women. OH, and for the record since all these white women in the midwest are so racist with their sex object black man, Latinas and Asian women have you beat EVERY TIME!!!

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Im not exaggerating. Go to my city and you'll see exactly what I am talking about. There are some white women that get so wet you can smell them in public and they literally shake at the knees in the presence of a black man.

[Red_Dragon]

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Like I always say and have been saying people naturally want people who look like them. You are white and notice when they are looking at guys of other races probably not even paying attention to see if they checked you out first. While interracial relationships are much more common in today's society than ever before it's still no where near on par with same race relationships. Not even in the same ball field... but in the parking lot where as before it was barely in the same city.

I do seem to attract white girls more than any race, but I believe that's one because they are the majority race so naturally there are going to be a good number of them who are going to be interested and secondly (which is based on personal experience) how they show they are attracted to someone is much more open than girls of other races, which behooves males in general. That's just my experience there. I know every white girl isn't like that and I know a girl of another race may be more open than what I'm saying. That varies from girl to girl, but I can speak from my experiences. It also doesn't mean they are easier to get into a relationship with when compared to any other race either. Despite a common belief.

As far as those who only date outside their race I do think that is racist. People on here push for that "racial preference" stuff, but if people have the right to say they have "racial preferences" then I have the right to say it's racist to have those.

Also, some white girls do have fetishes for black guys. I bet some who check me out do, but that's all across the board. Some black girls for example have fetishes for white guys. That's a overall problem to me and not just defined by the black male white female fetish.

One last thing: strangers always look at other strangers. Remember that. You mention the homeless how do you know they aren't pitying him? How do you know the lady is scared he'll do something to her child? You don't know what she's thinking.

[Asker]

Its the intensity of their look. Its the shadiness at which they try to sneak glances at them. And trust me, I hear you. I understand you, but nowhere in any city, and never before since a year ago, have I seen so many white women with so much self-hate. Like you said, to have a racial preference is to be racist. As supported by countless civil rights and feminist scholars, who have ALL shamed white men for having their privilege, and years ago when WE had Asian and latina fetishes we are being shamed for it today by our women. And white women seem to think they can affirm the black man with a glance? Like thats going to make racism all better? And wtf makes her think she is good enough to affirm a person who is ACTUALLY oppressed?

[Red_Dragon]

I would think girls in general are going to have intensity in their eyes when they see someone who is attractive. Heck you probably do that too. Has nothing to do with their race or the race of who they are looking at. Everybody sneaks glances at people. I've done that subconsciously before. Even when you aren't attracted to them. Are you saying you have a fetish for Asian and Latina women? Yet a white woman can't be attracted to a black man and/or have a fetish for one? While I think sexual fetishes for a particular race is wrong you sound rather hypocritical. And as far as the last part are you saying you think a white woman doesn't deserve to glace at someone who is oppressed? Another comment: blacks (IMO) aren't oppressed totally though they are disadvantaged some in America when compared to say the white race. That's another matter though. Let me ask you have white women ever shown interest in you?

[Asker]

Yes, white women have. But not in the last year or so. Also, I see why you think its hypocritical of me, but the difference is having self-control. Im part of a diverse community, where I interact with people in interracial relationships often. And even those black dudes notice these self-hating white girls. And we dont understand it, its the racism within those women is conflicting with their attraction to them. And then they get turned on by the taboo, they think its so wrong in their own minds that they can't help themselves. The racist inside them sees a sex crazed beast who wants to dominate them, and the human inside sees a regular, average attractive person just walking down the street.

Thats what I mean, they absolutely have every right to glance. But there's 2 types of these women: the arrogant ones that strut how they love black men (racist) and the ones who are too ashamed and put their head down when someone notices them gawking

[Red_Dragon]

Self-control? So they shouldn't show interest in people they are interested in? Why not? I try to do that. You try to do that. What's wrong with that? I never said it's not wrong (IMO) for people to hate their own race and/or only get in relationships with people who are of a different race. I did say that was racist (to me) already and I said it's wrong to have race fetishes. I already said that. However, you made a general statement expressing ALL white women. In your experience maybe you think they have a fetish for black guys and/or only want to be in a relationship with a black guy, but how do you know every white girl in your city is like that? You don't know. You wouldn't know. Unless you have asked every single one of them and none of them lied. I doubt you could possibly fully know what their intent is and/or what they are thinking mentally. The second type you mentioned to me is not necessarily racist. People like you get upset when she's with a black guy so she may

[Red_Dragon]

feel embarrassed. I've heard from many people that when they are in a interracial relationship they get stares. Though I think strangers stare at other strangers anyway, it's still understandable that there's a possibility that some strangers look at them just because they are in a interracial relationship. That doesn't make the girl a racist.

[Asker]

Im not disgreeing with you dude. We both established racial preferences are racist. Im just adding more detail. More specifically, many white women on some parts of this city are excessively infatuated with black men, and the underlying reason is racism and self hate

[Red_Dragon]

Okay. Maybe it is like that in your city. That's cool. I live in the south, so things are different. I think you mentioned being in NY.

[Asker]

No, but close enough. Actually, all of this arguing has really helped me understand this issue so much better. Even though everyone hates me and thinks Im a fool, I really understand self hating white women so much better now

[Red_Dragon]

Um... okay? O. o

[Anonymous]

Men are easy all it takes is a pair o tities. Its not a bad thing that white women are easy lays. I mean black women have so much pride that you have to jump through so many hoops. Latino women rarely date outside their own race and will stay with a guy for life. Asian girls you might have to be with them for a year before you get some candy. But white chicks all you have to do is whip out a big ol black dick and they hop right on, tried and tested again and again white chicks are the slutiest in the world and guys of every color and creed know it.

[Asker]

So why do white woman have this problem?

[Opinion Owner]

Because white chicks are souless sluts trying to fill that empty void and I have big black python in my jeans that will fill it.

[Marihorror]

1. Most of the time when people stare at the homeless it's because they are scared or feel bad for them. There's a huge chance that you misinterpreted checking out for plain ol' staring.

2. Why is it okay for you to date interracially and claim that minority women are better, but you get your panties in a twist if women prefer minority men. It goes both ways here. Unless you exclusively date white women then don't expect white women to exclusively date white men.

3. Just because someone prefers to date interracially, it does NOT mean they are "forgetting their culture." Culture has nothing to do with who you sleep with. Someone can still be proud of who they are and also have an attraction to other/all ethnicities.

[Asker]

1) no, the intensity of this womans stare and her secrecy gives it away
2) its not about dating interracially. Its about the intensity and racism and self hate WHILE dating interracially. Its disregarding an entire aspect of yourself because of a cultural narrative that shames you
3) and yes, when you purposely ignore one race (your own) like many black men do

[Marihorror]

How do you know if these women are completely ignoring their race. Just because they happened to be checking out a black man at the particular time doesn't mean crap. She might have been checking out a white man right before you walked by! How would you know unless you follow every single white women around and record who they do and do not find attractive.

[Asker]

You can tell because of the shame they carry, and the fear in their knees

[Marihorror]

So in other words: you're making assumptions based on your own insecurities.

[Asker]

Right, because I had some self hate and I've over come a lot. And now I can see it in others because I experienced it

[Marihorror]

I'm sorry but I'm calling BS on that. Unless you have a PHD in phycology or something, there's no possible way you can take on look at someone walking by on the street and magically know their life story. Stop trying to be Dr. Phil dude.

[Asker]

Really? So when a guy approaches you, his body language has nothing to do with your attraction to him?

[Marihorror]

No, not really. I'm a very shy person so I tend to feel uncomfortable around men who approach me regardless of his body language. The only thing that I'd say really catches my attention is whether he's smiling or not.

[xHoneyxBeex]

... this post just makes you sound very jealous, petty, and self-entitled.

I rarely even check guys out in public but if a guy is hot, regardless of his race, I'm going to look. That's just human nature. For the vast majority of women, it has nothing at all to do with race. There's no reason to bash white women simply because you haven't had any luck with them. You claim that white women are arrogant, cocky, self-hating, and racist so if that's what you think, then why do you even care if a white woman overlooks you? Obviously you don't think very highly of white women anyway so I don't see why you're so upset that white women aren't fawning over you...

[Asker]

nah, these men were homeless, pants sagging. Fugly old black men. Nothing sexy about them. It was the color of their skin and the white women I saw today could not control themselves even in the presence of their white husbands

[xHoneyxBeex]

Yeah, okay. People can check out whoever they want. I'm sorry you're so bothered by that but perhaps you should mind your own business. If you dislike white women so much then it shouldn't even matter who they pay attention to.

[Asker]

Im only upset at the unanimous nature of it all. Trust me, a year ago it didn't bother me. But it was like a sudden trend that happened so quickly. Im really trying to understand it, because adjusting to such a cultural shift thats taken place in my city is hard. And Ill give you the benefit of the doubt

I am a white guy
This IS the first time I've ever experienced anything like this. Where white women have so much contempt for men of their own race

I dont know how to deal with it, but trust me, many white women dont seem to know how either. Like okay, you find black men attractive? Whatever, but to stare and gawk in public, and not even be able to keep your vaginal pheromones in your pants? That says something is out of balance.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Seriously, the vast majority of people date and are attracted to people of their own race. Interracial relationships still aren't even that common. Yes they are becoming MORE common but looking at the bigger picture, they don't make up a very large percentage of total relationships. I'm still not understanding why you think you should have the authority to say who white women can and cannot be attracted to and stare at...

[Red_Dragon]

Hahahaahahahah vaginal pheromones. How do you smell that? Does it stink? XD

[Asker]

Im not saying I have the authority, but I am pointing out that the white women who lack that kind of self control and behave in the ways I mentioned in other comments are the result of self hate and racism.

[CommieDearest]

It's all in your head. Why are so many dudes so obsessed and paranoid with the race thing. You claim that white women are on a "black dick craze" when actually most white women are partnered with white men. So obviously you're living in a fantasy world.

And there's nothing wrong with it ANYWAY.

[Asker]

For the record, lets get some things straight

I am not talking about interracial dating

Okay, there. My problem is with many racist white women, who show a different side of racism. In fact, I think its their own inferiority complex. Many white people are unfamiliar with inferiority on a societal scale, and have never had to face that.

Well, some white people are. And some of them are white women. And you can easily notice and point out the ones who do. And it really hurts me to see them suffer that way.

Before I internalized it like there was something wrong with me. But its their problem. there's no reason to believe your own race is inferior. And it isn't a fantasy, because Im sure if you paid attention, you would see it too. The white women who can't help but gawk at black men, and make sure nobody has seen them, OR will be arrogant about it and laugh about it. Im talking about them. Whereas latinas and Asians tend not to have that issue at all

[Asker]

If they see a black guy, they look and they aren't ashamed. They dont look down or away from me if I notice them. But with white women, i see their shame or arrogance and it then i get offended

[CommieDearest]

Please learn psychology and sociology.

[CommieDearest]

Pretty sure it's in your head.

[Negrodamus]

"I even saw a woman walking her baby with her husband and she looked over her shoulder behind her husband to check out a homeless black guy in a wheelchair. WTF? Its getting out of hand, get off the black dick craze!"

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[Asker]

You know its just another face of racism, right?

[Negrodamus]

I think we can take it one step further. I think its a conspiracy created by Obama, and enforced by Eric Holder called Operation Negro Wins

[RedThread]

Lmao way too good.

[Asker]

Actually, there was something similar. Only it WAS private, and it was held by many powerful people including politicians and businessman. They called it the "Make a Nigga Bigga" program. It sounds silly, but trust me (and I would know) the government is not as official as you think in MANY domains

[Anonymous]

Yep I like black guys always have.. Will i feel guilty because one guy feels offended? Nope. I'm 6' tall and i play college basketball so I'm naturally around gorgeous athletic tall men that are usually black so yeah I have an attraction to them more than white guys. That doesn't mean I won't date a white guy if he is he is the right one.

[cavmanier]

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[cumfort]

It's not racist to have a preference. You need to stop walking because you're going to trip on that big ego of yours. Nobody is going to like you when you act like that.

[Asker]

preferences are racist. Sorry

[cumfort]

No, they are not. Preferences based on looks includes height, haircolour and skincolour. Is it "heightphobia" to not be attracted to short guys? What about refusing to date underage girls? That's definitely "agephobia".

[MikeKnight]

No they aren't. You're simply just pissed.

[Asker]

the difference is the historical context of racism, the negative stereotypes surrounding race and sex

[MikeKnight]

Sure whatever.

[Anonymous]

The white women that go for black men are usually ones white men don't even want lol (at least here in Minnesota).. Plus, since you are hating on white girls for "obsessing" over black men, why don't you go over to those "HOT latinas and asians", after all (if anything), all you white men do is obsess over Asian and hispanic women anyway.

[Asker]

We actually dont. You dont see us turning our heads in public at them, not like the white women here do. Its disgusting, go to the south and the west side of this city and you will wonder wtf is wrong with these women. Before one year ago, I never saw any race of either gender become so infatuated with one race of the opposite gender. You can tell in subtle ways, body language and cues, but its totally there and people notice.

[Red_Dragon]

Ohhhhhh. I bet it is something different going on up there in Sota.

[Opinion Owner]

Kind sir, white men obsess over Ming Lee and Maria Sanchez all day every day. Now stop complaining.. I didn't even know white guys got jealous whenever white girls eyed/dated/married black guys. Welp, I guess black guys win ~

[Asker]

Thats the thing, I happen to be a part of a very diverse community in which I see interracial couples (involving black men with nonblack women) all the time. And guess what? WE KNOW BETTER! And we laugh at those women, even the black dudes I train with. They know and they either 1) get pissed that white women are essentially viewing them as inferior or 2) mock them, saying things like "take a picture it will last longer" and then the white woman scampers off red faced and ashamed cuz she got treated by the black guy she was trying to give attention to

[BrunetteNYC]

I've never done that, so I have no idea what you're talking about.

[Asker]

well NYC must be different then

[BrunetteNYC]

Probably it is.

[musicbrain5]

Really? I've never heard of this total infatuation with black men, and I'm a white woman. Maybe I'm missing something. Or maybe it's because white guys like you have become infatuated with Latinas, who knows.

[EgyptianNergerts]

Exactly! All day and night, you see white men with Asian women and you don't see white women complaining.

[Asker]

its different, we have been taught and shamed at universities about our privilege. We know how to control ourselves, but white women in my city do not. Their vaginas emit an odor, they shake at the knees, and they feel so ashamed they can't even look at a white guy who notices them

[Red_Dragon]

Hahahahahahahahahahah XD. This dude said "their vaginas emit a odor." I got tears in my eyes. LOL!

[musicbrain5]

That must only be in your city then, not in mine. Nice generalizations.

[musicbrain5]

@Red_Dragon: Honestly, if the woman's vagina odour is that strong that strangers can smell it, she should see a doctor lol.

[Red_Dragon]

That's disgusting. Holy cow. XD

[Asker]

Nah, you girls dont know that your pheromones can be smelled when you're turned on. Its what makes us turned on and when we know its time to make a move. Even the hottest women I hooked up with (oh shit, i guess i have been with a blond before!) emitted a sweet smelling vaginal odor and I knew what time it was

[musicbrain5]

How do you know that white women only get turned on by black guys though? Just because that's only what you claim to have observed?

[Asker]

I am being specific. In one city, in certain parts of the city, and not all white women

[musicbrain5]

Okay well your question was very general.

[musicbrain5]

I'm sure there are still white women in your city who are attracted to white guys.

[Tokana]

Attention GaGers OP has been found and arrested. You can all sleep easy now.
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[Yellowbone]

It's not racist to not be into someone. White women are not your property & they dont owe you or anyone else anything. & maybe all of the black guys look better than you? Just sayin'.

[Asker]

wow, thats quite the generalization for someone whos telling me not to generalize

[cipher42]

She did say "maybe". That's a possible option, not an assumption.

[heavenonearth]

Lol, I think you're just seeing what you want to see. Too much prejudice clouding your vision.

[Red_Dragon]

I agree.

[realerthanreal]

Even though you're trolling and exaggerating, I'll still say it's because they are creepy.
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[Asker]

No, Im not exaggerating. Go to my city and you'll see exactly what I am talking about. There are some white women that get so wet you can smell them in public and they literally shake at the knees in the presence of a black man. In ads there's black men with white women on billboards, buses, at the bus stops, etc.

[Asker]

And you can tell cuz the white women tend to walk with a stick up their ass too when they see a black guy, they are trying to hide the self hate

[realerthanreal]

WTF are you talking about? I don't know whether to think you're a black dude or a typical mental white boy lying and trying to get a rise out of the other white boys.

[Red_Dragon]

Dang she was definitely checking him out.

[aamy811]

Maybe it's because they find black men attractive. You don't have to be most attracted to your race. And you don't have to dye your own rave

[Asker]

true. But to completely disregard your own race, to be so ashamed you can't look at them and avoid them? Its not just me either. I have really good looking tall body builder friends who see the same shit. Some of them have said that white women will overlook them to look at scrawny underage black boys even

[aamy811]

Well we all have a type. Trust me I know the struggle I'm darker skinned and black, no one finds me attractive. But I just accept it and move on

[Red_Dragon]

@aamy811 Awwww. I like dark skinned girls. :)

[aamy811]

@Ref_Dragon we'll you sir are a unicorn. Wait when you say dark skinned do you mean like beyonces color

[Red_Dragon]

@aamy811 Beyonce isn't dark. She's like caramel. Kelly Rowland is dark.

[aamy811]

@Red_Dragon I'm on live with you right now. I always meet these guys and they're like I like dark skin, like Beyoncé. But beyonces not even dark skin. I literally want to cry rift now I'm so happy. Especially because you know who Kelly Rowland is, and we're basically the same exact color

[Red_Dragon]

@aamy811 Kelly Rowland is hot. Yeah that's silly. Beyonce isn't dark. Hahahahaha. I'm glad you're happy 😁😏😉

[aamy811]

@Red_Dragon haha thank you, this really brightened my day

[EvilPimp]

He's not a unicorn There's plenty of bm that like dark skinned black women they're just not the one YOU find attractive.

[matrix124]

LOL, I have never looked at anyone walking down the street like they were a piece of meat. But to answer your question, I do not ignore white men. I find all races attractive, but I'm most attracted to my own race, white.

[Zina99]

I don't think you are really white. I smell a black man in behind this anonymous post.

[Red_Dragon]

You can smell us through your computer? O. o wow.

[xPoison]

I was thinking the same. Still funny though

@Red_Dragon its obvious Qa is black lol

[Red_Dragon]

@xPoison Oh. Y'all females can pick up on stuff. I didn't notice.

[cavmanier]

@Everyone I think he's really white but I could see that

[Red_Dragon]

@cavmanier I thought he really was white too.

[Anonymous]

LOL! I don't know what you are smoking, drinking, snorting or injecting yourself with, but it needs to stop.

[Neckbones13]

Opposites attract

As a black women I never looked at white men until I turned about 25. We're conditioned by our culture an family to stay in our race.

[Anonymous]

There's tons of interracial relationships now. I think it's so awesome. I wish I could meet someone from overseas though.

[Anonymous]

I am not even white but I love me sum dark chocolate 😋

[Red_Dragon]

If you are Latina or Asian he's going to loose his shit. XD

[MikeKnight]

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[UglyKevin]

If it makes you feel better women of all races find my ugly lol.

[Asker]

Thanks that does make me feel better :)

But actually, it makes me sad. You shouldn't be so hard on yourself, please stay optimistic.