How to get noticed at clubs?

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Okay so I never get noticed at club and I don't know why. I've tried everything. Sexy clothes, decent clothes, minimal make up, bold lipstick, I dance, I'm sober sometimes, I smile a lot. Nothing works. I don't think I look bad. I'm 158cm, 52 kg, 34-25-37. I have small eyes, my nose isn't pointy, full lips, dark hair, dark eyes. Do I sound bad at all?

soneoak · Accepted Answer

Clubs are such shitty places to get noticed, and it's usually the 'most experienced' (no they don't have real confidence) guys that do the 'noticing'.

Every successful guy in a club are the ones with tons of slutty girl friends, who have been sleeping with many women over and over again. They can have what seems like great character, but they usually have little care for girls.

If that is what you want, then you have to compete, they only have 1 dick afterall.

To get noticed, go with a group of other girls of 'similar attractiveness', (if they are less attractive, that can be a plus too). Basically, you will have to work out with each other who should be the 'prize' of the group at specific times (the rest attempt to look less attractive so as to 'raise' the perceived value of the prize).

Otherwise, you'll have to go solo.

Go with a petite, gentle, smiling character. (The other one would be to look vulnerable and a little depressed, smiling but with a little frown). NEVER GO LOOKING LIKE YOU'VE JUST BEEN PROMOTED TO SOME HIGH RANKING POSITION WITH PRIDE OR WHATEVER.

Dress tight around the waist, show your knees.

Now not to be nitpicky... but if you really really want to be noticed... you have to be at the top of the spectrum in terms of physical attractiveness.

It's not light or heavy makeup, but PROPER makeup, and yes, you'll need to be quite skinny if you don't have an awesome face.

dakraziest · Accepted Answer

well if we could see you we would have a better idea of why but i guess its because you are going to wrong clubs, yr figure seems good enough to catch eye

MzTee · Accepted Answer

Times have changed, people these days are too busy looking looking down at their phones to notice the people around them, i think social media has stunted young people's social skills. when i was younger guys would walk up to me all the time and start a conversation or flirt with me in the club, but this was in the 90's. My answer to your question is if you want to get noticed take a selfie in the club and post it on Facebook... i guess. lol

ccthecurious · Accepted Answer

I suggest you stop looking for the guys , just be you and go to the club to have fun w ur girlfriends, a happy girl its more confident when she glows so they will notice you are enjoying sp much that theyll probably approach you when u least expect; Good luck babe xx

Luv2BRealExotic13 · Accepted Answer

Why would you want to get noticed at a club? It isn't exactly full of people you want to be noticed by. Well unless you wanna get laid that night. Maybe because you're trying to hard it sounds, just relax and don't think about getting attention or seek it out.

DamanMannn · Answer

I don't see "talking to people" in your statement. D:
try it ;)
It's fun flirting,

sometimes looks don't bring you the whole 9 yards.
you'd have to put in little to mediocre effort for guys to be able to want
to interact with you. or girls, whichever you prefer. I don't assume randomly. xoxox

Happy Clubbin' !
I tell my crush I want to stick my soysauce on her jelly rolls all the time.

Rloco · Answer

If you come off as wanting attention only the wrong type of guys will give it to you. Also if you are attractive you could be intimidating to most guys. I have some self esteem issues and probably wouldn't approach a beautiful girl in a club. But that could just be me.

luvme56 · Answer

wear this... and no one will stop looking at you!

Anonymous · Answer

Don't be so desperate for the attention maybe. You can always smell desorption a mile off and it is SO unattractive. Somebody just having a good time not trying for attention is so much more attractive.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

Wear something revealing

front2back · Answer

Try acting more slutty. Like, "I hate my dad and will do anything for male attention/approval" kind of slutty.  Trust me, it will get you noticed. However, maybe not the way you want.

lumos · Answer

Why do you want to get noticed at a club, of all places? Gross.

Your_boss960 · Answer

We need a pic to really know if you look bad or not.  Ummmm maybe you are just intimidating?

Blondiee2014 · Answer

No you sound Sound hot, shame you didn't post a pic so we could know for sure

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

Initiate a conversation? I typically notice someone who is right next to me and talking to me. :P

GoldCobra · Answer

It's not really that hard to get noticed. Just wear a little revealing clothing and go to the dance floor and start dancing. That's all

Anonymous · Answer

When a girl looks like she's desperate for attention or trying too hard guys don't give her the time of day. The trick is to make sure you look confident not desperate.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you stand around waiting to be noticed by guys? Why not approach them rather than just standing back and waiting? Take some initiative.

Anonymous · Answer

you suck. i want to nothing to do with clubs and one night stand- walk of shame culture. dont you have anything better to do in your life than trying to be provocative and satiate your ego?

Anonymous · Answer

Having your boobs practically falling out works well I'm sure.

Destinybae · Answer

cleavage, tight skirts

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