How do you get all eyes on you at a pool party?

[Anonymous]

I am going to my friends pool party and I want to get noticed in a good way, get guys drooling. How do I do that without being trashy?

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I don't have a bad body. But you guys don't understand women apparently, wherever you go you want attention. My friends are really pretty and I want guys to b e looking at me too. I want this to be perfect. Wanting attention isn't trashy, its normald*** head.

[Anonymous]

IA with you some people here have forgotten what it's like to be an insecure teenage girl (or in the case of the guys NEVER KNEW)

Here's some tips. Wear a bathing suit you know you look good in because that will translate to confidence at the party. Don't be overly loud or obnoxious because as mentioned that will come off as desperate attention seeking and you don't want to appear that way. Be friendly to everyone and NO catty comments about other girls to either guys or girls at the party because guys don't like that and girls will repeat it. Paint your fingers and toes really cute to match the bathing suit (cause it'll make you feel cute and that helps with confidence)

have fun! and don't spend all your time comparing yourself to other girls just feel really good about yourself before you get there and be your sweet self :)

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for BA...let us know how it goes!

[Anonymous]

Why does it have to be a competition between you and your friends? For asking this question, I wouldn't necessarily call you immature, but your replies to some of the answers really reveals a lot. Ps. if people are joking in their answer, don't behave so sensitive, defensive, immature and start name calling!

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Find a suit with colors that go well with your skin or hair. Yellow bathing suits always seem to look good on me, for example.

[MrNatrual]

i would say to walk around a lot to make sure all the guys have a chance to see you and make sure there present when ever you do something. Believe me the guys are looking its just matter of making them stare harder at you then the res of the girls. As for the being trashy part I honestly don't think it makes you a trashy person when you want guys to appreciate your body. Just my opinion.

[Asker]

Thanks(: It's just all kinds of guys like my friend and I want to compare to her, ya know what I mean?

[dan123z4]

wear a color bikini that stands out, laugh a lot, but dnt come across as trying to get people to look at you. It happenes all the time girls make rounds on the phone or wtvr over and over and they're so obvious. Just play it cool be out going and relaxed let your personality catch their eye.

[Asker]

Thank You!(:

[misuzi]

I think if you're asking for attention, that desperateness is already trashy.

The best way to get noticed, is to do it without trying to get noticed.

[Asker]

Then every girl is trashy d*** head. Being a teenage girl is all about be noticed!

[misuzi]

Apparently being a teenage girl is all about the surface value of other peoples statements and not seeing the wisdom that lies beneath that can only be seen when you actually think about something

[Asker]

Damn Straight.

[Andrew74]

Get totally sh*t faced. and start shouting. maybe strip down to nothing that's what all the self proclaimed "classy" chicks around me do. ahaha

[Asker]

I said without being trashy lol:p

[PoeticNinja]

Have a total knock out body.

Cute, hot swimming suit.

Canon ball!

[AndeD]

Get really drunk and act super stupid, if you're anything like my ex... You'll do great

[JCK6791]

Here's something you could try... Be yourself. Stop trying so hard to get attention.

[jennhottie17]

the bikini does it all. I have a sheer when wet bikini that the guys can't help but stare

[Anonymous]

do cool flips and jump in the pool or go nude

[Asker]

Hahaha, totally not trashy!;p

[Anonymous]

wardrobe malfunction

[Asker]

Huh?

[Anonymous]

What do you look like; specifics?

[Anonymous]

wardrobe malfunction