My crush messaged me first out of the blue but is taking a long time to reply?

[Anonymous]

So she rarely messages me first but she finally did it today since I've stopped messaging her for the past few days. However, she is taking quite a long time to reply to my message and it's been almost two hours since I sent her the last text.

I am confused. Did she text me because she just missed my attention? Does she really want to talk to me?
I know I might be overthinking it but whatever.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Maybe she's just not a big texter. I'm not one either. I sometimes might take a while to respond to a guy even if I like him because I might be busy or have other things to do. I'm sure she wouldn't have texted you first if she didn't want to talk at least for a while and just see how you're doing. So don't worry about it. Actions speak louder than words and in this case the fact that she texted you first for a change is quite significant. Don't just overlook that. I'm a overthinker too so I get where you are coming from.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot for your opinion! What you said does make a lot of sense. I think you're right and I suppose I should just chill and stop overthinking it. Have a good day, gorgeous.

[XRabbitHeartX]

Thank you for MHO :))

[Asker]

You're welcome (:

[Anonymous]

Are you the same guy from this question? : www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1451336-she-is-never-gonna-text-me-right

I think it's definitely possible she just missed your attention; I've had relationships like that with guys before.. (sorry to be harsh :/ )

[Asker]

Yea I am hahaha.
by the way she always sneaks looks and stares at me in school. Some of her friends told me she could like me back. If she doesn't like me why is she doing that?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm the Anon who said I was in a similar situation, so maybe I'm just projecting and projecting about my own situation :/

That does sound more positive. I really hope it does work out for you <3

[Asker]

Aww thank you sweetheart! I hope everything works out well for you too ♥

[Opinion Owner]

Thank-you :')

[LuiKangBakingAPie]

Maybe she was bored? Or maybe she missed you but then thought "no" when you replied to her right away? Whatever the reason it sounds like hell having a crush on someone like that. Why would you wanna talk to her if she's so distant with you?

[Asker]

Hrm no I didn't reply to her right away I took around half an hour as I was hanging out with my friends.

[Anonymous]

She's either busy or playing mind games.