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Depends on the guy... I'll probably be financially stable to move out as soon as I'm out of college because of my career choice... my brother, on the other hand, should've stayed for another 3 or so years (22 now) because of how he's matured and what he's ready to do.
Just make sure your ready when you go. I would tap this out at around 25 latest, because of the late bloomers.
If you have a job. You be out by 21. If you have no job and your really trying to get one. I would say by 25. If you can't find or get a job then I would leave it up to the parents if there willing to deal with it. Just don't take advantage of asking them for thing all the time if you can't give back. Like money and other thing. You don't want them thinking that your trying to live off of them.
i moved out when I was 17 and lived at my boyfriends house with his parents. then when we were both 24 we got our own apartment together. we broke up last year so now I have my own apt. at age 26. so for a guy I would say by 28 you should be living on your own or at least with a roomate. not your parents. unless your parents are old and they need help around the house.
In todays society it is acceptable for guys to stay at home longer. Although girls seem to be put out of their parents houses by 17/18. Hence some young women are finding things tough. There is no acceptable age to get out of your parents house, it is perceived as such because of todays world. You go back about 30-40 years parents weren't tossing their kids out right after high school or telling them it's time to live on your own. The times we live in.
Why are you preaching sexist bull that's not even true?
It's not if you read.More guys stay at home longer than girls.
Where do you get the impression girls are out of their parents houses by 17/18 when at 17 you can't even get a full time job legally? not without a HS diploma or GED. and anyone who does move out at that age surely aren't supporting themselves.
In TX you can get a full time job. Everyone is worried about when you should leave your parents., when you are ready. And half the girls here are saying after HS, lol. I've known more girls than guys that have left at 17/18. Guys are smarter about it. Stay till you can not live in a dump, while girls are to busy "trying" to be independent and are struggling.
Stop reading cosmo....
Wouldn't know what's in that magazine I read books.
I don't believe that girls with that mentality do read books at all.
Personally if you feel you should be out then by all means leave. There isn't a requirement on it. Be you 18 or older, that's your business, and how you feel about it. If you think living at your parents' home past the age of 20 makes you look pathetic to others maybe you should worry more about what it is you are trying to do/are doing than how others view you.
Wait I've done a mistake, you haven't said anything irritating like many other girls said, why is everybody voting you down? you haven't said that you want boys and girls out to be proud of them... well anyways, it's not about the personal feelings like you said though, it's about the circumstances and life situations that force you into a decision, people don't care about what other people say that much anymore.
Apparently if "friends" and I use that loosely say you're a loser because you choose to live at home versus paying rent you are. My parents wanted me to stay at home so I wouldn't be paying on something I wouldn't own and buy a house a few years after I finished college. I just told them that wasn't really my plan and they helped me find an apartment and I was free to take what was mine...pretty much just what was in my room, lol.
I'm 20 and still live at home because I go to college full time and work part time. I would love to move out, I just cannot afford to.
Spool, most NZers move out of home at 18! People definitely think it is weird to live with your parents after 18. Renting in NZ is easier than practically anywhere in the world. You should be ashamed of yourself for sponging off your parents. It is extremely lame to be living at home, without a job, planning to spend your student allowance on partying. That is not what taxpayers pay student allowance for; they pay it for living expenses. You are a bludger.
U get free money? in NZ??
No, you don't get "free" money! I went to college there. You get government money to help you through school. If your parents are wealthy, you can get a loan, and if they are poor you get a grant (don't have to pay it back). If you live with your parents, you might get tuition help, but are not meant to get anything for living. Somehow this guy is living with his parents AND getting living money. He is stealing that money from other kids and from taxpayers. He is a loser.
I am sorry you look at it that way aye. The way I see if is I am the youngest of all my mates being 19, all but one is living with their parents still past the age of 20. My girlfriends living with her parents, her friends are living with their parents? The only only reason that 1 of my mates has actually moved out is because his parents found him doing drugs, and physically, threw all his belongings outside and told him to "F**ck Off" So, until my mates make the move, it doesn't seem weird 2 me
Just because you have loser mates does not make what you are doing right. You are depleting your parents' retirement savings, you are showing a lack of independence and motivation, and you are mooching off other NZ taxpayers. Student allowances and loans are to help make it POSSIBLE for people to go to university, not to provide spending money. You are stealing from hard-working NZers, some of whom will never have the opportunity to go to university. If your mates jumped off a bridge, would you?
Id surely wait for them to do it first, to see if it was a good idea or not. My parents have the money also, they own a few apartments in the city, in which would be their retirement funds, when they decided they needed the money. I pay rent and all, and I see nothing wrong with it. I am sorry you have had such a hard life and stuff TBH. Last trip to Ausi with 5 grand for a weeks vacation with my mates was extremely fun, I'm thinking Europe or a Canadian snowboarding trip next....Hmmm <3
I have not had a hard life. There are people who have had hard lives. If your parents have so much money, you should not be stealing money from taxpayers and hard-up students through your student loan. That money is for people who need it. If you are still living with your parents, bludging off them, instead of being independent, then you are pathetic. You are an adult and you are living like a little kid.
Lol I am only 19 for Christ sakes, and to hell to the tax payers! I'm a tax payer too, nearly clocked up 2 years working so about time for me to sit back and earn that money back that the government stole from me.
You are a spoiled, entitled little boy. The taxes you have paid so far don't nearly cover what you are taking from other taxpayers. You are 19 years old, an adult, and if you have enough time to be online so much at this site, you have time to go out and get a job and become independent instead of bludging off other people.
Lol iv earned 67k in about one and a half years worked, but oh no, the tax iv payed is nothing to the pathetic 3k loan I have so far from student allowance payouts, o0o0o nooo's how terrible=''(
You are right. The tax you have paid so far IS nothing compared to the money other tax payers have spent on your school and university education and your health care. If you want to be a child forever and live with mummy and daddy, fine. But don't make other NZers pay for it.
Lol I'll make them pay for as much as possible, really couldn't give a f*** tbh.
Ok I'm confused here, I go to college full time and also work 32+ hours a week. However, since I work in a retail position I can't afford to move out and go to college at the same time. I live with my parents and pay them rent. I work hard in school and have applied for several scholarships with no success. Would I also be considered a loser since I want to be able to go to college and I wouldn't be able to afford to if I moved?
Whenever you're physically and mentally mature and healthy enough to support yourself on a consistent basis, and you want independence. That time is different for every individual.
Hell I moved out when I was 15, it really depends on when you are ready, just do it when you are ready its not something to be ashamed of... I knew a guy that was living with his mom when he was 30 years old... and my bosses brother when I was in high school who was 41 was living with his parents, due to other circumstances... Just do it when you are ready lol
I think it should be the age of teenagers(18-24).
Its not like that there will be problem with living in mom's house.Since if you have the income source then you may have no reason to think about leave.
It is the problem of girls not guys.
Thnx
What do you mean its the girl's problem?
Ya dude income is everyones problem if you can't afford it then there's nothing wrong with living at home
Girls marry to a person and can handle their life with her man.....but talking about home...is somewhat forward......I am not saying girls can't but actually its harder.
My boyfriend moved out with his friends when he was 15. And that's what makes a boy a MAN!
his 23 right now, and he owns his own Parpar shop and apartment .
& when did you move out?
Yeah nothing turns a boy into a man like living with a bunch of other guys
I havnt moved out yet. am moving in with him in couple of months :)
I can't believe you are 18..... ugh people my age
Bullsh*t :?
I'm 23 right now, turning 24 next January and still living at home. Though I gotta say I'm more of a man than some others... ;-) I plan to move out first quarter next year and that's just when I can afford it to have a home I ENJOY coming home to... that's just the time I can afford buying the furniture and stuff that I want.
99% of all 15 yo - even with friends - can't achieve that and this is solely due to financial reasons
Lol why can't you belive am 18?....
Being attracted to that kind of guys who was brought up on streets explains why you spell "Parper" like that
I know that its "Barbar" I just like spelling stuff the way I say it. And stop hating I bet you are a old b*tch who still lives with his mama. FAqittt
"Barber" :p baiittchhh
No, that's what makes a boy an idiot. not a man. and you moving in with him might turn into a big mistake at only 18. that's what people meant when they said they couldn't believe you were 18.
Thanks for expressing what I had on mind jeeperss, that's why we're sick of immature girls.
Never asked for ur opinion.
It's prefferrable to be moving out after you're 21 or so. If you go to school in the same area where your parent(s) live, you can live with them until you get your degree. If you work, then you should try and move out asap anyway.
I think if your a dude, you gotta GTFO by about 18. buy ur own pad or go to college and take up a dorm.
If your a chick its different. I say you can live at home til you find the right guy to move in with. anything over 25 is weird tho
when a guys is ready and capable of carrying responsibility ON HIS OWN.
and there is no problem in a guys staying with his mother, it doesn't mean he is not ready to be responsible though.
and if he is living on his own just doesn't mean he is btw
Girls who may be hypocritical on the matter are of no concern. I know why I don't live on my own yet and whether or not people understand that is irrelevant.
I agree mate...
Wen he's in his 30's I think
but y move out wen you dnt hav 2?
My guy friend iz 25 and livs with his mom and I think itz totally cool
Even if its my guy
its ok lol
30, that was the standard in Greece and Rome times, and that's were our culture comes from. If you can do it early I don't see the problem either. Jesus left at age 30.
I think that it depends on family dynamics and the persons culture. So I don't think that I could pick a certain age
id say its not about age, its about when you can afford it. I'm 21 and still live at home. I have a part time job and go to school but definitely couldn't afford to live on my own
depends on a lot of things. but I would say 22 since that is the average when people grad from university
Well if a girl is still living with her parents, then she can't cay at all when is the right time for a guy to be on his own.
After college you rly shouldn't b living with ur mommy.. It's a turnnoff... You should b able to fend for yourself and get a job
So easy to say......but so few are able to do it. that's cause they are incredible debt.
i think around 21 if he is old enough to drink ur old enough to get the hell out of your moms house
when he is able to support himself and when he is ready to start looking for someone to start a live with he needs to be out of his mothers house
As soon as it's possible. at least 25 though.. You should be financially Dependant by then, and if not, you f#cked up.
This all depends on what age you feel a guy grows a set of balls?
The two tend to happen rather close together!
move out by age 22/23. you don't wanna bring ur girlfriend home to ur parents and go up to ur kiddie room. that's a no-no. i, personally, think you should be out by 20 or 21.
And at what age should a girl move out? when did you?
Get a life instead of looking into guys pockets and careers, how a guy manages his life is not ur freaking business, try to be a little bit independent yourself instead of depending on guys to buy you cool stuff.
I don't see why you're judging her. she didn't mention anything money-related or career-related. she just mentioned not bringing your girlfriend to do it in your childhood bedroom, which I also happen to think is kind of weird. although I'd say probably past 22/23. more like 24-25? for both guys and girls. I don't particularly like how the question asker is hounding every girl here asking her when she moved out. stop trying to find hypocrisy between the genders. it's annoying.
Ha.me get a life? ur the one asking the question, buddy. and I said nothing about money or careers. I'm just saything that you shouldnt bring a girl to ur kid bedroom. ha. we don't like thatt. and I don't depend on guys to buy me sh*t. I have my own job and money. unlike you who still lives with mommy and daddy. get a f***ing apartment. damn. its not that hard. get a job. move into an apartment. and pay the rent. damn. ur f***ing crazy!
Now I know why this RITARD marked her question off as anonymous.
Xeno, you're right, noticing her childish answer was a waste of electricity.
There is no definite number and it depends on the person and their life situation but I think early 20s is a good age.
Girls are different when it comes to moving out. That doesn't apply. A guy should move out when there are no valid excuses to stay. Valid excuses being school, sick parent, no job(when actually looking), or other serious unavoidable things.
How about underemployment?
Mind explaining why its different with girls?
When you got a job and you can support yourself. That is when you can move out!
I'm 30 and living at home. If I have to put up with it for another 30 years, that's not a big deal.
Damn that's Sad.. I would understand 18 to 24 but Your 30 still at home.. From how you type your message, you don't plan on living on our own.. I know no girl wants to have anything to do with you... My advice to you move out as soon as possible
And move where exactly?
I live in Vancouver. The housing is expensive, the jobs are hideous, and the parents have all the amenities I love, all for free. I'd be a fool to change a thing.
Thumbs up buddy, ur parents are million times better than any of those mean gold digger immature girls.
Thanks! They do have their good side, to be sure!
Wat becos you think girls are gol diggers this is just rong you shud not b living with ur mum an dad at 30 years old ur a man get a life it so un indepedant its applys to girls aswell..i wu never go for a amn hu still lived with his mum and dad at 30 makes you look like you have a mind of a little kid its such a turn off seriously
Sweetycakes, I wouldn't want you even if you paid me, stop harassing and get a life.
18. And it should be the same standard for girls. Whether you think it's 18 or 37 I don't see why it should differ for guys and girls.
I find it quite un attractive when a guy is not out by say 25. But that's just me, and yes it is a bit hyprocritical. But so is many things that guys do as well. Its just a balance..let it be
1. A guy should be moved out at least by 30.
2. If he's having finical difficulties, I can understand him leaving at his mom's
3. Most girls are a bit hypocritical on any issue, so on this, yes.
I was out at 16 working a fulltime job - now I'm medically retired frm active duty and need someoen to care for me since I can't work anymore - so - I invited my famiyl to MY house.
i don't think it matters, he should move out whenever he wants. know guys who are 27yrs old still living at home.
I see a lot of guys on here who don't want to move out because they know they will have to live more cheaply. Self respect, people. Pathetic.
Ok. what about yourself? when did you move out?
There is no specific age you move out either when you chose to or when your parents tell you to get the hell out.
Any age past 27. I guess some girls could be hypocritical... but it depends.
At the price of everything these days, poor salary, and tough job market, how can someone expect NOT to live with their parents?
i think a year after school ends. so if you only completed high school then 19 if not then if varies.
I see nothing wrong with a guy living at home as long as he is getting himself together and not living in moms basement with no job at age 27. I think it's smart as long as he is paying off pills, ya know getting himself straight.
I moved out at age twelve to live with an inuit tribe.
Stay thirsty my friends.
whenever he can be able to support himself.
I think it depends on the life goals of the person.
If the guy is going to college: 22
If he isn't: 19
I'll keep it simple, before your 25
2 years out of college
Right after you have graduated...18
I'd say between 20 and 25 is best.
All of you kids are funny
25
i'd say 20 max
REally? what age did you move out?
Haha I'm not speaking from experience but that is just my opinion
With 20 MAX
So you say it's better to life a poor life on your own (Yes, with 20 you have no way to earn a QUALITY life), than to wait a few more years, safe money, get a good job and then move out living the life you really want?
That's interesting...
I feel like you only say that because at 16 you're probably always annoyed by having parents on your back and think, omg I can't wait to be out of the house. it sounds like my little sister and her friends. I'm not saying it's immature or anything, my sister happens to be very mature for her age (almost 16), but that's what most people your age say. she keeps saying how lucky I am to be living on campus and away from home. sure, independence is great. but so is fiscal responsibility.
Sorry. just trying to help...but I get where you guys are coming from. Its totally logical to stay at your parent's house until you can support yourself completely. I mean, the resource is there. Why not use it?
whenever you want no limit
21-23
at 12
21, 24 at the latest
whenever you finish college.
before 30
30.