Do any outgoing guys like shy girls?

[Anonymous]

So do any outgoing guys like shy girls? Not the shy that won't confront you, but in general just doesn't talk unless spoken too.

[ThisDudeHere]

Sometimes it's hard to do conversation if it seems like the other party isn't interested in participating. Especially if they never start a convo themselves. I'm not saying you should talk over the place but start something once in a while, otherwise he'll feel like he's pulling all of the weights without gaining anything.

[Asker]

He knows that I like him, because I have told him and I always start the text conversations and he always starts the face to face conversations, but once talking I do engage in conversation with him.

[ThisDudeHere]

Well then you're fine. But just please don't be one of those girls who expect the guy to do every thing. If there at some point does come a time when he can't come up with something to say, don't expect him to. Say something yourself.

Or you can enjoy the silence but whatevs.

[IcanByourHero]

shyness doesn't meant that she reply only when the guy asks her something. if she will behave like this i will sounds like that she is not interested in that guy. i am trying to date such kind of girl now, she is a stranger to me and obviously she is not interested :(

[Asker]

Actually because of my past I just don't talk, he knows I like him.

[IcanByourHero]

forget that past memories and make your present more beautiful. be more frank with him, share every moment of your day.

[Boomchakalaca]

Im shy and been dating an outgoing guy of 5 years. It can be annoying and exhausting at times. Like once, we went to shop at victorias secret and he pulled a drawer with panties in it and picked a panty up and smelled it right near a worker 😨 i was embarrassed.

[Infernuss]

I've seen some outgoing guys dating shy girls, but they aren't shy around him usually

[Asker]

Right! I'm a general shy girl, but around the guy I like I'm not too shy.

[asphaltrhymes]

That's an excellent original answer. I really like that wording also. Mmm. I've seen it myself many times in real life, sometimes being the wandering eyes guy I am and just observing life, I'm like, it's funny how everyone's got their own... personality 👍🏻👀

[asphaltrhymes]

And that's so right, not shy around 'the him' at all. I guess we all do it, maybe we get used to or make exceptions for friends, or crushes, or once we get to know, uh, people. Whatever, shrugs 🙂🙂

[MrOracle]

Some specifically don't, because they are used to and prefer to deal with other outgoing people, but I would say that most guys, outgoing or otherwise, don't mind if a girl is shy.

The real problem - and this is a problem for all shy people - is that their shyness usually keeps them from sending out the right signals at the very beginning, so it's really hard for relationships to get established in the first place. If you can get past that roadblock - at least making sure they know that you are shy, rather than uninterested, then most guys will be fine if you are shy.

[zeitgeist057]

Yes, but it has put me in a weird spot before, in that I have met some shy (?) cute girls and talked to them. They opened up a bit and were interesting, to the point I thought they were maybe flirting back or interested in me. But for example, I just met this girl and I asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said yes, but she was acting so nervous it made me nervous for her, and I felt like she was uncomfortable (that's what nervousness is, discomfort/anxiety) so I low key stopped trying to hang out with her because I didn't want her to be uncomfortable. I also wasn't 100% sure if she liked me or what.

It seems like from what you wrote you've been clear with your crush that you like him at least. So if he is not taking you up on it, maybe he's not interested?

[GreenTeaIceCreamPlz]

Yes I'm quite talkative and outgoing myself and I have the hugest crush on a shy girl at work atm. For me at least shy girls intrigue me as I'm used to connecting with people instantly so it's interesting to try and slowly get her to open up and reveal herself to me.

[asphaltrhymes]

Hmm I'd prefer them to be a mix (and I'm not outgoing that much, if at all). But usually more on the quietly confidently assured and comfortable in their own personality and their own skin. If that make sense? ☮️✌🏻Not a nerd, not a drama queen, not a party animal, not a recluse either and not a silent either. I feel like I have a clue, but I haven't explained this all too well.

Ah well 😌 and that's what I like 🙃

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'm very outgoing and I love shy girls. They're like a mystery I have to solve, and they're often the best in bed. Shy girl pussy is good pussy. Lots of shy girls would rather express themselves physically than with words. And shy girls love it when a guy has the balls to approach them and break through their shell, which means that guys like me get rewarded for having the courage to go after them.

[Asker]

Yesss... I do find it flattering when a guy approaches me. Like the guy I like did when we first met.

[asphaltrhymes]

It's nicer when they have a quietly confident aura about them. But not to be unexpectedly surprised by drill sergeant either, uh uh not my type. But it's nice when some people are just breezily... mmm 🌬️🍃😋 like, emojis ✌🏻☮️

[asphaltrhymes]

(continued) I'm with you man, mostly. But I couldn't date like nerdy or too shy women. Or too loud mouthed either. Or too unsure. Anyways. I feel like I know what I like, even if I don't word my words. Anyways peace. 😁

[Krillanr]

I'm pretty outgoing and I really like shy girls, but I don't want to work just to get her to talk to me, her discomfort will make me uncomfortable unless I understand her well enough, and I can't understand her without info about her, and I can get info about her cause she's too shy to tell me. -_-

[jjj101010]

Yes, they seem more interesting as they don’t give things away

[HighlanderTheOne]

And vice versa?

[Joker_]

@Fleuru

[In_Trance]

Some do, some don't

[karekaaaa]

Yess i do