Do guys like outgoing girls?

[angeltears2010]

I mean I'm outgoing as I could go up to someone and start a conversation without even knowing their name. I'm confident and I'm also a bigger girl. (working on that part.) I'm shy about some things, but mostly I can talk about anything. I always get stuck in the friend zone.

While my friend who can't even stand a guy looking at her, much less speaking to her gets all of the guys. They ask her out and flirt with her.

Am I doing something wrong? Or do guys just prefer shy girls?

[Little-Hippie]

Guys don't really have friend zones.

We have girls that we'd like to get physically involved with, and girls we'd rather not.

It's literally one dimensional like that.

And sure, if a girl is is friendly and outgoing, I'm going to feel more confident that I can talk to her without getting an adverse reaction. But my reliance on this is pretty much based on the fact that I would have wanted to talk to her whether she was outgoing or shy and quiet.

So Being outgoing doesn't generate any attraction, but it's definitely a nice facilitating lubricant for action based upon an attraction that was already brewing.

We're very visual creatures, us men.

[planetearth]

Yes I like both types of girls. Being really outgoing could label you a flirt though. I've known many girls that are like that, and it turns me off. I think it's because the attention I get is the same as everyone else. It sounds ridiculous but I don't feel special, and would rather feel secure in a relationship, rather than guessing what her intentions are.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

i noticed guys like outgoing girls a lot but the fact that your currently big has a lot to do with it. however if the girl is attractive then it doesn't matter if she's shy or not

[WeaponZero]

Generally guys love outgoing girls. I however find myself to be an exception because when a stranger walks up to me and tries to talk to me it creeps me out. Hot girl or creepy dude, it's all the same. Strangers creep me out.

[Bigrollerskater]

Some guys do prefer shy girls but as for myself I would prefer a woman who is outgoing and even would be willing to say how she feels rather than be not telling me. I don't start conversations due to not wanting to be rejected. If I do say anything its usually a compliment about a woman's clothing or her feet or footwear.