Can a married woman pose nude for a figure drawing session with her not married guy friend (artist)? what if the artist is nude also? Is it cheating?

[KObyDesign]

I am married, my guy friend is not, though he has been in a committed relationship for 2 years now. I have known him for 5 years. I trust his intentions are pure as he has done this a number of times and have spoken with a few of the girls about the experience and seen the results. He is not a professional portrait artist and does not pay his models. He does not keep the drawings but will give them to the girls when the session is over. They are very well done and wouldn't mind having some of my own. My moral dilemma is that some of the other girls have requested he draw in the nude as a term of the deal since they aren't getting paid. While I am not sexually attracted to him, I have heard stories about him and am a little curious to see if they are true. Can I ask him to be nude, or is it cheating? Do I need to ask my husband for permission?

[SomeGuy37]

If you want your artist nude, because you 'heard stories about him and am a little curious' says you are setting the moment TO cheat, with him! You seem interested in him, but from an artistic point of view, he SHOULD say NO to being nude, with you, as that isn't part of the art, unless there is a third party, creating art, of the creation of art.
Lines should be clearly defined, before anyone takes anything off!!
I'm not judging, or condemning you in any way, but it seems like you have some 'curiosity' about this artist guy, and trying to figure that out through the art probably won't work! It's going to end badly, if you go on.

[Zigzagz]

That's really strange. The guy who is drawing shouldn't have to be nude.

[BeeNee]

If you are already questioning whether you are cheating or not telling your husband about it, that should be an indication that things aren't quite on the up and up in this situation. Be honest about everything that is going to happen there, if you go through with it, with your husband. If he says no, you need to respect that because the situation is different then just a drawing because of the nudity involved. I also see absolutely no reason your friend needs to be nude to draw you in the nude.

[Anonymous]

Um why not just let your husband come with you? That's what I'd do. Then you're not hiding anything, he's right there with you, and you get a well-done naked drawing of yourself. Maybe you could even have one together? Oooh that'd be hot.

Also, the artist doesn't need to be naked, I don't really get that. He's there to draw you, not be drawn.

[Sara413]

Nothing wrong with getting the portraits done, but I think it is unwise and disrespectful to your husband for you to have your friend also be nude. There is no purpose for him being nude.

[Humping_Tornadoes]

Agreed.

[Eliora1]

I think requesting that he's nude is pushing it a little. Personally if I were your husband and you did that I'd be hurt. But having yourself drawn nude is fine.

[Frost_Byt3]

I don't think its exactly cheating, but if i was in his shoes, the thought of it would make me really unfomfortable, and I'd ask you not to do it.

But your husband may be different. I don't think its cheating, but i think its something you should run by your husband before doing it.

[Octavius]

Why do you want him nude?

https://i.imgur.com/NuQDu.jpg

[Scrambled]

Anything you have to hide from your husband is cheating. You are only as sick as the secrets you keep;) if you still want to do it on secret, then do it, you live one life. You know what you would do in the end anyway.

[PinkWallet]

You will have to tell your husband about it. You need to know that he's OK with it before you actually go on with it. It wouldn't surprise me if he's got to think twice about you asking your friend to be naked during the session.

You could ask you husband to join to give him a fair chance to know for sure that nothing else than what you told him happens.

[KDA20]

It is a bit morally dubious - If it was just you posing for pic I would be no prob but you wanting to see him nude seems to be crossing a line

[Shaft50]

What is the point of being drawn nude? Will it be a present for hubby? If not, get hubby along for the experience? It could be a thrill for both of you...

[Bandit74]

would you consider it cheating if he posed nude for a female friend without telling you?

[LibraPisces66]

Exactly. Especially if the female "artist" is going to be nude.

[GirlsLie]

hahaha

[Sexualchrist]

If I was married it wouldn't sit well with me if my wife was getting naked for a male "friend"

[NYkid27]

As long as you talk to your husband about it first I think it's fine

[Candy12345]

You should ask him first since he might get the wrong idea.

[SakuraChii]

Maybe you should ask your husband first

[LibraPisces66]

Hmmm... stories, eh? Just what kind of stories?

[gapminder]

Do whatever feels right,

[alonzoslade]

HELL YES IT IS, ARE YOU CRAZY!!!

[thedenzzz]

there's nothing wrong in cheating.

[Libarena]

Sure.

[JennieF]

Yeah